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Venting, how does one get new friends
Hashiyan
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Hashiyan wrote:
you're prolly better than what you give yourself credit for, don't let the negative self-talk get you down
i have a problem with making irl friends too cause of my depression but i was fortunate enough to find some people through a couple of games that i played and now i talk to them regularly and we're planning to meet up after covid is over
idk just finding a way to get to know people even if it's not games is the way to go, even if you're awkward or make people feel bad (which i doubt), there will be some folks that will click eventually
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Date: 26-02-2021 23:38
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Hashiyan wrote:
you're prolly better than what you give yourself credit for, don't let the negative self-talk get you down
i have a problem with making irl friends too cause of my depression but i was fortunate enough to find some people through a couple of games that i played and now i talk to them regularly and we're planning to meet up after covid is over
idk just finding a way to get to know people even if it's not games is the way to go, even if you're awkward or make people feel bad (which i doubt), there will be some folks that will click eventually
Thing is, im sure i am as bad as i think i am.
Thats nice, i hope the meetups go well, good luck :d
Date: 27-02-2021 07:55
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I feel like midas, everything i touch i destroy because of my own selfcentered arse 
Date: 27-02-2021 08:09
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Honestly feeling a lot of the first post here.
The connection I had with my high school friends years ago is shaky and unreliable nowadays, now it's just me mostly

You know when you sit there and think you should have put way more love and effort into your frienships??
It's too late now tho, everyone I knew moved away from here and found new friends/interests.
And a thing I've noticed is that the more time passes, the less I feel like talking to them because I simply don't know what to talk about
Date: 27-02-2021 08:24
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Skullfriend wrote:
Honestly feeling a lot of the first post here.
The connection I had with my high school friends years ago is shaky and unreliable nowadays, now it's just me mostly

You know when you sit there and think you should have put way more love and effort into your frienships??
It's too late now tho, everyone I knew moved away from here and found new friends/interests.
And a thing I've noticed is that the more time passes, the less I feel like talking to them because I simply don't know what to talk about
YESS! people change so fast when u loose contact with them
Date: 27-02-2021 08:34
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Dinalicious wrote:
Skullfriend wrote:
Honestly feeling a lot of the first post here.
The connection I had with my high school friends years ago is shaky and unreliable nowadays, now it's just me mostly

You know when you sit there and think you should have put way more love and effort into your frienships??
It's too late now tho, everyone I knew moved away from here and found new friends/interests.
And a thing I've noticed is that the more time passes, the less I feel like talking to them because I simply don't know what to talk about
YESS! people change so fast when u loose contact with them

Exactly. And I know I changed aswell (in a good way, too), but it all feels sooooo strange.

I think the best thing we can do is to never stop hoping... and learn to accept that things with old friends won't be the same as they used to be! (It's hard, but what isn't)
Date: 27-02-2021 08:52 | Times changed: 1
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Skullfriend wrote:
Dinalicious wrote:
Skullfriend wrote:
Honestly feeling a lot of the first post here.
The connection I had with my high school friends years ago is shaky and unreliable nowadays, now it's just me mostly

You know when you sit there and think you should have put way more love and effort into your frienships??
It's too late now tho, everyone I knew moved away from here and found new friends/interests.
And a thing I've noticed is that the more time passes, the less I feel like talking to them because I simply don't know what to talk about
YESS! people change so fast when u loose contact with them

Exactly. And I know I changed aswell (in a good way, too), but it all feels sooooo strange.

I think the best thing we can do is to never stop hoping... and learn to accept that things with old friends won't be the same as they used to be! (It's hard, but what isn't)
yeah and just appreciate it for what it was at the time. Nothing wrong with that :) 
Date: 27-02-2021 08:57
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
someone should make a dating app but for friends
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Date: 27-02-2021 09:16
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Escobar wrote:
someone should make a dating app but for friends
agreed
Date: 27-02-2021 09:19
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Dinalicious wrote:
Escobar wrote:
someone should make a dating app but for friends
agreed
What do u look for, in ur valueble friend?

Insert hobbies
Insert lifestyle
Insert personality 

lmao
Date: 27-02-2021 09:19
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Dinalicious wrote:
Dinalicious wrote:
Escobar wrote:
someone should make a dating app but for friends
agreed
What do u look for, in ur valueble friend?

Insert hobbies
Insert lifestyle
Insert personality 

lmao
Tinder but for friends. Swipe yes if u share the same hobbies.
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Date: 27-02-2021 09:24
Private
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meilin wrote:
Dinalicious wrote:
Sera wrote:
Tinder 😔✌

Absolutely not
why not though? i've found friends there and we vibee
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Date: 27-02-2021 11:20
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kagura wrote:
idk seriously some stars aligned or something and i just found my kinda of people
i mean we met because of kuntouttava työtoiminta (ok it's like workshop thing for people who can't work/study for several reasons, usually mental health) but i still don't know how the hell we all end up there at the same time and just instantly bonded and became bestfriends
like just bunch of depressed nerds just randomly goes to nature themed work shop at the same time? yes that happened
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Date: 27-02-2021 11:30
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kagura wrote:
Escobar wrote:
someone should make a dating app but for friends
my roommate claims that she has found friends from tinder... but imporant note she's looking only girls,that might help idk. also she said it's been hard to find friends from tinder here in finland, but she lived in california for a half year and claimed it was very common thing there. so might also depend where you live



// oh i also remember once one girl who has a boyfriend told me that they just made tinder together to search other people with dogs so they can
have dog friends XD
and she even said they found someone there
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Date: 27-02-2021 11:37 | Times changed: 1
SYRE
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SYRE wrote:
in in the same place. 
i recently lost my close friends, the ones i hung out with 24/7 and the only other friends i have lives so far away. 
i did download an app for finding friends although it sucks cus no one is good at having conversations so it goes one way and all of the sudden there’s nothing more to say bcus they won’t come up with anything. but also i think you will find friends through work or university, at least i hope 
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Date: 27-02-2021 11:43
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