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Versailles wrote:
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Rhaella wrote:
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lmao i also didnt want to date coworker because scared if things doesnt go well it might be awkward. But my coworker and i got together and living together wooops. It's risky but it might work out? But I think it's not the end of the world if you both aint a fit afterall.
how did people at your work react? nice to hear you found a way to make it work tho!
So i ended up making out with him at a party which one of my coworker hosted, I had huge hangover anxiety and later told my boss (she's cool so i'm open abt most things) abt it and how i'm anxious since I don't remember shit. We just laughed abt it and said it happens. 

Thought it was one time case but we started dating and meet up to the bookstore where we work together just to say hi to our coworkers since we already was at the mall. They got suspicous etc that we date lmaoo. Later my bf was working with someone else (not me that day) and they just chatted and she asked like how things been with him and he said he got a girlfriend, and she said like ''who, got a pic??'' and he looked at her and was like, you know her. She got confused and asked, oh?? and he said ''she's your coworker'' and honestly she was v surprised lolol. Everyone was positive abt that and thought it was fun. 

Also it's more chill when we work together now than before, but it's because we've been together 7 months and live together and had no issues that we didn't solve. 
but i'll be honest i felt stupid for going on dates and a bit nervous if it didnt work out tho, so it was a risk i went with 
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:38
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Rhaella wrote:
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Uh, that situation is always tricky but I believe if you are both adults and able to talk it out and stay on good term if things don't work out, you good.
so far i have got the feeling that he is very sweet and respectful, and i'm sure we would be able to talk everything out and be professional about it
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:42
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Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
how did people at your work react? nice to hear you found a way to make it work tho!
So i ended up making out with him at a party which one of my coworker hosted, I had huge hangover anxiety and later told my boss (she's cool so i'm open abt most things) abt it and how i'm anxious since I don't remember shit. We just laughed abt it and said it happens. 

Thought it was one time case but we started dating and meet up to the bookstore where we work together just to say hi to our coworkers since we already was at the mall. They got suspicous etc that we date lmaoo. Later my bf was working with someone else (not me that day) and they just chatted and she asked like how things been with him and he said he got a girlfriend, and she said like ''who, got a pic??'' and he looked at her and was like, you know her. She got confused and asked, oh?? and he said ''she's your coworker'' and honestly she was v surprised lolol. Everyone was positive abt that and thought it was fun. 

Also it's more chill when we work together now than before, but it's because we've been together 7 months and live together and had no issues that we didn't solve. 
but i'll be honest i felt stupid for going on dates and a bit nervous if it didnt work out tho, so it was a risk i went with 
that sounds very sweet! seems like you have a nice community at work, too. 
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:43
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Versailles wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Versailles wrote:
So i ended up making out with him at a party which one of my coworker hosted, I had huge hangover anxiety and later told my boss (she's cool so i'm open abt most things) abt it and how i'm anxious since I don't remember shit. We just laughed abt it and said it happens. 

Thought it was one time case but we started dating and meet up to the bookstore where we work together just to say hi to our coworkers since we already was at the mall. They got suspicous etc that we date lmaoo. Later my bf was working with someone else (not me that day) and they just chatted and she asked like how things been with him and he said he got a girlfriend, and she said like ''who, got a pic??'' and he looked at her and was like, you know her. She got confused and asked, oh?? and he said ''she's your coworker'' and honestly she was v surprised lolol. Everyone was positive abt that and thought it was fun. 

Also it's more chill when we work together now than before, but it's because we've been together 7 months and live together and had no issues that we didn't solve. 
but i'll be honest i felt stupid for going on dates and a bit nervous if it didnt work out tho, so it was a risk i went with 
that sounds very sweet! seems like you have a nice community at work, too. 
yeah everyone get along quite well. If you got a good gut feeling abt your coworker and things goes  alright it's no problem to try date, and if it doesnt work out i think you both can manage to get along either way (hopefully). But it's always a risk tho. In general i'm usually against dating coworker, but life happens 
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:49
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Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
Versailles wrote:
but i'll be honest i felt stupid for going on dates and a bit nervous if it didnt work out tho, so it was a risk i went with 
that sounds very sweet! seems like you have a nice community at work, too. 
yeah everyone get along quite well. If you got a good gut feeling abt your coworker and things goes  alright it's no problem to try date, and if it doesnt work out i think you both can manage to get along either way (hopefully). But it's always a risk tho. In general i'm usually against dating coworker, but life happens 
i do get a good feeling about him, like he feels so genuine and open and honest. he seems like such a gentle and sweet man. i get the feeling that he likes me a lot too, but nothing too over the top. no red flags. so, i guess i'll really give it a go.
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Date: 04-09-2022 15:56
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i mean it could work?? i met my bf through work, and we worked together for 7 months (while dating/being in a relationship) and now we've been together for 2 years.
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Date: 05-09-2022 09:27
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Rhaella wrote:
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i mean it could work?? i met my bf through work, and we worked together for 7 months (while dating/being in a relationship) and now we've been together for 2 years.
oh wow that's cool! did your colleagues know about you dating then, and if so, how did they react? did you find it easy to keep your private life private when working? 
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Date: 05-09-2022 09:37
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provocative wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
provocative wrote:
i mean it could work?? i met my bf through work, and we worked together for 7 months (while dating/being in a relationship) and now we've been together for 2 years.
oh wow that's cool! did your colleagues know about you dating then, and if so, how did they react? did you find it easy to keep your private life private when working? 
we kept it a secret the first 2-3 months, basically because i was afraid of how our boss/our coworkers would react. they asked us a few times if it was something between us but we denied it, but when the time felt right we told everyone and they were all so happy for us and many of them said "i told you it was something between them!!!" hahah. so it was all good.

