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Evey wrote:
i feel like you're both done with highschool and are grown ups, but on the other hand, i've never slept with a 27 y/o while being 20 or younger without them being slightly disrespectful and just not very decent people... guess it doesn't have to be that way tho but yeah.
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Date: 06-07-2021 10:41
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also that's like someone still in hs being w someone already out of college and in a job and shit .... how is that not extremely weird?
Date: 06-07-2021 10:50
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Evey wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
also that's like someone still in hs being w someone already out of college and in a job and shit .... how is that not extremely weird?
i'm always confused with HS years since my birthday is so late at the year so i'm like 18 = last year of HS but that ain't true lmfaO thanks for reminding me
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Date: 06-07-2021 10:52
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Evey wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
also that's like someone still in hs being w someone already out of college and in a job and shit .... how is that not extremely weird?
i'm always confused with HS years since my birthday is so late at the year so i'm like 18 = last year of HS but that ain't true lmfaO thanks for reminding me

i'm nearly 25 and just being around my sister who's 20 makes my head spin because she's so fucking young ... like that's a baby
Date: 06-07-2021 11:00
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honestly sexual predator vibes
Date: 06-07-2021 11:19
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Vintergatan wrote:
you’re both adults, just go for it 
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Cherry wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
honestly sexual predator vibes
Are you serious? I'm unsure of what I feel about it myself, but this was pretty uncalled for. If they hook up, we can assume they'd both be consenting adults. I can't help but compare it to my own love life. I'm turning 21 in a few months, while the guy I'm dating is 26. Would you call him a sexual predator too?

idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
Date: 06-07-2021 13:03
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Raquelle wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Cherry wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
honestly sexual predator vibes
Are you serious? I'm unsure of what I feel about it myself, but this was pretty uncalled for. If they hook up, we can assume they'd both be consenting adults. I can't help but compare it to my own love life. I'm turning 21 in a few months, while the guy I'm dating is 26. Would you call him a sexual predator too?
idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
hi super curious about your opinion on if it’s the same with every gender / sexuality

bc myself i consider men older than me like quite predatory if they wanna approach
but i can’t help but think a bit different about women lol
and when i was 19 i did hook up with a 29yo woman a few times, all good and we’re still friends
probably not a fair/good way of thinking but yea i hate men i guess
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Date: 06-07-2021 13:09
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Raquelle wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Cherry wrote:
Are you serious? I'm unsure of what I feel about it myself, but this was pretty uncalled for. If they hook up, we can assume they'd both be consenting adults. I can't help but compare it to my own love life. I'm turning 21 in a few months, while the guy I'm dating is 26. Would you call him a sexual predator too?
idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
hi super curious about your opinion on if it’s the same with every gender / sexuality

bc myself i consider men older than me like quite predatory if they wanna approach
but i can’t help but think a bit different about women lol
and when i was 19 i did hook up with a 29yo woman a few times, all good and we’re still friends
probably not a fair/good way of thinking but yea i hate men i guess

that's still creepy
honestly, it doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is, it's still really fucked up creppy.
i'm almost 25 and it would be like if i started dating someone 16-18 y old. it turns my stomach just thinking abt it.
like my max is 30 but that's strecthing it far beyond what i'm truly comfortable w.
Date: 06-07-2021 13:10 | Times changed: 1
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Raquelle wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
hi super curious about your opinion on if it’s the same with every gender / sexuality

bc myself i consider men older than me like quite predatory if they wanna approach
but i can’t help but think a bit different about women lol
and when i was 19 i did hook up with a 29yo woman a few times, all good and we’re still friends
probably not a fair/good way of thinking but yea i hate men i guess
that's still creepy
honestly, it doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is, it's still really fucked up creppy.
i'm 25 and it would be like if i started dating someone 16-18 y old. it turns my stomach just thinking abt it.
Yea fair enough
I’d never think of dating anyone younger than me either lol
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Date: 06-07-2021 13:13
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Cherry wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
honestly sexual predator vibes
Are you serious? I'm unsure of what I feel about it myself, but this was pretty uncalled for. If they hook up, we can assume they'd both be consenting adults. I can't help but compare it to my own love life. I'm turning 21 in a few months, while the guy I'm dating is 26. Would you call him a sexual predator too?

idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
this is literally just about hooking up with someone and even there's that age cap, they  are still both legally adults who can make their own desicions. of course 19 is still a teen and we can't know about their experience about sex life, so if they're still new to all that there's is bigger change that they feel pressured by older person 
personally i started my sex life as 16 years old (with a person i was in a relationship) so i had some experience already when i was like under 20. and when i was 18 i end up hooking with someone who was 29 and years later i don't still think there wasn't anything wrong with that. it was just a freaking hook up and we both had fun. when it comes to relationship with someone that much older it's gonna be different, because idk how you the hell you can be in same kind of situtation in life to be able to build relationship together 
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Cherry wrote:
Are you serious? I'm unsure of what I feel about it myself, but this was pretty uncalled for. If they hook up, we can assume they'd both be consenting adults. I can't help but compare it to my own love life. I'm turning 21 in a few months, while the guy I'm dating is 26. Would you call him a sexual predator too?

idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
this is literally just about hooking up with someone and even there's that age cap, they  are still both legally adults who can make their own desicions. of course 19 is still a teen and we can't know about their experience about sex life, so if they're still new to all that there's is bigger change that they feel pressured by older person 
personally i started my sex life as 16 years old (with a person i was in a relationship) so i had some experience already when i was like under 20. and when i was 18 i end up hooking with someone who was 29 and years later i don't still think there wasn't anything wrong with that. it was just a freaking hook up and we both had fun. when it comes to relationship with someone that much older it's gonna be different, because idk how you the hell you can be in same kind of situtation in life to be able to build relationship together 

hook up culture is damaging to teens, and i'm sorry that happened to you, but see it this way, if op was a man who was pursuing a 19 y old girl, how would y'all react? still two consenting adults?
even tho op has a fully developed frontal lobe, this seems okay to some of ya??
Date: 06-07-2021 13:15
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Alam wrote:
Yeah nope nope nope don't do it it's weird don't.
I'm 17 and talking to a 20 year old made me feel a bit weird, the power dynamic is always gonna be there. As someone said earlier, if you have to ask it's probably a no.
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Date: 06-07-2021 13:16
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:

idk why it's so hard for ppl to date other ppl their own age instead of idk doing this? and i probs would yeah, because guys who seek out younger girls are not normal in the head and def doesn't see them as equal to himself.
this is literally just about hooking up with someone and even there's that age cap, they  are still both legally adults who can make their own desicions. of course 19 is still a teen and we can't know about their experience about sex life, so if they're still new to all that there's is bigger change that they feel pressured by older person 
personally i started my sex life as 16 years old (with a person i was in a relationship) so i had some experience already when i was like under 20. and when i was 18 i end up hooking with someone who was 29 and years later i don't still think there wasn't anything wrong with that. it was just a freaking hook up and we both had fun. when it comes to relationship with someone that much older it's gonna be different, because idk how you the hell you can be in same kind of situtation in life to be able to build relationship together 

hook up culture is damaging to teens, and i'm sorry that happened to you, but see it this way, if op was a man who was pursuing a 19 y old girl, how would y'all react? still two consenting adults?
even tho op has a fully developed frontal lobe, this seems okay to some of ya??
there's nothing to be sorry about anything i just told happened to me? i did take damage from breaking heart because of some guy who was literally my age and was playing with me. not from hooking up with someone random 
yes like i said, we can't know about their experience in life and so on. so there's is bigger change for pursuing happening. but we don't know that about op here like i seriously don't even know their gender
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Date: 06-07-2021 13:22
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
kagura wrote:
this is literally just about hooking up with someone and even there's that age cap, they  are still both legally adults who can make their own desicions. of course 19 is still a teen and we can't know about their experience about sex life, so if they're still new to all that there's is bigger change that they feel pressured by older person 
personally i started my sex life as 16 years old (with a person i was in a relationship) so i had some experience already when i was like under 20. and when i was 18 i end up hooking with someone who was 29 and years later i don't still think there wasn't anything wrong with that. it was just a freaking hook up and we both had fun. when it comes to relationship with someone that much older it's gonna be different, because idk how you the hell you can be in same kind of situtation in life to be able to build relationship together 

hook up culture is damaging to teens, and i'm sorry that happened to you, but see it this way, if op was a man who was pursuing a 19 y old girl, how would y'all react? still two consenting adults?
even tho op has a fully developed frontal lobe, this seems okay to some of ya??
there's nothing to be sorry about anything i just told happened to me? i did take damage from breaking heart because of some guy who was literally my age and was playing with me. not from hooking up with someone random 
yes like i said, we can't know about their experience in life and so on. so there's is bigger change for pursuing happening. but we don't know that about op here like i seriously don't even know their gender

just from the age gap it's creepy and gross
Date: 06-07-2021 13:23
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