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Claire wrote:
cobain wrote:
Claire wrote:
how long you have this job
Since April 2020
do your best to find soemthing else imo 

if it was a matter of getting used to the job youd be used to it by now your boss is wrong about that. this job isnt a good fit for you.
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Date: 30-01-2021 20:04
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
Like they had more ppl in the beginning who had the same position as me. We were 10, now we're 4. I work my shifts alone. So.. taking care of everything on my own. Obviously I've done a good job because I got to stay. I know I do a very good job. I don't understand why they're not listening to my concerns and taking my well being into consideration
And I don't know why they couldn't keep more people because it's fucking needed, they can afford it like omg but they're just a very shitty company. Less employees to pay means more money in their own pockets
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Date: 30-01-2021 20:10
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cobain wrote:
I'll try my hardest to find the time and energy to apply for new jobs. I'll also look into how to get sick leave. My bfs dad is a nurse and very engaged in the union so he knows a lot about work laws and rules, might ask him. And just my own parents bc they know more than I do too
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Date: 30-01-2021 20:11
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cobain wrote:
There's other factors as well that contributes
My bosses constantly minimising me, act like I don't know shit (even though they know I do!!!!!!), talk over my head, try to decide stuff for me etc etc
Gaslighting is not uncommon either so fuck that
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Date: 30-01-2021 20:15
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Junia wrote:
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Junia wrote:
If you have good relationships with your parents, maybe you can ask them for help? For example, they could possibly help you economically. Because in this situation it seems that you do everything you can and your boss doesnt respect that, but at least your parents should understand.
My dad's in a lot of debt he needs to pay off and also sort of homeless atm but he has a full time job but yea, debt
Mom works like 50-75% smth like that and is better off but she still can't support me, not that much at least
I refuse to move back in with my parents cuz I just moved out in june
Ok, that is too bad to hear.

Well, here's another possible solution. Not sure if you really want it, but at least I can give it a chance for mentioning.
Perhaps, if you have a good friend, or someone you trust, maybe you can tell your situation to that person and get help by that person? Because if you're lucky (and are ok with this) maybe you can move in to that person's home instead and not live by yourself so that you can share the rent together. That will possibly be a cheaper way of living at least. I don't know how much this helps with the root, but at least this would make it possible for you to only working part-time in the same job and, yes, you will earn less but at least you will not work all the time.

OR .. if you know somebody that want to move into your home and pay rent with YOU. You can go either way.


Simply find a cheaper way of living. Don't buy many cloths if you do that. Don't by expensive food. Don't go to restaurants. Don't party or at least don't buy alcohol. Yeah, you get what I mean.
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Date: 30-01-2021 21:42 | Times changed: 3
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cobain wrote:
actually i just applied for another job and i'm so happy about it. i don't think im gonna get it or anything like that but its a start, right.... 
its quite a similar job to the one i have now, so kitchen job, but this job i applied for is mon-fri, daytime. something i long for so fucking much bc i can't stand having such a stressful job AND work evenings n weekends tf. but yeah i have what it takes to work there so .. i'm hoping ..
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Date: 31-01-2021 17:43 | Times changed: 1
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cobain wrote:
Today is a mess. The girl who works in the kitchen but opposite shifts from me has covid so someone else had to work for her and the kitchen is a mess n the food?? Idk?? The patties that were supposed to have for dinner doesn't exist and there's literally nothing else to take and I can't take what I want cuz that would get me murdered BUT I HAVE TO BC I HAVE TO MAKE SOMETHING FOR DINNER U KNOW
I literally can't win. If I do nothing - murdered. If I take something else than what it's supposed to be - murdered. So fuck this lol I'm just gonna do whatever and if I get shot, well they'll get shit too bc they're the ones who haven't done their job so that I can't do my job
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Date: 01-02-2021 09:27
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
Going back 2 this thread again to be sad about work lol
I just can't get over how my boss told me to plan better when I told her I find it too stressful and that I can't let the stress/work go when I'm at home. Like wtf is that? Maybe I should ta lk to the union about it bc that doesn't feel OK

Also I've gotten new work tasks since the last time I wrote in this thread lmfao. It keeps coming, even though I don't have the time for it and then I get scolded for not doing it 🥲 
Talked to my coworker that works in the other kitchen and he's a whole ass educated chef, he's worked in many kitchens and even he struggles with the stress and getting everything done so that should tell u something
Just fuck my life basically
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Date: 19-02-2021 09:51
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