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Claire wrote:
this one was recent idk if u seen it 

Opinion | OnlyFans Doesn't Make 'Sex Work' Safe or Ethical - The New York Times 

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Date: 17-09-2021 23:39
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
this generation has a boner for empowerment-ificating everything. sex work is not empowering, plastic surgery is not empowering. ur literally catering to society's standard. it's literally girlboss gaslight gatekeep x1000
people dont wanna admit that theyre victims of this society. like its one thing to say 'we live in a partriarchy' but suddenly saying like 'patriarchy has influenced my personal choices' makes you feel like youre stupid or something. like people dont wanna say theyre effected by it personally- like im too strong for that. idk.
definitely. but also it feels very victimizing to say that you've been brainwashed by this society. it's like finally having to accept you were traumatized as a child. it's a shock to finally accept that the violent porn u were watching since u were 9 is not a 'haha funny' party story but actually a traumatic event that changed your view on sex and sexuality permanently.

it's rather traumatic, for lack of a better word, to finally accept that the things you internalized as a teen are actually the patriarchy and that you have been craving being sexualized by men twice, third ur age bc u were socialized to WANT it

so most ppl prefer to just stay ignorant. i cannot completely blame them.
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:40
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
this one was recent idk if u seen it 

Opinion | OnlyFans Doesn't Make 'Sex Work' Safe or Ethical - The New York Times 

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i'll put it on my to read list!
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:40
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Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
this generation has a boner for empowerment-ificating everything. sex work is not empowering, plastic surgery is not empowering. ur literally catering to society's standard. it's literally girlboss gaslight gatekeep x1000
people dont wanna admit that theyre victims of this society. like its one thing to say 'we live in a partriarchy' but suddenly saying like 'patriarchy has influenced my personal choices' makes you feel like youre stupid or something. like people dont wanna say theyre effected by it personally- like im too strong for that. idk.
definitely. but also it feels very victimizing to say that you've been brainwashed by this society. it's like finally having to accept you were traumatized as a child. it's a shock to finally accept that the violent porn u were watching since u were 9 is not a 'haha funny' party story but actually a traumatic event that changed your view on sex and sexuality permanently.

it's rather traumatic, for lack of a better word, to finally accept that the things you internalized as a teen are actually the patriarchy and that you have been craving being sexualized by men twice, third ur age bc u were socialized to WANT it

so most ppl prefer to just stay ignorant. i cannot completely blame them.
i had a lot of anger when i first got into radical feminism and it took a while before i was able to be like... more chill about it. 

some of its really freeing but it really is like therapy like. you have to dig up all the old trauma and admit how it effected you in order to like understand it and move past it.
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:42
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
people dont wanna admit that theyre victims of this society. like its one thing to say 'we live in a partriarchy' but suddenly saying like 'patriarchy has influenced my personal choices' makes you feel like youre stupid or something. like people dont wanna say theyre effected by it personally- like im too strong for that. idk.
definitely. but also it feels very victimizing to say that you've been brainwashed by this society. it's like finally having to accept you were traumatized as a child. it's a shock to finally accept that the violent porn u were watching since u were 9 is not a 'haha funny' party story but actually a traumatic event that changed your view on sex and sexuality permanently.

it's rather traumatic, for lack of a better word, to finally accept that the things you internalized as a teen are actually the patriarchy and that you have been craving being sexualized by men twice, third ur age bc u were socialized to WANT it

so most ppl prefer to just stay ignorant. i cannot completely blame them.
i had a lot of anger when i first got into radical feminism and it took a while before i was able to be like... more chill about it. 

some of its really freeing but it really is like therapy like. you have to dig up all the old trauma and admit how it effected you in order to like understand it and move past it.
like idk a lot of people arent strong enough to do therapy lmfao
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:43
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:i had a lot of anger when i first got into radical feminism and it took a while before i was able to be like... more chill about it. 

