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Noir
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Noir wrote:
autism wrote:
Noir wrote:
autism wrote:
block him
Im gonna still see him in uni
irl block him
That would be very difficult because he is a very good friend of my best friend. And they are planning on throwing a party because they have their birthdays in this month and im invited and im not going to say no, because its her birthday too. Also my uni is very small, but thank god he studies a different degree and i dont see him that often
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Date: 06-03-2022 20:47 | Times changed: 2
Laboratory
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Laboratory wrote:
dude tried to tell u what to wear? wtf?!?!+1+ i
am shit at handling any sorta situation myself but I think uve been given good advice, just had to make this comment cause wtf.
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Date: 06-03-2022 20:48
Noir
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Noir wrote:
Laboratory wrote:
dude tried to tell u what to wear? wtf?!?!+1+ i
am shit at handling any sorta situation myself but I think uve been given good advice, just had to make this comment cause wtf.
I swear when he told me that i was like wtf. It was really a red flag for me. Moreover his style is completely oposite to mine. Like he wanted me to wear a polo dress to a disco and i dont wear preppy stuff. 
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Date: 06-03-2022 20:52
Laboratory
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Laboratory wrote:
Noir wrote:
Laboratory wrote:
dude tried to tell u what to wear? wtf?!?!+1+ i
am shit at handling any sorta situation myself but I think uve been given good advice, just had to make this comment cause wtf.
I swear when he told me that i was like wtf. It was really a red flag for me. Moreover his style is completely oposite to mine. Like he wanted me to wear a polo dress to a disco and i dont wear preppy stuff. 
Lmao very valid, I would have been so taken back by that... what a creep
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Date: 06-03-2022 21:02
Private
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
a man is making you feel uncomfortable + stepping on your personal boundaries and you're still trying to be nice? bestie,,,,,,,,,,, no.
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Date: 06-03-2022 22:14
Private
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
Noir wrote:
Eostre wrote:
Just say that it is not the right time. 

Rule 1: don't let yourself get pressured into things you don't want because you want to protect someone else's feelings. Your feelings matter just as much, and in cases like these, going on with something knowing it is not really gonna be anything anyway, the better option is to just say it as it is as early as possible. don't wait until the other part is more committed to it. it is just gonna get worse.
Yeah i know. I know i need to tell him as soon as possible. But im afraid what my friend is going to say amd im afraid to confront him. But i do need to set all things clear before this gets worse. 
just putting this out there.
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Date: 06-03-2022 22:17
Private
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PaintItPink wrote:
Noir wrote:
Its not like im setting his hopes up because for example when he told me what i should wear to a party because i wouldnt look like all the other girls and a small group of people like him will find me attractive i told him that i would wear whatever i wanted and that makes me feel comfortable and that i dont care about the boys. He didnt know how to respond to that. 

But i think my friend is giving him hopes. That's why im going to speak with her tomorrow

he rlly shouldnt tell u what to wear if he isnt even ur bf
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Date: 06-03-2022 22:21
Private
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emogirrrl123 wrote:
PaintItPink wrote:
Noir wrote:
Its not like im setting his hopes up because for example when he told me what i should wear to a party because i wouldnt look like all the other girls and a small group of people like him will find me attractive i told him that i would wear whatever i wanted and that makes me feel comfortable and that i dont care about the boys. He didnt know how to respond to that. 

But i think my friend is giving him hopes. That's why im going to speak with her tomorrow

he rlly shouldnt tell u what to wear if he isnt even ur bf
he seems like a controlling person in general, like surely he knows she's not into him by this point yet he's sliding into her dms through a friend. also doing this whole "not like other girls" shit = misogynistic dirt bag, probably has a whole madonna-whore complex going on since i assume he's aware that she has never had a partner before ahhhh there are so many red flags out there and tbh questioning what kind of a person would even be friends with such a dude
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Date: 06-03-2022 22:26
Noir
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Noir wrote:
Update

Talked to my friend and she said the he inviting me to a date was a joke and that she feels sorry that it affected me that much. She talked to him and she didnt know he dm me later. However i feel a little salty like why do those kind of jokes? And  to me who has never have a bf nor anyone has ever hit on me before.i have severe anxiety problems and im really introvert, i hate those kinds of shit and situations  And it hurts that my friend who knows me very well and to whom i talked to about all those stuff thought it would be funny and let him say that. 

