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ye ignore him
Date: 23-11-2021 17:46
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
There are so many red flags here I- that’s creepy af not normal behaviour, i would expect something like this like after MONTHS of dating not two days of knowing wtf 💀💀💀 block his ass and save yours
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:50 | Times changed: 1
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Claire wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Claire wrote:
Versailles wrote:
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
log on and change thepasswords lmfao
ok kinda tempting to be shitty tbh lmao, atleast he'd know i'm not uwu perfect wife material uwu like he believes i am. 
harmless prank hell use his email to get it back by the end of the day 
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:51
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Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
There are so many red flags here I- that’s creepy af not normal behaviour, i would expect something like this like after MONTHS of dating not two days of knowing wtf 💀💀💀 block his ass and save yours
I think it's like bpd thing he got going there, but he said he's not affected by it at first because of meds while at the same time telling me i'm his new favorite person whatever that means 
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:07
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that's 101 love bombing
Date: 23-11-2021 18:11
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
There are so many red flags here I- that’s creepy af not normal behaviour, i would expect something like this like after MONTHS of dating not two days of knowing wtf 💀💀💀 block his ass and save yours
I think it's like bpd thing he got going there, but he said he's not affected by it at first because of meds while at the same time telling me i'm his new favorite person whatever that means 
Oh shoot that adds a whole another layer to it.. not good. Honestly the sooner you ghost/block whatever the less damage you’ll do to him and yourself.

About BPD and favorite person: ”The individual with BPD wants their favorite person’s attention as much as possible, and the quality of the relationship can undoubtedly shape their mood, confidence, and sense of security.” & ”At first, a favorite person may seem like a “savior” for the individual with BPD. They often believe this person is perfect, and they will inherently idolize them. As a result, they may feel euphoric when spending time together and often miss them deeply when they are apart.”
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:19 | Times changed: 1
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Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
There are so many red flags here I- that’s creepy af not normal behaviour, i would expect something like this like after MONTHS of dating not two days of knowing wtf 💀💀💀 block his ass and save yours
I think it's like bpd thing he got going there, but he said he's not affected by it at first because of meds while at the same time telling me i'm his new favorite person whatever that means 
Oh shoot that adds a whole another layer to it.. not good. Honestly the sooner you ghost/block whatever the less damage you’ll do to him and yourself.

About BPD and favorite person: ”The individual with BPD wants their favorite person’s attention as much as possible, and the quality of the relationship can undoubtedly shape their mood, confidence, and sense of security.” & ”At first, a favorite person may seem like a “savior” for the individual with BPD. They often believe this person is perfect, and they will inherently idolize them. As a result, they may feel euphoric when spending time together and often miss them deeply when they are apart.”
Okay so he talked to me now and the topic was about food and what i'm gonna make later today. And he talked about how he loves to make food when you're two etc. I said yeah but it's nice to do it myself too, because I enjoy my own company. 
He said he hates his own company and need someone to need him/love him etc. 
I try to talk to him like yeah I get it, but the longest relationship you have is with yourself and if he talks about it with someone. That I noticed him rushing stuff etc. 
Might try to gently say this won't work out now. 
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:28
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Sylvan wrote:
That is so weird, who makes a new person they just met their bg wtf
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:32
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
I think it's like bpd thing he got going there, but he said he's not affected by it at first because of meds while at the same time telling me i'm his new favorite person whatever that means 
Oh shoot that adds a whole another layer to it.. not good. Honestly the sooner you ghost/block whatever the less damage you’ll do to him and yourself.

