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Serious Gender Question
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Ground wrote:
Vanity wrote:
Doghead wrote:
from a really early age i already hated dressing feminine and i've always been a tomboy rly
but ngl i've denied my identity for so long because i thought i was just a 'confused woman' but the more time has gone i've realized i never have identified with being a woman
n idk through some search within myself i've come to the conclusion and to terms with that i am nonbinary
i don't identify neither as a woman nor a man
i'd say i feel like i'm inbetween,,in the middle of the scale basically
i know i feel much better when people use they/them pronouns abt me because it's what i've always felt, just not having been able to express that
i'm still exploring tho n still trying to find myself within my own identity, but it feels good being out online at least
when the time is right i will come out irl as well,, but i'm not gonna rush anything

but a tip i could give is, let it take time, try out different things, research and listen to other people's stories etc!! it can help understanding urself as well as others!

I think I don't mind what pronouns people use for me, whether it's he, she or they I won't mind as long as you use it with respect, and I think that's a big part of why I'm confused, because I don't mind any of them
some people use more than one pronoun and other use one,, nothing is right or wrong!
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:42
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talent wrote:
im with lamb in the genders not real category although i can conceptualize and understand them... i just dont like them and i dont subscribe 2 them. most people wouldnt assume it abt me because i was born male nd look/present male but a lot of it is i just dont feel comfortable yet not dressing like. fully conforming with what is considered the male gender. im sure when im living on my own ill get more in2 it
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:43
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uhyre wrote:
talent wrote:
im with lamb in the genders not real category although i can conceptualize and understand them... i just dont like them and i dont subscribe 2 them. most people wouldnt assume it abt me because i was born male nd look/present male but a lot of it is i just dont feel comfortable yet not dressing like. fully conforming with what is considered the male gender. im sure when im living on my own ill get more in2 it
self expression? best part off living on ur own
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:47
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Bimbo wrote:
talent wrote:
im with lamb in the genders not real category although i can conceptualize and understand them... i just dont like them and i dont subscribe 2 them. most people wouldnt assume it abt me because i was born male nd look/present male but a lot of it is i just dont feel comfortable yet not dressing like. fully conforming with what is considered the male gender. im sure when im living on my own ill get more in2 it

That's very much my situation too, I just dress like a regular guy because my country isn't really the most progressive, so I just avoid everything by dressing "guy"
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:48
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talent wrote:
lamb wrote:
talent wrote:
im with lamb in the genders not real category although i can conceptualize and understand them... i just dont like them and i dont subscribe 2 them. most people wouldnt assume it abt me because i was born male nd look/present male but a lot of it is i just dont feel comfortable yet not dressing like. fully conforming with what is considered the male gender. im sure when im living on my own ill get more in2 it
self expression? best part off living on ur own
yeah i would like to move out some time... love my mom but she very politely and nicely says she doesnt like when i paint my nails and she has a good heart so im just gonna hold on till im out
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:50
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Miguel wrote:
im gnc, always felt different for not liking the same clothing other girls my age liked
i guess i also used to question if i was a trans man, but it just did not make sense to me at some point
im proud of being a gnc girl who also aspires to become a drag king, its neat
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:50
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rottomilko wrote:
DUCKBOY wrote:
im gnc, always felt different for not liking the same clothing other girls my age liked
i guess i also used to question if i was a trans man, but it just did not make sense to me at some point
im proud of being a gnc girl who also aspires to become a drag king, its neat

yes ducky!
same
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:51
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talent wrote:
god thats another thing im doing as soon as i move out... starting to collect some drag...
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:52
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Miguel wrote:
Melk wrote:
DUCKBOY wrote:
im gnc, always felt different for not liking the same clothing other girls my age liked
i guess i also used to question if i was a trans man, but it just did not make sense to me at some point
im proud of being a gnc girl who also aspires to become a drag king, its neat

yes ducky!
same
<3
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:52
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rottomilko wrote:
DUCKBOY wrote:
Melk wrote:
DUCKBOY wrote:
im gnc, always felt different for not liking the same clothing other girls my age liked
i guess i also used to question if i was a trans man, but it just did not make sense to me at some point
im proud of being a gnc girl who also aspires to become a drag king, its neat

yes ducky!
same
<3
i will support u 
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i am omnipresent 
Date: 14-01-2021 19:55
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Claire wrote:
wow this thread is pretty based for being a gender thread on vp
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Date: 14-01-2021 19:57
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Versailles wrote:
ive been tomboy as kid, teen and sometimes now as well. Not your typical feminine conforming woman and used to think im nonbinary as 13 y/o since i dont "feel like any gender" which i found out later on doesnt matter since a lot of the things ive questioned were solely gender norms on how one act or look like. I didnt and dont have body dysphoria, other than i wish my breasts were a bit flatter lol. 
Hope u find out but dont stress anything.
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Versailles wrote:
ive been tomboy as kid, teen and sometimes now as well. Not your typical feminine conforming woman and used to think im nonbinary as 13 y/o since i dont "feel like any gender" which i found out later on doesnt matter since a lot of the things ive questioned were solely gender norms on how one act or look like. I didnt and dont have body dysphoria, other than i wish my breasts were a bit flatter lol. 
Hope u find out but dont stress anything.
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Date: 14-01-2021 20:06
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke. 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.
i think i had same kind of experience of that. because i never liked "girly" things when i was a kid. i was into videogames, football,i liked to dig up worm from dirt, i abolute refused to wear a dress etc... my bestfriend was a boy and never really get along with other girls in my class. or i did but i did not made friends with them
so needless to say, there's been that "that's not what you're supposed to do/like" pressing for my whole life
i think it's big part of why i felt i might be trans. when i told my big sister she was like "-.- like i didn't know since you were 3"
so yeah it be like that
imo it sounds like you were a tomboy who was treated like shit for being a tomboy and not a girly girl girl like society wanted you to be.

and now, it can be hard handling the emotions around womanhood - since it's associated with something bad/painful.
yeah excatly

and it's not so painful anymore, but it sure used to be. i don't have pressure to belong or fit in anything anymore and i know i can just vibe and like anything i want regardless of my gender.
but i had that phase where i kinda forces myself to hate anything that it's considered as giry.
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Date: 14-01-2021 20:07
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