Sol wrote:Nuola wrote:Sol wrote:
hmm i think that depends on how negative the breakup was. for me it was sad but not angry/negative, you know what i mean? i think if you've ended things with a big fight, it might be harder to become friends again. but that truly can be difference for each person i think, it depends how badly you both want it
he just stopped communicating right before the breakup but i didn't think much of it because he was busy moving and even our mutual friends said it was probably nothing. he hardly explained why. and i think my stubbornness for communication and answers is what drove him off. a mutual told me "Stop calling him stop inviting him to games. he hasnt blocked you because he was giving you a chance to sort yourself out but you being crazy" and "ok i will give answer. You couldn't have dug yourself a deeper hole if you tried and now he doesnt want to talk to you so stop trying"
he couldnt even say it to me himself.
wow, that sucks a lot. sounds like a dickmove to me but also kind of like how my breakup went, lol. my friend wanted space from me & i didnt give it to him. he wanted that space bc he didn't like me that way, though, so there was a reasoning behind his actions. im not sure at what point you are rn in ur relationship with ur guy? have you offcially broken up, or are you still together?