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misjel wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Misjel wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Yeah I suppose it also just takes practice like idk what it is but as soon as they like let me speak I just go blank bc im very aware everyones attention is on me and it makes me forget everything


Which is why I generally dont make eyecontact when talking to people in conversation either
yeah it probably takes practice, what do you think about conversations in smaller groups? likek a group of 3 or like just you and the other person?
When its just one other person its relatively okay bc I am forced to say stuff and like its a conversation they expect you to say something but even then sometimes all I can say is like ah yes

But in groups of 3 then yeah I just let the other two talk tho I think I could if I tried harder
maybe start from that then >>:3

but then just know like you don't have to force it if you like sitting back and listening it's up to you
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Azriel wrote:
Misjel wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Misjel wrote:
yeah it probably takes practice, what do you think about conversations in smaller groups? likek a group of 3 or like just you and the other person?
When its just one other person its relatively okay bc I am forced to say stuff and like its a conversation they expect you to say something but even then sometimes all I can say is like ah yes

But in groups of 3 then yeah I just let the other two talk tho I think I could if I tried harder
maybe start from that then >>:3

but then just know like you don't have to force it if you like sitting back and listening it's up to you
Yeah I suppose but I want people to like me so will have to try harder
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sapovnela wrote:
they should accept you even if you're not as talkative if they are truly your friends. not everything is about conversations, you'll eventually run out of interesting topics if you hang a lot and when you just talk to break silence, its pure shit. i relate to this tho, probably all you could do is forcing yourself to reply and if you start exercising that maybe it will become a bit more natural
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Sylvan wrote:
Boring is good
They don't deserve you 
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Yes and I have like 3 friendgroups rn and I know that means I have nothing to complain about honestly but im afraid one group is/will start hanging out without me and I rly like them and I know im quiet and stoic and all that shit and I hate it bc its not like I want to be quiet I just dont even know what to say and it annoys the shit out of me
Try to chat with one of the people in the group or try small comments about the things they are saying? This is difficult but maybe think a little less about what you want to say and just try to say something, can be related or unrelated 
How do I say smth when I dont think about it like

Saying something unrelated just sounds rude and if its related all that comes out of me is like .. "nice" i might as well say nothing
me bc even if I'm interested in what ppl say I am not interest in the person enough to further inquire about the topic and get to know them 

maybe you should ask questions regarding what they say, or mention something that is similar to the topic like misjel said "makes me think of [insert]"
Date: 04-02-2022 21:23
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Azriel wrote:
sapovnela wrote:
they should accept you even if you're not as talkative if they are truly your friends. not everything is about conversations, you'll eventually run out of interesting topics if you hang a lot and when you just talk to break silence, its pure shit. i relate to this tho, probably all you could do is forcing yourself to reply and if you start exercising that maybe it will become a bit more natural
Yeah I know I dont constantly have to talk but when people are commenting on how im quiet or shit then its too bad yk 


But yes.. practice
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Azriel wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Boring is good
They don't deserve you 
The one that called me boring rly doesnt tbh half of that group are shit people but theyre from my high school and yeah we have fun
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Azriel wrote:
bebebebebe wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Sesam wrote:
Try to chat with one of the people in the group or try small comments about the things they are saying? This is difficult but maybe think a little less about what you want to say and just try to say something, can be related or unrelated 
How do I say smth when I dont think about it like

Saying something unrelated just sounds rude and if its related all that comes out of me is like .. "nice" i might as well say nothing
me bc even if I'm interested in what ppl say I am not interest in the person enough to further inquire about the topic and get to know them 

maybe you should ask questions regarding what they say, or mention something that is similar to the topic like misjel said "makes me think of [insert]"
Yes I suppose so hmm
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Azriel wrote:
It sounds so easy now pls but I know I'll just die as soon as I talk to someone again
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U talk about things u like 
Date: 04-02-2022 21:37
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Versailles wrote:
feel like it helps to ask more questions about the topic ppl talk about, but lmao the audacity of em to call u boring tho 
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Azriel wrote:
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feel like it helps to ask more questions about the topic ppl talk about, but lmao the audacity of em to call u boring tho 
Yeah I know I just can't get to questions lmaooo  

Myes they're very direct I can appreciate that
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Versailles wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Versailles wrote:
feel like it helps to ask more questions about the topic ppl talk about, but lmao the audacity of em to call u boring tho 
Yeah I know I just can't get to questions lmaooo  

Myes they're very direct I can appreciate that
oufff, idk if it helps but i think many relate. I sometimes just zone off or cant keep convo without jumping topics, im having trouble with focus tho lmao

yeah the ones who's direct are usually the best friendships tbh but id still yeet them if id be called boring LMAO
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Date: 04-02-2022 22:01
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Azriel wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Versailles wrote:
feel like it helps to ask more questions about the topic ppl talk about, but lmao the audacity of em to call u boring tho 
Yeah I know I just can't get to questions lmaooo  

Myes they're very direct I can appreciate that
oufff, idk if it helps but i think many relate. I sometimes just zone off or cant keep convo without jumping topics, im having trouble with focus tho lmao

yeah the ones who's direct are usually the best friendships tbh but id still yeet them if id be called boring LMAO
Yes me too lol I spent a week with my friends in brussels and the amount of times they joked I was afk was ,, funny
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I just talk bullshit, like the first thing that comes into mind, my friends like that cus it brings interesting conversations but also they bully me cus I say bullshit (wth.....) But we r a bully gang so makes sense, your friends would proabbly not bully u
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