Also i havent met him today and i probably wont meet him for the rest of the week. I didnt spoke with him, but if he says something like that one more time even as a joke, im gonna have a serious talk with him. 
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:39
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
was in a similar situation a few years ago when my cousin tried setting me up w her bf's twin. was not at all attracted to him in any way and she didn't tell me until AFTER she'd proposed the plan to him. ugh. anyways i just didn't answer him when he tried contacting me lmfao and then when i talked to my cousin the next time i scolded her for making shit awkward (bc i mean... she has literal children with his twin so family gatherings.... awk as hell) and for not talking to me first before telling him about her "brilliant" idea
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:45 | Times changed: 1
Noir
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Noir wrote:
cobain wrote:
was in a similar situation a few years ago when my cousin tried setting me up w her bf's twin. was not at all attracted to him in any way and she didn't tell me until AFTER she'd proposed the plan to him. ugh. anyways i just didn't answer him when he tried contacting me lmfao and then when i talked to my cousin the next time i scolded her for making shit awkward (bc i mean... she has literal children with his twin so family gatherings.... awk as hell) and for not talking to me first before telling him about her "brilliant" idea
That sucks! i really dont know why some people are so obsessed having a word in someones private life. Its my life not theirs. Im old enough to take my one decisions and if i want to date ill do it and if not, i wont. That simple. 

How did she reacted though?  
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:51
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remains wrote:
Noir wrote:
Update

Talked to my friend and she said the he inviting me to a date was a joke and that she feels sorry that it affected me that much. She talked to him and she didnt know he dm me later. However i feel a little salty like why do those kind of jokes? And  to me who has never have a bf nor anyone has ever hit on me before.i have severe anxiety problems and im really introvert, i hate those kinds of shit and situations  And it hurts that my friend who knows me very well and to whom i talked to about all those stuff thought it would be funny and let him say that. 

Also i havent met him today and i probably wont meet him for the rest of the week. I didnt spoke with him, but if he says something like that one more time even as a joke, im gonna have a serious talk with him. 
as a joke ? lmao dodged a big ass bullet right there, he seems like a little bitch
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:52
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
"Hi. I'm not interested in you, i hope you understand :-) " 

thats how u fix that
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:53
Noir
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Noir wrote:
bones wrote:
Noir wrote:
Update

Talked to my friend and she said the he inviting me to a date was a joke and that she feels sorry that it affected me that much. She talked to him and she didnt know he dm me later. However i feel a little salty like why do those kind of jokes? And  to me who has never have a bf nor anyone has ever hit on me before.i have severe anxiety problems and im really introvert, i hate those kinds of shit and situations  And it hurts that my friend who knows me very well and to whom i talked to about all those stuff thought it would be funny and let him say that. 

Also i havent met him today and i probably wont meet him for the rest of the week. I didnt spoke with him, but if he says something like that one more time even as a joke, im gonna have a serious talk with him. 
as a joke ? lmao dodged a big ass bullet right there, he seems like a little bitch
Right? It seems strange though because like he did have hit on me quite a lot and it seemed real to me. So i dont really know and my friends had told me one time that they talked about me and that he might ask me out one day if he gets to know me better and that he could probably be interested in me. That was all before he told me about what to wear and to realised i wasnt and wouldnt be interested in him. 
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Date: 07-03-2022 19:58
Private
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remains wrote:
Noir wrote:
bones wrote:
Noir wrote:
Update

Talked to my friend and she said the he inviting me to a date was a joke and that she feels sorry that it affected me that much. She talked to him and she didnt know he dm me later. However i feel a little salty like why do those kind of jokes? And  to me who has never have a bf nor anyone has ever hit on me before.i have severe anxiety problems and im really introvert, i hate those kinds of shit and situations  And it hurts that my friend who knows me very well and to whom i talked to about all those stuff thought it would be funny and let him say that. 

Also i havent met him today and i probably wont meet him for the rest of the week. I didnt spoke with him, but if he says something like that one more time even as a joke, im gonna have a serious talk with him. 
as a joke ? lmao dodged a big ass bullet right there, he seems like a little bitch
Right? It seems strange though because like he did have hit on me quite a lot and it seemed real to me. So i dont really know and my friends had told me one time that they talked about me and that he might ask me out one day if he gets to know me better and that he could probably be interested in me. That was all before he told me about what to wear and to realised i wasnt and wouldnt be interested in him. 
probably his ego talking cuz he got rejected
cant be bothered about it if he wasnt serious in the first place right
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Date: 07-03-2022 20:00
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