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Limbs wrote:
y'all for how many freaking times some of you told me to break up with him you had better tell me i did good right now

i feel awful idk he took it ok. he didn't get mad  he was respectful. i'm sad. partially feeling like i shouldn't have done that n that i'm never gonna be ok again but i know that's just a feeling and i'll be fine actually
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Date: 16-11-2021 20:47
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Limbs wrote:
y'all for how many freaking times some of you told me to break up with him you had better tell me i did good right now

i feel awful idk he took it ok. he didn't get mad  he was respectful. i'm sad. partially feeling like i shouldn't have done that n that i'm never gonna be ok again but i know that's just a feeling and i'll be fine actually
PROUD OF U, SENDING U LOTS OF LOVE

please do lots of self care n eat good food!!!

you deserve it
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Date: 16-11-2021 20:49
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cobain wrote:
HUGS BABE !!!!!!! you did the right thing !
i broke up with my dude lil over 2 months ago, i still loved him but i very much felt like we were bringing out the worst in each other. in theory we'd be great together, but in reality we just weren't. we were similar in ways that made it bad, and different in ways that made it bad. not everything was bad in our relationship tho, faaar from it, he's an amazing man and i wish nothing but the best for him, but we just weren't meant to be.
kinda reminded me of what you've written in this thread tbh, not entirely but yeah i relate lol. just know that you will be fine and it will get better. in the beginning you might think you've made a mistake but trust me you haven't. even in just a few weeks time you'll start feeling better. and there are lots of new things, people and adventures waiting for u !
lots of love to ya !
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Date: 16-11-2021 21:30
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
oh my god u have NOOOOOOOOOO idea how proud i am n how happy this thread has made me . sorry not even exaggerating right now , im actually so so so proud of u lol

making the decision to break up w some1 and going thru w it can be the most difficult thing in the world n u did it? incredible. i cant wait for ur life to slowly start getting better and for so many good things to come to u
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Date: 16-11-2021 21:57
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Limbs wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
oh my god u have NOOOOOOOOOO idea how proud i am n how happy this thread has made me . sorry not even exaggerating right now , im actually so so so proud of u lol

making the decision to break up w some1 and going thru w it can be the most difficult thing in the world n u did it? incredible. i cant wait for ur life to slowly start getting better and for so many good things to come to u
<3 thank you
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Date: 16-11-2021 23:51
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Limbs wrote:
cobain wrote:
HUGS BABE !!!!!!! you did the right thing !
i broke up with my dude lil over 2 months ago, i still loved him but i very much felt like we were bringing out the worst in each other. in theory we'd be great together, but in reality we just weren't. we were similar in ways that made it bad, and different in ways that made it bad. not everything was bad in our relationship tho, faaar from it, he's an amazing man and i wish nothing but the best for him, but we just weren't meant to be.
kinda reminded me of what you've written in this thread tbh, not entirely but yeah i relate lol. just know that you will be fine and it will get better. in the beginning you might think you've made a mistake but trust me you haven't. even in just a few weeks time you'll start feeling better. and there are lots of new things, people and adventures waiting for u !
lots of love to ya !
honestly seeing you post about your breakup helped me with the process as well. thank you n all the best to you! 
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Date: 16-11-2021 23:54
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Limbs wrote:
y'all for how many freaking times some of you told me to break up with him you had better tell me i did good right now

i feel awful idk he took it ok. he didn't get mad  he was respectful. i'm sad. partially feeling like i shouldn't have done that n that i'm never gonna be ok again but i know that's just a feeling and i'll be fine actually
I so hope this is gonna take some pressure of your shoulders in the long run! It is so hard in the start, but stay strong! 
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Date: 16-11-2021 23:56
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Limbs wrote:
ouch
well he just texted me "thank you, but i wouldn't have wanted to stay with you anyway since you took the death vaccine." pretty immature i feel like

i told him i'm very open to talk things through, cuz he ended the call very quickly when i told him i think we should break up so i figured we would talk in few days. this is it i guess. idk it hurts that we can't just talk through this like adults n come out the other side with no hard feelings. but i know he's hurt and just reacting from that place of hurt with the emotional tools that he's got, so whatever it is what it is

the weight of like it's actually over now is hitting me hard though. i keep doubting if this was the wrong choice.
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Date: 18-11-2021 17:09
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Solar wrote:
i'm so so so so proud of you! 
you definitely did the right thing if this is the way he responds. i agree that it's very immature and i'm so happy you chose to leave him !! 

doubt is very normal in this situation. give it at least two months, even if your doubts get worse. time heals!
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Date: 18-11-2021 17:57
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
Limbs wrote:
ouch
well he just texted me "thank you, but i wouldn't have wanted to stay with you anyway since you took the death vaccine." pretty immature i feel like

i told him i'm very open to talk things through, cuz he ended the call very quickly when i told him i think we should break up so i figured we would talk in few days. this is it i guess. idk it hurts that we can't just talk through this like adults n come out the other side with no hard feelings. but i know he's hurt and just reacting from that place of hurt with the emotional tools that he's got, so whatever it is what it is

the weight of like it's actually over now is hitting me hard though. i keep doubting if this was the wrong choice.
judging from what he texted u ? u should be CERTAIN it was not the wrong choice

my ex did the same thing when i broke up w him 😂 he texted me being like 'well just so u know! i was going to break up w u myself! because of these following reasons....'

i was like 'ok cool. i take it that means this time u wont beg for us to get back together like the last two times i broke up w u' lmfao
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Date: 18-11-2021 18:47
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
sending u lots of luv
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Limbs wrote:
lmfaooo, well now he called and called me a bitch.
i owe him money, he lent me 120€ which i'm of course going to pay back. but now he's saying it was 180€ and calling me a bitch, saying i just used him and saying i'm the one choosing to make this go down badly

i just KNEW he was gonna get fucking mad in a few days lol

sry if it's annoying that i keep posting updates but it makes me feel a bit better
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Date: 18-11-2021 19:03
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Solar wrote:
Limbs wrote:
lmfaooo, well now he called and called me a bitch.
i owe him money, he lent me 120€ which i'm of course going to pay back. but now he's saying it was 180€ and calling me a bitch, saying i just used him and saying i'm the one choosing to make this go down badly

i just KNEW he was gonna get fucking mad in a few days lol

sry if it's annoying that i keep posting updates but it makes me feel a bit better
it's not annoying at all! do what you gotta do 
also, what a dick
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Date: 18-11-2021 19:12
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
Limbs wrote:
lmfaooo, well now he called and called me a bitch.
i owe him money, he lent me 120€ which i'm of course going to pay back. but now he's saying it was 180€ and calling me a bitch, saying i just used him and saying i'm the one choosing to make this go down badly

i just KNEW he was gonna get fucking mad in a few days lol

sry if it's annoying that i keep posting updates but it makes me feel a bit better
awful awful awful
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Date: 18-11-2021 19:16
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Limbs wrote:
i'm just incredulous that he told me "remember this. everything you do to other people comes back to you one way or another in the end. remember that, elina." and called himself good-hearted, literally right after texting "you fucking bitch." to me

and that it worked, it does make me feel guilty and like a bad person. i feel really awful n now it's at the point where i feel like i can't take this. he's saying awful things about me and painting me as this horrible person who's trying to steal from him and lie and threaten and use him to my own ends. makes me doubt that maybe i am like that.

idk how he managed to guilt me so much over the years. and how i never caught on n thought everything was my fault. i feel really stupid like there must be something inherently wrong with me for me to have ended up & stayed with someone like this
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