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Princess of Pop

Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
It's not the gap I took umbrage with, it's their lack of experience... they're a virgin, never had their own place before, dont even have a credit card.... it just seems weird

Maybe a hook up but like they'd have to initiate and they havent, tho we still still are friends, haha, and I dont think it's weird

But this girl, even if it ends up being just friends, has been discussing business ideas with me, and has dating experience, like its just a better match

Still .... I cant believe shes down and we have chemistry omg

oh
oh yeeh it's nono
but this girl sounds like a great match yeah, hell yeah go for it
and yes being an adult really brings out the
boldness in you
I asked my current partner out and it's been a year now, I mean actually at the end of this month it'll be a year
damn

but yeah you 2 are actual adults, with experience and all
and yeeeeeee sounds like fun

The older I get the less i care for sure

But yeah I've dated ppl 6-10 years older, tho I was in my twenties (still am). Age gaps are a lil different w/ teens (even if they're legal!), especially when they're a virgin hooking up with a non-virgin, idk depends on lots of factors
Also congrats on the relationship! You gotta just go for it sometimes and be confident... biggest mistake I made was never doing that

oh my god it IS , SOI much more different
I had only 2 relationships
one that started at 15 for 5 yeears
one that started at 20 and going on soon to be a year
and just
hoooooooly the differences AHAHAAH but yeah although when I asked my current partner like... hell
I was still and technically still have no actual good experience because my ex is a trash human being that did not actually respect me and we were both virgins and with no experience (age gap was also small) or like... you know? just dumb teens, so, on one hand, I was scared that it would be like a minus in my partner's eyes or that our almost 6 years gap will bother him but he was just like meh we'll figure things together and we did and just.. yeah hahaha
aaaaaaaaa thank you, that's very true, I just remember we had great chemistry and I was like HEY I'm gonna visit a city next to yours let's meet up, he said why not, I was like alright, it's a date
dude was baffled and ever since it's history lmao

Anachronism
National star

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
oh
oh yeeh it's nono
but this girl sounds like a great match yeah, hell yeah go for it
and yes being an adult really brings out the
boldness in you
I asked my current partner out and it's been a year now, I mean actually at the end of this month it'll be a year
damn

but yeah you 2 are actual adults, with experience and all
and yeeeeeee sounds like fun

The older I get the less i care for sure

But yeah I've dated ppl 6-10 years older, tho I was in my twenties (still am). Age gaps are a lil different w/ teens (even if they're legal!), especially when they're a virgin hooking up with a non-virgin, idk depends on lots of factors
Also congrats on the relationship! You gotta just go for it sometimes and be confident... biggest mistake I made was never doing that

oh my god it IS , SOI much more different
I had only 2 relationships
one that started at 15 for 5 yeears
one that started at 20 and going on soon to be a year
and just
hoooooooly the differences AHAHAAH but yeah although when I asked my current partner like... hell
I was still and technically still have no actual good experience because my ex is a trash human being that did not actually respect me and we were both virgins and with no experience (age gap was also small) or like... you know? just dumb teens, so, on one hand, I was scared that it would be like a minus in my partner's eyes or that our almost 6 years gap will bother him but he was just like meh we'll figure things together and we did and just.. yeah hahaha
aaaaaaaaa thank you, that's very true, I just remember we had great chemistry and I was like HEY I'm gonna visit a city next to yours let's meet up, he said why not, I was like alright, it's a date
dude was baffled and ever since it's history lmao

Glad you moved on and found someone better, also your current partner counts as experience too

Sex is about communication, I know cliche af, but it's TRUE! Any person worried about a lack of experience is probably bad in bed. If they're good they'll give you pointers, as I'm sure you discovered. It's all a learning experience and it's a wonderful journey to grow and develop with your partner. I know I sound hippie dippie but oh well

I told this girl I've had more experience with men than women and she doesnt mind! I think as long as my intentions are clear and I don't lead her on it will be fine... I used to worry being less experienced with women would hurt my chances but I think I was wrong

Just getting rid of all those hang ups and going for what you want and remembering another opportunity will arise if you're rejected is freeing!

Also I love your story of your first date... it's becoming less taboo for women to make the first move and it's great. That shit shouldnt be gendered

Private
Princess of Pop

Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
The older I get the less i care for sure

But yeah I've dated ppl 6-10 years older, tho I was in my twenties (still am). Age gaps are a lil different w/ teens (even if they're legal!), especially when they're a virgin hooking up with a non-virgin, idk depends on lots of factors
Also congrats on the relationship! You gotta just go for it sometimes and be confident... biggest mistake I made was never doing that

oh my god it IS , SOI much more different
I had only 2 relationships
one that started at 15 for 5 yeears
one that started at 20 and going on soon to be a year
and just
hoooooooly the differences AHAHAAH but yeah although when I asked my current partner like... hell
I was still and technically still have no actual good experience because my ex is a trash human being that did not actually respect me and we were both virgins and with no experience (age gap was also small) or like... you know? just dumb teens, so, on one hand, I was scared that it would be like a minus in my partner's eyes or that our almost 6 years gap will bother him but he was just like meh we'll figure things together and we did and just.. yeah hahaha
aaaaaaaaa thank you, that's very true, I just remember we had great chemistry and I was like HEY I'm gonna visit a city next to yours let's meet up, he said why not, I was like alright, it's a date
dude was baffled and ever since it's history lmao

Glad you moved on and found someone better, also your current partner counts as experience too

Sex is about communication, I know cliche af, but it's TRUE! Any person worried about a lack of experience is probably bad in bed. If they're good they'll give you pointers, as I'm sure you discovered. It's all a learning experience and it's a wonderful journey to grow and develop with your partner. I know I sound hippie dippie but oh well

I told this girl I've had more experience with men than women and she doesnt mind! I think as long as my intentions are clear and I don't lead her on it will be fine... I used to worry being less experienced with women would hurt my chances but I think I was wrong

Just getting rid of all those hang ups and going for what you want and remembering another opportunity will arise if you're rejected is freeing!