About BPD and favorite person: ”The individual with BPD wants their favorite person’s attention as much as possible, and the quality of the relationship can undoubtedly shape their mood, confidence, and sense of security.” & ”At first, a favorite person may seem like a “savior” for the individual with BPD. They often believe this person is perfect, and they will inherently idolize them. As a result, they may feel euphoric when spending time together and often miss them deeply when they are apart.”
Okay so he talked to me now and the topic was about food and what i'm gonna make later today. And he talked about how he loves to make food when you're two etc. I said yeah but it's nice to do it myself too, because I enjoy my own company. 
He said he hates his own company and need someone to need him/love him etc. 
I try to talk to him like yeah I get it, but the longest relationship you have is with yourself and if he talks about it with someone. That I noticed him rushing stuff etc. 
Might try to gently say this won't work out now. 
You are absolutely right, you are your own best friend and you should be able to be alone at times with your own thoughts, you don’t need anyone to love you to feel full or whole as a person. I’d say you should either gently tell him that you’re not interested or ghost him. Maybe try to communicate first and if he doesn’t approve or whatnot it’s ur right to ghost/block him entirely. Take care of yourself angel! 
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:36
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Versailles wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
That is so weird, who makes a new person they just met their bg wtf
We didnt meet irl, we just talked back and forth just a bit before he did that  very weird indeed
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:43 | Times changed: 1
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Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Oh shoot that adds a whole another layer to it.. not good. Honestly the sooner you ghost/block whatever the less damage you’ll do to him and yourself.

About BPD and favorite person: ”The individual with BPD wants their favorite person’s attention as much as possible, and the quality of the relationship can undoubtedly shape their mood, confidence, and sense of security.” & ”At first, a favorite person may seem like a “savior” for the individual with BPD. They often believe this person is perfect, and they will inherently idolize them. As a result, they may feel euphoric when spending time together and often miss them deeply when they are apart.”
Okay so he talked to me now and the topic was about food and what i'm gonna make later today. And he talked about how he loves to make food when you're two etc. I said yeah but it's nice to do it myself too, because I enjoy my own company. 
He said he hates his own company and need someone to need him/love him etc. 
I try to talk to him like yeah I get it, but the longest relationship you have is with yourself and if he talks about it with someone. That I noticed him rushing stuff etc. 
Might try to gently say this won't work out now. 
You are absolutely right, you are your own best friend and you should be able to be alone at times with your own thoughts, you don’t need anyone to love you to feel full or whole as a person. I’d say you should either gently tell him that you’re not interested or ghost him. Maybe try to communicate first and if he doesn’t approve or whatnot it’s ur right to ghost/block him entirely. Take care of yourself angel! 

I got to talk a bit now. I told him I felt rushed and it made me feel anxious, he said sorry tons etc and didn't mean to, and that he also gave up seeing therapists etc. Anyhow I told him i'd better me honest and say that rather than back off saying nothing, but that he should know i'm anxious person and got bad experience with lovebombing. 

Hopefully this makes it easy to back off or say sorry I can't do this now.
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:45
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Versailles wrote:
Oh my god ok so now he's like baiting pity party
Like that he's too intense and sorry, that everyone leaves him for who he is. Etc. I told him I don't think it's personally for who he is but rather idealizing too early which are unrealistic and put stress on the other person because it feels like a responsibility. Also said that's it's healthy to put boundaries, which is why I talked about it. 
I hope he learns something from this. I was this close to just block but actually I felt like saying as it is
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:53
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Oh my god ok so now he's like baiting pity party
Like that he's too intense and sorry, that everyone leaves him for who he is. Etc. I told him I don't think it's personally for who he is but rather idealizing too early which are unrealistic and put stress on the other person because it feels like a responsibility. Also said that's it's healthy to put boundaries, which is why I talked about it. 
I hope he learns something from this. I was this close to just block but actually I felt like saying as it is
Thats good communication is always important, esp in uncomfortable situations like this! Very mature of you as well! Aaand remember to respect your own boundaries, if your anxiety levels rise too high take a step back ans rethink what you want to do. 
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Date: 23-11-2021 18:59 | Times changed: 1
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Claire wrote:
youre putting way too much energy into this you need to block him
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Date: 23-11-2021 19:02
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Pitbull wrote:

just say its bc ur an aquarius 
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Date: 23-11-2021 19:14
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