Aarada wrote:Gilmore wrote:
Well if I was in your shoes, I'd probably try and get him back. I get that you would rather be his friend than his nothing-at-all, but girl, don't hurt yourself like that. That shit's awful.
Does he want to stay friends? Any feelings left, have you asked?
Also, are you sure you want this guy or is it the idea of him? Be brutally honest. Sometimes we can't recognize what is in front of us because we are too close to the big picture. Take a step back and think about what you actually want. Maybe it's him, maybe it's something you just thought he was.
My logical part of my brain = you're being delusional and you're only in love with the idea of him
My feelings = ah, I don't like the sound of that
But in all seriousness, I feel so connected to him in a spiritual level. I feel like we're meant to be together. I feel like I could go my entire life without him and never care for or love anybody else as much as I do with him. Maybe it's stupid. Maybe it doesn't make any sense. But my feelings are stupid and making my life miserable.
Look I felt the same with my guy and didn't realize I was just being fucking insane. I know this is so not the same situation since he was clearly a piece of shit, but you'll never know how you really feel about him if you always have him in your life as a constant reminder.