some of its really freeing but it really is like therapy like. you have to dig up all the old trauma and admit how it effected you in order to like understand it and move past it.
indeed indeed and i think a lot of ppl don't want that confrontation. it also puts you in a rock and a hard place. on one side, you finally understand how and why, which means you work to move past it right?... right? but you don't. you still crave being sexualised, being seen as socially acceptable/fuckable. the messages that are ingrained in you in your formative years you can't just close your mind to. it really makes you feel helpless
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Claire wrote:
or like people are SO addicted to porn they cant admit why its bad for them like with any other addiction 

like the dopamine thing is real you know
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:44
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
or like people are SO addicted to porn they cant admit why its bad for them like with any other addiction 

like the dopamine thing is real you know
yepyep, ANY addiction, not just chemical ones, rewires ur neurons and has physical lasting effects. that's literally why there are rehab centers for porn
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:45
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Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:i had a lot of anger when i first got into radical feminism and it took a while before i was able to be like... more chill about it. 

some of its really freeing but it really is like therapy like. you have to dig up all the old trauma and admit how it effected you in order to like understand it and move past it.
indeed indeed and i think a lot of ppl don't want that confrontation. it also puts you in a rock and a hard place. on one side, you finally understand how and why, which means you work to move past it right?... right? but you don't. you still crave being sexualised, being seen as socially acceptable/fuckable. the messages that are ingrained in you in your formative years you can't just close your mind to. it really makes you feel helpless
theres like a big cognitive dissoanance between what a believe and some of the sex i have lmfao and im like at a point now where i can admit like i probably like it rough because of porn and because of being groomed by society to like it that way but knowing that doesnt stop me from liking what i like
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:46
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Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
or like people are SO addicted to porn they cant admit why its bad for them like with any other addiction 

like the dopamine thing is real you know
yepyep, ANY addiction, not just chemical ones, rewires ur neurons and has physical lasting effects. that's literally why there are rehab centers for porn
when i was quitting smoking someone said addictions are like trenches in your brain. like everytime you have a cigarette you're digging the trenches in ur brain deeper and deeper and it takes longer to fill in those trenches and maybe theyre always going to be in your brain and you have to just work around them.
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:47
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:i had a lot of anger when i first got into radical feminism and it took a while before i was able to be like... more chill about it. 

some of its really freeing but it really is like therapy like. you have to dig up all the old trauma and admit how it effected you in order to like understand it and move past it.
indeed indeed and i think a lot of ppl don't want that confrontation. it also puts you in a rock and a hard place. on one side, you finally understand how and why, which means you work to move past it right?... right? but you don't. you still crave being sexualised, being seen as socially acceptable/fuckable. the messages that are ingrained in you in your formative years you can't just close your mind to. it really makes you feel helpless
theres like a big cognitive dissoanance between what a believe and some of the sex i have lmfao and im like at a point now where i can admit like i probably like it rough because of porn and because of being groomed by society to like it that way but knowing that doesnt stop me from liking what i like
yepyep same! craving hookup culture while knowing it is actually not good for women mentally. and that you shouldn't WANT it but you do bc in your younger years u were exposed to that shit so welp
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:47
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Koolaid wrote:
also wanting to lose my virginity so badly by the age of 18... cause that's what's glorified in society. and luckily everything ended up well for me, but for so many women it doesn't..
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:51
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Claire wrote:
idk theres some arguements that the nordic model somehow makes prostitutes more likely to like be victims of violence but they literally already are more likely to be victims of violence and if the men are criminalized and they aren't they can go to the police about violence. the counterarguements just dont make sense to me.
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:52
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Claire wrote:
and then its frustrating that like anytime you say youre antiporn or whatever people wanna say youre like puritanical or whatever like god is literallly the only motivation anyone could EVER have against sex work like girl 

Ron Jeremy: Porn star indicted on 34 sexual assault counts ????????????A Flood of Sexual Assault Allegations in the Porn Industry Are ...https://jezebel.com › a-flood-of-sexual-assault-allegatio... 
im sorry i'm against rape??????? because rape is bad?????  not because like your god said so i dont get it
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:57
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Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
and then its frustrating that like anytime you say youre antiporn or whatever people wanna say youre like puritanical or whatever like god is literallly the only motivation anyone could EVER have against sex work like girl 

Ron Jeremy: Porn star indicted on 34 sexual assault counts ????????????A Flood of Sexual Assault Allegations in the Porn Industry Are ...https://jezebel.com › a-flood-of-sexual-assault-allegatio... 
im sorry i'm against rape??????? because rape is bad?????  not because like your god said so i dont get it
the ironic thing ... im literally against organized religion 
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Date: 17-09-2021 23:58
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