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Why are you still living with him?

At least you didn't throw the thing at him I guess 
Date: 24-02-2021 21:19
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Barbarella wrote:
It's really time to get out before someone gets hurt.
Fuck that last months rent
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:23
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hutsu wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Why are you still living with him?

At least you didn't throw the thing at him I guess 
because we still have a month in our lease and my mom is moving houses on the 13th so i can't move my things before that

i'm so embarrassed about not being able to control myself when he starts poking around. but idk several other people who have witnessed our fights before have tried to comfort me by saying that he clearly calculates his moves and voluntarily uses my triggers to get me stay in this space that's really unfamiliar to me. i'm not saying that me throwing things is his fault but he makes me feel so incredibly bad and angry that i can't cope with it, i literally have no tools for keeping myself calm in those situations, and i usually end up begging for him to stop and let me calm down but he just keeps going and then usually at some point starts yelling at me for not being able to instantly calm down when he tells me to.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:34
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BrainFilth wrote:
It's really time to get out before someone gets hurt.
Fuck that last months rent
^ Seriously, if there is any way get out 
Date: 24-02-2021 21:35
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Barbarella wrote:
hutsu wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Why are you still living with him?

At least you didn't throw the thing at him I guess 
because we still have a month in our lease and my mom is moving houses on the 13th so i can't move my things before that

i'm so embarrassed about not being able to control myself when he starts poking around. but idk several other people who have witnessed our fights before have tried to comfort me by saying that he clearly calculates his moves and voluntarily uses my triggers to get me stay in this space that's really unfamiliar to me. i'm not saying that me throwing things is his fault but he makes me feel so incredibly bad and angry that i can't cope with it, i literally have no tools for keeping myself calm in those situations, and i usually end up begging for him to stop and let me calm down but he just keeps going and then usually at some point starts yelling at me for not being able to instantly calm down when he tells me to.
This is one of the most twisted things I've ever read, dude.
someone who loved you wouldn't do that.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:38
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Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:41
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hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
i doubt that anyone's pressing charges here but i get the point. i appreciate you being straightforward about this, it's not something to play around with.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:46
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Barbarella wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
yeah
mental health crisis or not - they still send the cops.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:48
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Barbarella wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
i doubt that anyone's pressing charges here but i get the point. i appreciate you being straightforward about this, it's not something to play around with.
He doesn't seem particularly trustworthy so I wouldn't put my bets on that  
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:48
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Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
i doubt that anyone's pressing charges here but i get the point. i appreciate you being straightforward about this, it's not something to play around with.
yea sorry i know im not being gentle at all with what im saying to you but you deserve to hear it straight up and not get babied about t his shit 
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:49
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Barbarella wrote:
like with each post, it seems to be approaching a "you need to find a DV shelter for a month" scenario.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:50
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Claire wrote:
BrainFilth wrote:
like with each post, it seems to be approaching a "you need to find a DV shelter for a month" scenario.
for real yea 
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:50
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Go to ur moms w like, tootbrush, other stuff u need (meds, cream, whatever), some clothes n stuff n live there until u can move ur stuff when she moves houses 
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:53
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hutsu wrote:
BrainFilth wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
i doubt that anyone's pressing charges here but i get the point. i appreciate you being straightforward about this, it's not something to play around with.
He doesn't seem particularly trustworthy so I wouldn't put my bets on that  
i simply have more things on him than he does on me if we start going down that road and he's not dumb. and, if he did, i'd obviously have my thoughts and emotions about it but i'd be fine with facing the consequences of my actions. it probably wouldn't lead to anything tbh if we started reporting each other for things because the whole thing is way too messy and it's pretty much word against word.
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:54
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hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should also keep in mind that if hes the one who ends up with bruises it wont matter that he been provoking you youll be the one facing charges. 
i doubt that anyone's pressing charges here but i get the point. i appreciate you being straightforward about this, it's not something to play around with.
yea sorry i know im not being gentle at all with what im saying to you but you deserve to hear it straight up and not get babied about t his shit 
some things hit harder than others but i think it's a really good thing. it's obviously nice to get supportive and comforting answers too but i need to learn to deal with this a lot better than i currently am
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Date: 24-02-2021 21:56
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