ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
I'm not like, tryna encourage you to be manipulative, lol, but I think a fake apology is more manipulative in this scenarioÂ
Yes I agree, I don't rlly think its manipulative to say I won't do it again n all that bla bla bla cus I won't lol, and also I see how it was messed up even tho I don't rlly feel it I guessÂ
ouch wrote:
Yeah it's kinda like, acknowledging you did something they didn't like, and confirming you won't do it again - but it's not really an apology, so it's not really a lie?Barbarella wrote:
Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not.Â
Thank u, and yes true true, I think he will accept since ha already said its ok for me to come there again, but yes if he mentions it next time im there I will say smth along those lines I think, smart wwords and no lying involved Well, no one is obligated to forgive you, or put up with behaviors they're uncomfortable with.
Something along the lines of, "the social expectations here were different than what I'm used to, and I made a mistake without realizing it, I won't do that again over here" seems like a reasonable way to clear the air, but they certainly don't have to accept it, and might not.Â
I'm not like, tryna encourage you to be manipulative, lol, but I think a fake apology is more manipulative in this scenarioÂ