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MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:
I never agree with P’lov
but it’s ok to say no
considering all the drama
fam has put you through

Yes, she has been there for you
but at what point do they stop
depending on you?
Since it seems as if you’re the
parental figure in all circumstances
cut the cord, all birds leave the nest

Nor should you feel guilty
especially when she has a sister
a few days/weeks might turn into
months and a year

Anachronism
National star

Anachronism wrote:

MissLondon wrote:
I never agree with P’lov
but it’s ok to say no
considering all the drama
fam has put you through

Yes, she has been there for you
but at what point do they stop
depending on you?
Since it seems as if you’re the
parental figure in all circumstances
cut the cord, all birds leave the nest

Nor should you feel guilty
especially when she has a sister
a few days/weeks might turn into
months and a year

Yeah

Maybe I'm a bitter bitch

But it all feels manipulative

If it weren't for her I'd be a junkie or in foster care lol, I'm so lucky and eternally grateful

But it should be a labor of love... maybe my view is distorted but it feels so tit for tat

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

MissLondon wrote:
I never agree with P’lov
but it’s ok to say no
considering all the drama
fam has put you through

Yes, she has been there for you
but at what point do they stop
depending on you?
Since it seems as if you’re the
parental figure in all circumstances
cut the cord, all birds leave the nest

Nor should you feel guilty
especially when she has a sister
a few days/weeks might turn into
months and a year

Yeah

Maybe I'm a bitter bitch

But it all feels manipulative

If it weren't for her I'd be a junkie or in foster care lol, I'm so lucky and eternally grateful

But it should be a labor of love... maybe my view is distorted but it feels so tit for tat

I’m not trying to invalidate your feelings
nor do I know all the history
but you don’t come across as bitter
at all...if that were the case you wouldn’t
have mentioned any of the positive things
that your gram did for you.

You have a heart and compassion
and even when it’s not always beneficial
for you, you think of your family first.
And that’s what makes it hard.