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Ghosting someone
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Versailles wrote:
I know ghosting is bad, but he makes me extremely uncomfortable I don't even want to tell him like "sorry but I can't do this". 

I matched with someone two days ago and was talking a bit. Just to get to know eachother. Shortly he was all like i'm the dream woman, and was like jokely about wedding etc. At first I thought it was harmless flirting.
But then shortly he was all like ''We can be exclusive if u wanna'' same day??? And this time I got the vibe it wasnt a joke. 

He idealized me too much and calling me perfect while not knowing me. Also before bed he was like, "i hope u gonna talk to me tomorrow, i'd like to talk to you forever"

I'm freaking out tbh, and trying to be lowey and tell him like i need time to get to know etc. But honestly at this point i don't want to talk to him ever, esp when the next day he told me he had me as background pic on his phone. I said it's too early and feels like a relationship thingy to do, and later he was all in about that my chatting is different today than yesterday and if I talk with new matches etc. 

I'm feeling so uneasy and having tons of anxiety 
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Annie wrote:
ghosting him at this point is perfectly normal n valid. this dood moving at the speed of light, tiktok lesbians are even shocked
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:14
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Versailles wrote:
Also he's all like ew one night stand girls are nasty hope ur not one of them (i am) and i was like i respect that you're not into that, and same day sending snap abt ''wanna make out ;*'' LIKE BRUH
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:16
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YSL wrote:
ghost him if he makes you feel uneasy
you don't owe him an explanation
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:16
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cobain wrote:
omg honestly sometimes ghosting is ok in my book. you've just talked for TWO days. it's different ghosting someone after idk 2 months. casual talk on tinder for a few days or even a week or two, then it's ok ghosting i feel. maybe not the nicest thing to do but it's fucking tinder....... 
but mhm yeah definitely stop talking to him lol sounds like a major creep !
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:16
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SweetLapis wrote:
Ghosting is bad, but here this is totally understandable. I personally had the same problem myself so I can relate. Based on what you've said this guy gives the creeps. He not just moving fast, he doesn't appear to believe in boundaries. Like he's acting like you've both been in a relationship for months which no just no. You have every right to do what you did honestly.
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:17
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Random wrote:
Eww that reminds me of the guy I went on a date with, after that he was trying to fix all my shortcomings (in his opinion). I mean I know I have problems and I'm trying to fix them, but he telling me he can fix everything. Like bruh...first date, hell nah.


So please do ghost him, that's not ok behavior after such a short time. Usually not fan of ghosting, but this doesn't even need explanation or anything.
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:18
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Versailles wrote:
He gives me major stalker vibes, trying to figure out where I live and work etc too. So maybe ghosting is bad idea?? But I don't know how to say, ''you're making me feel uneasy, I don't want to talk anymore'' because in his head he's being loving, good person who gives all in, I think. Since he got black/white look on ppl. Idk
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:19
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Versailles wrote:
Okay I will try saying sum abt I don't feel like wanting to talk further or something, and explain why if he asks. But if he says something uncomfy again i'll block everywhere and that will b the answer.
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:23
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Claire wrote:
two days lmao just block him
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:29
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kagura wrote:
just.. block him? you don't even know each others, you don't owe him anything 
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:30
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Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:33
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Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:36
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Claire wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
log on and change thepasswords lmfao
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:38
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bruhh i would be so weirded out 
Date: 23-11-2021 17:40
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Versailles wrote:
Claire wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Your picture as his phone background???? Run and never look back. Block ghost assassinate whatever you need to do
I ALMOST THREW UP WHEN I READ THAT NEXT DAY and he was all like ''missed you'' etc, we barely spoke just told what we do for fun, what's up etc??? 
Also after I told him it gives relatiopship vibes that's why I feel like early, and he was offended like ''i just like having something on phone that looks good'' like ok. And after talking about tv shows and what he recommends, he was like ''btw here's my different streaming accounts and password or is it too relationship for ya?'' 
It makes me feel like he entitled that I owe him something if I would've used his stuff, which i'll never do
log on and change thepasswords lmfao
ok kinda tempting to be shitty tbh lmao, atleast he'd know i'm not uwu perfect wife material uwu like he believes i am. 
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Date: 23-11-2021 17:43
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