yeah i think it worked pretty good for us! i mean sure if we had a fight at home/after work it could feel a bit weird at work the next day, but other then that we had no problems. we tried to keep it professional while at work c:
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Date: 05-09-2022 12:44
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Rhaella wrote:
provocative wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
provocative wrote:
i mean it could work?? i met my bf through work, and we worked together for 7 months (while dating/being in a relationship) and now we've been together for 2 years.
oh wow that's cool! did your colleagues know about you dating then, and if so, how did they react? did you find it easy to keep your private life private when working? 
we kept it a secret the first 2-3 months, basically because i was afraid of how our boss/our coworkers would react. they asked us a few times if it was something between us but we denied it, but when the time felt right we told everyone and they were all so happy for us and many of them said "i told you it was something between them!!!" hahah. so it was all good.

yeah i think it worked pretty good for us! i mean sure if we had a fight at home/after work it could feel a bit weird at work the next day, but other then that we had no problems. we tried to keep it professional while at work c:
hahah, love your coworkers' reaction! so nice of them to be so supportive. thanks for sharing your experience! it gives me hope that my situation will work out as well.

which reminds me, i think his supervisor saw us on a date last week, but i'm not sure if it was him and if it was, did he even recognise me/us. 
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Date: 05-09-2022 13:08
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provocative wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
provocative wrote:
Rhaella wrote:
oh wow that's cool! did your colleagues know about you dating then, and if so, how did they react? did you find it easy to keep your private life private when working? 
we kept it a secret the first 2-3 months, basically because i was afraid of how our boss/our coworkers would react. they asked us a few times if it was something between us but we denied it, but when the time felt right we told everyone and they were all so happy for us and many of them said "i told you it was something between them!!!" hahah. so it was all good.

yeah i think it worked pretty good for us! i mean sure if we had a fight at home/after work it could feel a bit weird at work the next day, but other then that we had no problems. we tried to keep it professional while at work c:
hahah, love your coworkers' reaction! so nice of them to be so supportive. thanks for sharing your experience! it gives me hope that my situation will work out as well.

which reminds me, i think his supervisor saw us on a date last week, but i'm not sure if it was him and if it was, did he even recognise me/us. 
yeah it was really sweet! :) ooh i see, i wish you all the luck then! <3
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Date: 05-09-2022 16:11
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Anachronism wrote:
Well I turned down an attractive neighbor because... he was my neighbor, and I regret it cuz I started to fall for him and he moved out and has a gf now 

However 

Dating a coworker was one of the worst decisions of my life 

Tho a former grocery store employee of mine has been with his coworker for a year now and they're doing great. 

Play it by ear. It's a contextual thing 
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Date: 05-09-2022 17:21
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Rhaella wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Well I turned down an attractive neighbor because... he was my neighbor, and I regret it cuz I started to fall for him and he moved out and has a gf now 

However 

Dating a coworker was one of the worst decisions of my life 

Tho a former grocery store employee of mine has been with his coworker for a year now and they're doing great. 

Play it by ear. It's a contextual thing 
oh dang, sorry to hear that. it's exactly what i fear, that this will all end badly and i'd have to change to a different company and lose my job which i happen to love, or something similarly catastrophical. but then again, i'm prone to fear the worst in every situation.
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Date: 05-09-2022 17:46
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Rhaella wrote:
OKAY UPDATE, I WAS INDEED STUPID

just got dumped by him lol. chose someone else over me. at least he was honest tho. 

sooo yikes, things are going to be a bit awkward for a while at the office
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Date: 21-09-2022 18:05
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Rhaella wrote:
so yeah i was his side piece. he had started dating someone else before me, then he chose to start dating me too, but didn't tell me about the other girl. and now his guilt caught up and he dumped me.

but according to his words, he didn't dump me for someone else. he said i should just think he decided to see where things would go with the girl he met first. but i'm still an amazing person and he likes me!!!1 jesus christ, that is just a load of bullshit. 
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Date: 22-09-2022 09:04
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