Also I love your story of your first date... it's becoming less taboo for women to make the first move and it's great. That shit shouldnt be gendered

yeah that was such a shit relationship.. and I'm also glad about that

and well considering I'm on the ace spectrum it's well... a challenge for me let's say it like that
and my ex never understood that so he forced stuff on me... something that never happens anymore and I'm thankful I have a partner who respects and understands that
and naaah ahaha it sounds like a good thing, I mean it IS a good thing, he's actually enjoying discovering stuff with me, seeing what I'm okay with, what's a no zone, HELL, I helped HIM, the one that dated SO much and has a LOT of experience, find something new ahaha

and hell yeah, communication is the key to anything healthy to work out... it's mostly that, so hell yeah to that!
yeah I can imagine how freeing it might be, I might be the more well... let's just say I BARELY feel attraction to people, it's been like.. maybe 3-4 in my whole 21 almost 22 years of living that I remember myself, I was the one to take the first step in both cases as it was just SO rare to find someone with attraction AND that I liked..

and yeah lmao he also loves it and told me some time ago that he never knew how much he needed a woman that knows what she wants or at LEAST has the balls to go and get it
and yes it's great, and fun, and YES IT SHOULDN'T AAAAAAAAAAA I love that when men would tell me it's not my job to do it, but that type would melt if I were to tease em about me being the first one to ask them out and initiate the thing lololol

Anachronism
National star

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
oh my god it IS , SOI much more different
I had only 2 relationships
one that started at 15 for 5 yeears
one that started at 20 and going on soon to be a year
and just
hoooooooly the differences AHAHAAH but yeah although when I asked my current partner like... hell
I was still and technically still have no actual good experience because my ex is a trash human being that did not actually respect me and we were both virgins and with no experience (age gap was also small) or like... you know? just dumb teens, so, on one hand, I was scared that it would be like a minus in my partner's eyes or that our almost 6 years gap will bother him but he was just like meh we'll figure things together and we did and just.. yeah hahaha
aaaaaaaaa thank you, that's very true, I just remember we had great chemistry and I was like HEY I'm gonna visit a city next to yours let's meet up, he said why not, I was like alright, it's a date
dude was baffled and ever since it's history lmao

Glad you moved on and found someone better, also your current partner counts as experience too

Sex is about communication, I know cliche af, but it's TRUE! Any person worried about a lack of experience is probably bad in bed. If they're good they'll give you pointers, as I'm sure you discovered. It's all a learning experience and it's a wonderful journey to grow and develop with your partner. I know I sound hippie dippie but oh well

I told this girl I've had more experience with men than women and she doesnt mind! I think as long as my intentions are clear and I don't lead her on it will be fine... I used to worry being less experienced with women would hurt my chances but I think I was wrong

Just getting rid of all those hang ups and going for what you want and remembering another opportunity will arise if you're rejected is freeing!

Also I love your story of your first date... it's becoming less taboo for women to make the first move and it's great. That shit shouldnt be gendered

yeah that was such a shit relationship.. and I'm also glad about that

and well considering I'm on the ace spectrum it's well... a challenge for me let's say it like that
and my ex never understood that so he forced stuff on me... something that never happens anymore and I'm thankful I have a partner who respects and understands that
and naaah ahaha it sounds like a good thing, I mean it IS a good thing, he's actually enjoying discovering stuff with me, seeing what I'm okay with, what's a no zone, HELL, I helped HIM, the one that dated SO much and has a LOT of experience, find something new ahaha

and hell yeah, communication is the key to anything healthy to work out... it's mostly that, so hell yeah to that!
yeah I can imagine how freeing it might be, I might be the more well... let's just say I BARELY feel attraction to people, it's been like.. maybe 3-4 in my whole 21 almost 22 years of living that I remember myself, I was the one to take the first step in both cases as it was just SO rare to find someone with attraction AND that I liked..

and yeah lmao he also loves it and told me some time ago that he never knew how much he needed a woman that knows what she wants or at LEAST has the balls to go and get it
and yes it's great, and fun, and YES IT SHOULDN'T AAAAAAAAAAA I love that when men would tell me it's not my job to do it, but that type would melt if I were to tease em about me being the first one to ask them out and initiate the thing lololol

Oh my... yeah your current relationship sounds much healthier

Oh and I meant an experienced person worrying about an inexperienced person probably sucks in bed, cuz anyone good in bed will feel your cues and communicate

Sharing your story is like exactly why I dont think I'd date anyone under 22-23 tbh, cuz when you're young you dont understand healthy boundaries much of the time I think... its so easy to be preyed upon or taken advantage of and not know it

It's great we are living in a time where women are having more sexual control, bodily autonomy, and arent afraid to receive pleasure and get what they want and arent just being merely of service to a man... an equal exchange of power is important imo

I have never dated a girl before, just slept with a few, and idk if we will date or just sleep together but I always wondered if the gender norms would differ at all, if stuff like paying or initiating dates would be more equal and free, or if girls are just as likely to have a dominate partner and submissive partner in a relationship as men and women

Cuz ugh I've dated guys who wanted to call the shots on everything, pay for everything, hold doors for me, it's weird and I hate it