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i can resign during sick leave but idk how it works with the notice period then. maybe i can manage to get sick leave for my entire notice period idk. my boyfriend said he'll help with all of this if i decide to do it and his dad is a retired nurse and has worked with the union for many years so i know he has a lot of knowledge about how everything works. he'd be glad to help me too (he has worked with my bosses and he knows how fucking horrible they are, and also bc i'm like his daughter in law ofc)
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cobain wrote:
i can resign during sick leave but idk how it works with the notice period then. maybe i can manage to get sick leave for my entire notice period idk. my boyfriend said he'll help with all of this if i decide to do it and his dad is a retired nurse and has worked with the union for many years so i know he has a lot of knowledge about how everything works. he'd be glad to help me too (he has worked with my bosses and he knows how fucking horrible they are, and also bc i'm like his daughter in law ofc)
you gotta do this talk to dad hes the guy here
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Claire wrote:
cobain wrote:
i can resign during sick leave but idk how it works with the notice period then. maybe i can manage to get sick leave for my entire notice period idk. my boyfriend said he'll help with all of this if i decide to do it and his dad is a retired nurse and has worked with the union for many years so i know he has a lot of knowledge about how everything works. he'd be glad to help me too (he has worked with my bosses and he knows how fucking horrible they are, and also bc i'm like his daughter in law ofc)
you gotta do this talk to dad hes the guy here
He said I can like misbehave at work to get out of the notice period bc they can fire me on the spot if I refuse to do my job or just.. misbehave lol
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Anyways the intern is already sick of this shit and I doubt she'll stay for much longer. She has questioned the bosses about lots of things, like why we can't get an automatic potato peeler (bc we peel about 5kg by hand every day, lots of work) and the boss said that'll never happen. Intern questioned why the dementia patients should be with us in the kitchen when it means more work, more stress and worse hygiene in the kitchen, boss said that's just how it is and that they'll have to be involved in the kitchen (but if everyone got sick from the food u know I'd get the blame for it, not the ppl with actual shit under their nails). Intern questioned the tough schedule, asked me if it's not illegal even. I told her it's right on the brink of being illegal but since it's not illegal there's not much to do about it. She asked what I make every month and she was appalled by it, bc I make so little for working full time (including evenings and weekends which means you get more! But it's still SO little) and she makes more at the place she works rn, which is for ppl who can't really work "normally"

Mm yeah I hate this
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Just the fact that I'm so scared of my bosses... wtf...
Normally bosses want you to take own initiatives, and like come up with solutions. It's the same here, or so they claim. When I take own initiatives and solve things I get shit for it! Because it's not how THEY would have solved it. If I don't do what they would have done its wrong. Even though I never do anything fucking wrong, I SOLVE the problems that occur!!!!!!!!! In MY way, not their way. So whenever the bosses are working I'm scared to do anything at all and instead I'm annoying as shit and ask them about every little thing so I know what they would have done, bc then I won't get scolded
When they're not working I do it my own way and it turns out way fucking better 
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do u want me to come n trow a used pad at them i can do that
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do u want me to come n trow a used pad at them i can do that
Yes please!
Cobain
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what i've written down so far that i should bring up to the union !!!!!!!!
i'll remember more things as i go and i'll keep writing down whatever happens

June 2020
Coworker sent an email to the boss about me and my kitchen coworker, that we weren't doing our job etc. I've seen this email myself and it was full of lies. This caused the boss to decide that my kitchen coworker would get fired. He got sick leave his last month because of how the bosses treated him towards the end. When the boss talked to me about all of this, she told me he was a "bad influence" on me and that he had caused me to slack. Brought up rumors about me and him, which weren't true.

Autumn/winter 2020
Meeting with the group boss where I told her that I think it's too stressful, too much to do, tough and heavy etc, and that I have a hard time letting the stress go even when I come home after work and that it negatively affects my life. Her answer to me was that, in that case, I'll just have to plan better. She didn't say how to plan better, didn't give any other help or advice. This was the only answer I got.

Summer 2020
Worked in 34°c with face mask and face shield. In an even hotter kitchen.

Autumn/winter 2020
I work in the kitchen with another person, but they fired him around New Years. When he quit, I got more work tasks even though I was alone in the kitchen and had told them that I already think it's too much and too stressful.

Winter/spring 2021
Meeting with the bosses. Once again I bring up that it's too stressful, the other people who work in the kitchen opposite shifts from me agreed. I got the same answer again, that we need to plan better. They also told us that it's "luxurious" in the kitchen, in comparison to their job.

I get an intern, she was there for 2 days before she quit and decided she didn't want to work there due to the stress. After that, two of my nurse coworkers told me that working the kitchen is "luxurious" in comparison to what they do, and that you just need to plan. It sounds a lot like what the bosses told me and I'm wondering if the bosses have said this to them as well. Previously the nurses have told me they think my work is very tough and heavy and that they'd never work the kitchen themselves. They also almost ridiculed the intern who didn't want to work there.

Boss tells me I need to have a "rehab meeting" with her and the other boss, because I'd been away too much, that I had been away on 3 occasions in 3 months. I was sick for 4 days right before New Years, I was at home one day in February since I got side effects after the second vaccine dose (like a major cold/flu), and I was away for less than a week in March when I was sick. As of right now, we still haven't had the meeting, even though the boss told me about the meeting 2 months ago. I think it was more to scare me and to prevent me from being away more. Even though we're in the middle of a pandemic, working with risk groups, and should stay at home when we experience even minor symptoms.

