Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:

also i dont even care at this point who my future self is i just want it to be happy and me
Apollyonica wrote:
I would see a therapist, maybe you are depressed or something else? I thought I had really mild anxiety and depression, but now I am in therapy to check if I have ADHD and/or OCD (if I have both then I think they overlap eachother, and make it a whole mess).Ā
You can ask youself if you feel you "lack" something? Friends? If so, then maybe start a new hobby, and find some friends thru that?
Maybe think about how you would like your "future self" to be? Think about who you would like to be if you could pick. What do you wear, what do you eat, what are your hobbies? How do you feel? How do you respond to things?
Also accept your past, however it is. "Mistakes" are not mistakes, and that things happen for a reason. If you are the person to "beat youself up" for the past.
i dont even enjoy doing my previous hobbies let alone trying to make new onesĀ I would see a therapist, maybe you are depressed or something else? I thought I had really mild anxiety and depression, but now I am in therapy to check if I have ADHD and/or OCD (if I have both then I think they overlap eachother, and make it a whole mess).Ā
You can ask youself if you feel you "lack" something? Friends? If so, then maybe start a new hobby, and find some friends thru that?
Maybe think about how you would like your "future self" to be? Think about who you would like to be if you could pick. What do you wear, what do you eat, what are your hobbies? How do you feel? How do you respond to things?
Also accept your past, however it is. "Mistakes" are not mistakes, and that things happen for a reason. If you are the person to "beat youself up" for the past.
