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my ex lied about paying his half of the rent
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Date: 29-03-2021 17:21
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Date: 29-03-2021 17:28
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Limbs wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
idk how credit disputes work in other countries but you  may be able to fight it
i'm sure i'll find a way to set this right if i'm willing to put in the time and effort, but i'm probably getting some cash back from the social insurance institute and might be able to wing the 200-300€. i won't ever see the money again if i pay it but honestly it might just be worth getting him out of my life.
if you end up having to pay it, collection companies are usually v willing to negotiate and give you a payment plan if you can't pay the whole amount at once. if you're in finland anything you can do to avoid losing your credit is worth it imo
i'll keep this in mind, i haven't ever had to deal with something like this so it's very foreign to me. like i get an occasional note from a collection company if i've forgotten to pay a medical bill but i always pay it immediately(/asap).
a payment plan does sound more reasonable for both parts (me and the company). i hope i can get someone to take the responsibility and pick up the bill but i'd rather sell an organ than lose my credit honestly. it's probably just as sucky in other countries but i only knows about how it affects your life in finland to not have credit, and i'd never ever make a conscious choice to let something as minor as 200-300€ ruin so many things for a period of time.
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Date: 29-03-2021 19:16
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EtherealPJM wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
sell his valuables and run away
the flat is empty and he's taken a bunch of my valuables instead. or tbh most of the things he took aren't much more when talking about monetary value but my things are important to me. probably a lot of things he took he didn't remember being mine/didn't think twice, but it still sucks and he won't sort my stuff apart from his personally and i'm honestly scared to go to his place since he's grabbed/pushed me a couple times in the last two weeks or so. 
you should bring someone to go with you, or report him for theft, he did take your valuables anyways, and if he refuses to give it back it'll be considered as theft but it honestly depends, I'm not good with legal stuff.
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Date: 29-03-2021 19:19
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
sell his valuables and run away
the flat is empty and he's taken a bunch of my valuables instead. or tbh most of the things he took aren't much more when talking about monetary value but my things are important to me. probably a lot of things he took he didn't remember being mine/didn't think twice, but it still sucks and he won't sort my stuff apart from his personally and i'm honestly scared to go to his place since he's grabbed/pushed me a couple times in the last two weeks or so. 
you should bring someone to go with you, or report him for theft, he did take your valuables anyways, and if he refuses to give it back it'll be considered as theft but it honestly depends, I'm not good with legal stuff.
he's not like holding my things hostage, he's said i'm welcome to come and get them anytime but i'm a bit weary about going there. i don't think he'd actually do anything when i go get my things but i'm still scared because of what's happened lately.
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:35
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Barbarella wrote:
hutsu wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
the flat is empty and he's taken a bunch of my valuables instead. or tbh most of the things he took aren't much more when talking about monetary value but my things are important to me. probably a lot of things he took he didn't remember being mine/didn't think twice, but it still sucks and he won't sort my stuff apart from his personally and i'm honestly scared to go to his place since he's grabbed/pushed me a couple times in the last two weeks or so. 
you should bring someone to go with you, or report him for theft, he did take your valuables anyways, and if he refuses to give it back it'll be considered as theft but it honestly depends, I'm not good with legal stuff.
he's not like holding my things hostage, he's said i'm welcome to come and get them anytime but i'm a bit weary about going there. i don't think he'd actually do anything when i go get my things but i'm still scared because of what's happened lately.
Take someone with you.
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:36
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
update: he texted me back today and told me that he's going to take care of it, i must've missed it when he asked me the amount on the bill. he didn't get the letter before because he changed his address and it got redirected. it's not like he couldn't have figured it out himself without the letter since you can check your account online with the collector, but i'm keeping my fingers crossed for him actually handling this. i need to keep checking on it though, not making the mistake of trusting only his word again...

also his mom texted me about something and i called her back,  and i told her about the situation. she's not going to meddle if it's not necessary but now i need to keep her updated too. i feel kinda scummy about talking money issues behind his back but he literally lied to my face about paying it already so i guess it's justified to make sure it gets paid
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:44
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
hutsu wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
you should bring someone to go with you, or report him for theft, he did take your valuables anyways, and if he refuses to give it back it'll be considered as theft but it honestly depends, I'm not good with legal stuff.
he's not like holding my things hostage, he's said i'm welcome to come and get them anytime but i'm a bit weary about going there. i don't think he'd actually do anything when i go get my things but i'm still scared because of what's happened lately.
Take someone with you.
yeah i'm not going alone but i'm not sure if it's enough to have my mom with me
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:46
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Claire wrote:
this is why when you live with a man you dont put urself on the lease lmao so you can just bounce no problems
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:48
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Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
update: he texted me back today and told me that he's going to take care of it, i must've missed it when he asked me the amount on the bill. he didn't get the letter before because he changed his address and it got redirected. it's not like he couldn't have figured it out himself without the letter since you can check your account online with the collector, but i'm keeping my fingers crossed for him actually handling this. i need to keep checking on it though, not making the mistake of trusting only his word again...

also his mom texted me about something and i called her back,  and i told her about the situation. she's not going to meddle if it's not necessary but now i need to keep her updated too. i feel kinda scummy about talking money issues behind his back but he literally lied to my face about paying it already so i guess it's justified to make sure it gets paid
i think you were justified talking to the mom for sure. do everything you gotta do to protect yourself.
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:49
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
this is why when you live with a man you dont put urself on the lease lmao so you can just bounce no problems
i'll keep this in mind.......
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Date: 29-03-2021 23:55
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