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Limbs wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Limbs wrote:
idk my psychologist would really disagree with this
you're like assuming malice when there can be many reasons why something like this would happen
two times tho? i'm pretty sure i'd feel so bad about forgetting it the first time that i'd remember it for the rest of my life
he didn't forget the first time, that was a different thing. 
i see
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Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:

if he forgets my birthday he is telling me that doesnt give a shit about me and im out before he has a chance to do it again. now that hes gotten away with it twice why should he EVER give a shit about it in the future
idk my psychologist would really disagree with this
you're like assuming malice when there can be many reasons why something like this would happen
im not assuming malice im assuming he just doesnt care 

and it happened twice? hes told you what he thinks about your birthday. he doesnt care. 
assuming not-caring then, that's not reasonable nor healthy relationship behavior. you're supposed to talk about things and try to work together not dump someone immediately if they make 1 mistake.
Worm
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omg that breaks my heart actually, i hate when ppl forget bdays, and if it ur bf it DOES MATTER

its easy for us others to just say "break up w him" when we dont know ur relationship, but that is a big deal that he forgot it ://

also it rly hard to let go of ppl u love, and we tend to forgive too much 
but think about urself and if theres nothing else thats wrong in the relationship i think u should talk to him about it and say how u feel

hope u work it out, and dont break up!<3
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Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
idk my psychologist would really disagree with this
you're like assuming malice when there can be many reasons why something like this would happen
im not assuming malice im assuming he just doesnt care 

and it happened twice? hes told you what he thinks about your birthday. he doesnt care. 
assuming not-caring then, that's not reasonable nor healthy relationship behavior. you're supposed to talk about things and try to work together not dump someone immediately if they make 1 mistake.
yes yes youre supposed to let men let you down and disappoint you over and over again while you build up resentment over it lol 
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im so sorry : ( did he forget it in a way where u didnt mention anything about it coming up or did he have any reminders...
because to be honest i don't remember anyones birthdays really not even if im dating someone unless its a really easy to remember date.... but i really feel u i would feel horrible, birthday is ur day definitely u should feel appreciated on that day especially
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Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
im not assuming malice im assuming he just doesnt care 

and it happened twice? hes told you what he thinks about your birthday. he doesnt care. 
assuming not-caring then, that's not reasonable nor healthy relationship behavior. you're supposed to talk about things and try to work together not dump someone immediately if they make 1 mistake.
yes yes youre supposed to let men let you down and disappoint you over and over again while you build up resentment over it lol 
i'm trying NOT to build up resentment over it dude can you read? i made this thread to try and find a way to work through it and communicate with him so he can effectively show that he's sorry and understand that this matters to me and so the issue is resolved. because i don't have much experience with relationships and many ppl here do. but if you wanna just shame me and fight me about it fine, whatever, i give up
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Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
assuming not-caring then, that's not reasonable nor healthy relationship behavior. you're supposed to talk about things and try to work together not dump someone immediately if they make 1 mistake.
yes yes youre supposed to let men let you down and disappoint you over and over again while you build up resentment over it lol 
i'm trying NOT to build up resentment over it dude can you read? i made this thread to try and find a way to work through it and communicate with him so he can effectively show that he's sorry and understand that this matters to me and so the issue is resolved. because i don't have much experience with relationships and many ppl here do. but if you wanna just shame me and fight me about it fine, whatever, i give up

literally not tryna shame u bro i'm tryna help. 

let me ask you this why is it YOUR responsibilty to figure out how HE can apologize effectively??? he shoulda been online asking his internet friends how to fix it. 

you want advice based on experience and i'm giving you exactly that. my experienced advice is don't waste your time on men ever and don't tolerate anything less than perfect from them. raise your standards. thats my advice from my experiences. a man that forgets your birthday isn't good enough for you. doug has never forgotten mine and i have never forgotten his in our almost six years together.
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Why would you have to make his birthday lovely if he doesn't return the favor? 
BunnyButts
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Once I had some friends who forgot my birthday and now we aren't 
I have pretty strict i give what I get policy 
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Oh damn
I just today got so mad
that my friends forgot about my birthday
what a coincidence


But all I can say about it is well...
you can talk to him once about it
if he didn't work on that... you won't be able to do anything about it, as change comes from the person and only them,
I leanred that the hard way 

Also what does "while he has kinda ruined two birthdays in a row for me. " even mean????
A birthday should be special???? even if he has problems remembering dates like...
what the fuck?
my ex started ruining days for me and well
he's an ex

idk how much time yall are together, and hope your relationship looks rn, but you deserve a partner that won't do that
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Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
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twice?? how did he react when he found out? like if I forgot a birthday I would be so embarrassed and literally beg for forgiveness and mark the day on my phone, calendar, computer,... 
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Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i know my delivery comes off harsh sometimes in this type of thread but male behavior is often appalling and offensive to me in a visceral way. 
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Claire wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i know my delivery comes off harsh sometimes in this type of thread but male behavior is often appalling and offensive to me in a visceral way. 
it simply triggering to hear that kind of behavior
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