I've had to work without an assault larm for a year. All the nurses have one. We don't have one in the kitchen, even though we're constantly around knives and other potentially dangerous tools. We are also alone in the kitchen/dining area/living room a lot, and without an assault larm we're very exposed to danger if anything would happen. It also means we don't have a good way of alerting for help if one of the residents fall and need urgent help. This has happened many many times. Someone falls and hurt themselves and I have been the only one around, and I've had to leave the hurt person (sometimes they're bleeding) to get help.

The nurses have been told they can't help out in the kitchen at all, some have gotten scolded when they've done it anyways. Though I have to help them a lot, several times every hour. I think it creates a "gap" between me and the nurses, and imbalance. I feel like I can't refuse to help them either, since that can lead to one of the residents getting hurt. Daily I have to keep an eye on several people, calm them, watch them so they won't get out of their wheelchairs etc even though I have so many other things I need to do and really don't have the time to help out in that way. I think it's very wrong to not get ANY help back when my work tasks pile up after helping them out.
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I get directions from the bosses on how to do things, but when I do it, I get scolded for it and they tell me to do it another way. So, when I do it the other way, they scold me again and tell me to do what they initially told me what to do, and when you tell them that it's what they initially told you to do, they claim they've never said that.
This goes on repeat constantly, very back and forth, do this - don't do this but do this other thing - don't do that other thing but do this on and on and on. Everything you do is wrong, always.
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ok i actually talked to my coworker (the ONLY person i actually trust at that place bc she hates the bosses equally as much and she takes no shit from them etc, she helps me out sooo much and just gives me advice), i asked her how i should go about things if i wanna start studying. she got so excited and was like "YES YES apply NOW i will help you with everything" and she did. so we called the school admin thingy and i got some answers about the education, and it seems like i have quite a good chance on getting in bc that education usually don't have too many applicants, and they prioritize ppl without education.

then we sent in the application. she told me to not say anything at all to the bosses bc they will fuck me over if they know i'm looking for something else. she said that if i get in, i should talk to the boss and tell her i've gotten into an education and that i should lie and tell her it's bc i want to further my knowledge, get better at work etc. and that i should work when i can, like weekends or yeah, whenever my school schedule allows it lol. and then when i'm done with the education i should just tell my boss to fuck off and never look back lmao GOD I LOVE HER SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!! 
i'm still quite unsure about the whole working while i study thing... and if my boss even has to allow me to study and work. but i'll try calling the union tomorrow and get further advice and see what they say, if i can even do it like that
Cobain
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i'm gonna try calling the union today before they close
i'm so scared to do it. like, phone calls in general are so anxiety inducing for me, but i'm also so scared of talking about my job and my bosses and how shitty everything is. i'm scared my bosses will find out and punish me for it. i know i can tell the union that i'm scared of it getting out and i'm sure they'll keep that in mind, but still. i don't think it's hard for my bosses to find out who's talked to the union lol, since we're only 4 ppl working in the kitchen and out of those ppl i'd def be the main suspect lmao. like my bosses can't punish me for it by law i believe, but oh they will find their ways i promise u ((((((( :

i'm just gonna ask the union about what i should do if i get into school, but in order to ask that i kind of have to tell them a bit about the climate at work and how scared i am of my bosses. so it just opens up to that whole convo. god save me
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and oh yeah today was absolute hell at work, it's been so fucking stressful and every time i went off the floor i had to try keeping my tears in LOL love that

and my fucking cunt ass bitch fucker shit ass boss came up to our floor and i got a stomach ache instantly and she is just so fucking rude and scary and ew ew i hate her i hope she'll fucking burn in hell one day, i hope her life is so fucking miserable and most of all i hope she ends up in a SHITTY home like the one she's running herself
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i talked to the union, their regional office or whatever, and i told them that i've applioed to an education that starts in august but that i'm very scared to tell my boss about it in case i'll get fired or if they start treating me like even more shit. they told me i have the right to take time off for studies (which i know) and that i should tell my boss right away so that i'll get it or whatever idk she said they can postpone the time off for up to 6 months which i also know, but she said that 3 months should be more than enough for the bosses to plan ahead and get someone to fill in for me n shit. and if the bosses start behaving like shit after i've told them i want time off for studies, she said i should contact my local union office and tell them about it

idk i feel like she didn't really understand or .. i didn't really explain that well either i guess cuz there's just too much and i can't fucking talk about that rn and i'm jsut so fucking scared of everythiung
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i started to cry as soon as we hung up and like fkdsmn 
anyways i'm gonna send an email to my local office and say i wanna get in contact with this specific person (my bf contacted her last year when he was fired from this shit hole and she said she's well aware of my bosses and their bullshit lol). i'm gonna say i'd really love to get a physical meeting with her but that i understand if it's not possible right now. it'd feel way better for me to actually have a physical meeting but i mean yeah... covid....
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Pls I'm at work and I feel sick to my stomach bc I just feel the bosses presence lol I feel like they're gonna give me shit for something whenever they see me. The intern is like questioning them n stuff and I'm scared I'll get the repercussions for it hehe....
I usually feel bad at work but not like this. I feel like puking. And I'm scared bc I've contacted the union. My bosses have no way of knowing that but I'm still scared that they know? It's so fucked UP
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