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Versailles wrote:
I mean, it's hard to get over someone you really like and can't imagine to be without. It's still extremely bad idea if you want to stay friends. You'll still have some hope, and maybe one day he gets a new girlfriend and it will hurt you, a lot.
The quicker you accept it won't be you & him it'll get better, just hang on and talk with friends or family about the issues and stay busy. 
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:26
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Be friends but from a distance..at least for now
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:28
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Arthema wrote:
Bad, don't do it
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:32
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Gilmore wrote:
Well if I was in your shoes, I'd probably try and get him back. I get that you would rather be his friend than his nothing-at-all, but girl, don't hurt yourself like that. That shit's awful. 

Does he want to stay friends? Any feelings left, have you asked?

Also, are you sure you want this guy or is it the idea of him? Be brutally honest. Sometimes we can't recognize what is in front of us because we are too close to the big picture. Take a step back and think about what you actually want. Maybe it's him, maybe it's something you just thought he was.
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:32
Aarada
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Aarada wrote:
Versailles wrote:
I mean, it's hard to get over someone you really like and can't imagine to be without. It's still extremely bad idea if you want to stay friends. You'll still have some hope, and maybe one day he gets a new girlfriend and it will hurt you, a lot.
The quicker you accept it won't be you & him it'll get better, just hang on and talk with friends or family about the issues and stay busy. 
He's kind of giving me false hope because he keeps trying to contact me even though I've ghosted him and not treated him ideally. But honestly, as bad as this may sound I'd prefer if he got a new girlfriend and we just remained as friends. If that's the alternative to having him gone from my life forever I think that's the less hurtful option. And I'm already feeling pretty hurt. 
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:34
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:37
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Emiliaaaaaaa wrote:
sounds like me, i still thinking of someone from my high school that was hella nice to me. yes.
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:38 | Times changed: 1
Aarada
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Aarada wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Well if I was in your shoes, I'd probably try and get him back. I get that you would rather be his friend than his nothing-at-all, but girl, don't hurt yourself like that. That shit's awful. 

Does he want to stay friends? Any feelings left, have you asked?

Also, are you sure you want this guy or is it the idea of him? Be brutally honest. Sometimes we can't recognize what is in front of us because we are too close to the big picture. Take a step back and think about what you actually want. Maybe it's him, maybe it's something you just thought he was.
My logical part of my brain = you're being delusional and you're only in love with the idea of him
My feelings = ah, I don't like the sound of that

But in all seriousness, I feel so connected to him in a spiritual level. I feel like we're meant to be together. I feel like I could go my entire life without him and never care for or love anybody else as much as I do with him. Maybe it's stupid. Maybe it doesn't make any sense. But my feelings are stupid and making my life miserable.
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:41
Aarada
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Aarada wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Classic song. Thank you
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:41
Aarada
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Aarada wrote:
Emiliaaaaaaa wrote:
sounds like me, i still thinking of someone from my high school that was hella nice to me. yes.
Looks like we're in the same (tragic) boat. Hopefully we'll get through this somehow 
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:42
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Emiliaaaaaaa wrote:
Aarada wrote:
Emiliaaaaaaa wrote:
sounds like me, i still thinking of someone from my high school that was hella nice to me. yes.
Looks like we're in the same (tragic) boat. Hopefully we'll get through this somehow 
naaah, kinda? but at least its an ex u have lol

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Date: 19-01-2021 19:43
Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
Aarada wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Well if I was in your shoes, I'd probably try and get him back. I get that you would rather be his friend than his nothing-at-all, but girl, don't hurt yourself like that. That shit's awful. 

Does he want to stay friends? Any feelings left, have you asked?

Also, are you sure you want this guy or is it the idea of him? Be brutally honest. Sometimes we can't recognize what is in front of us because we are too close to the big picture. Take a step back and think about what you actually want. Maybe it's him, maybe it's something you just thought he was.
My logical part of my brain = you're being delusional and you're only in love with the idea of him
My feelings = ah, I don't like the sound of that

But in all seriousness, I feel so connected to him in a spiritual level. I feel like we're meant to be together. I feel like I could go my entire life without him and never care for or love anybody else as much as I do with him. Maybe it's stupid. Maybe it doesn't make any sense. But my feelings are stupid and making my life miserable.
Look I felt the same with my guy and didn't realize I was just being fucking insane. I know this is so not the same situation since he was clearly a piece of shit, but you'll never know how you really feel about him if you always have him in your life as a constant reminder.

If you truly only care/love/like the idea of him, you're wasting time and ruining your life by being stuck on someone who you don't genuinely want.
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:43
Private
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Rouya wrote:
2 month old message? no

if he had sent it to you yesterday, then yeah maybe, sure, but replying to a message sent 2 months ago is always a no. if you want to talk to him, you can message him about something else unrelated or whatever, but dont reply to what he wrote. if he then asks you like "oh why didnt you reply to the other message" just tell him you didnt see it or whatever idk

but also if he doesnt want to be with you and you're still madly in love, then i dont think pursuing a friendship is the best idea for the time being. maybe try to get over him instead and work through why you're so hung up on him. when you're no longer in love, you can be friends, but unrequited love for an ex makes for a bad recipe for friendship.
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Date: 19-01-2021 19:47
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Eveningmoon wrote:
I think it might be better for you to not to speak with him if you still feel that he is somehow "the only one". Clear those feelings first if you want friendship, I don't think it's going to end up well otherwise.
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