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Bloodflowers wrote:
sasukeswaifu wrote:
I felt similarly to u before I started dating my current gf and then everything just clicked for me. all thru out my teenage life I would go back and forth between thinking im bi but I would always eventually convince myself im straight bc ive had heaps of experiences w men and 0 w women.
but no matter how much I reassured myself I liked strictly men I would still think abt being attracted to and being w women (I even had genuine romantic feelings for a friend and had a whole internal crisis abt it idk why I denied so long LOL) now looking back it makes sense bc men made me super nervous for no reason, I would never make a move, I would lose interest in them VERY quickly if they actually showed that they cared for me, and it took me a very long time to get comfortable with my male "partners" and even then it wouldnt be 100%
after being with my gf for a few months I realized being with a woman over all just felt more right and natural for me. I showed her my true self right away, im very affectionate and touchy with her (I could never w other partners it gave me too much anxiety), the sex is more enjoyable and passionate imo, I realized a lot abt myself sexually w her, and I genuinely can tell the feelings I have for her are real love, I cant say the same abt the men I dated, except 1 but now I feel like it was just a very strong friendship love as we were good friends before becoming romantic.
the time span of sexuality is so different and sometimes ever-changing for everyone, it took me 24 years to figure it out and I dont think there was anything I couldve done different to discover it sooner, but thats okay thats just how my timeline was set. I think its just one of those things u have to figure out with time and experiences, and its okay if u realize that ur sexuality could be fluid too!!
thanks for sharing
I felt similarly to u before I started dating my current gf and then everything just clicked for me. all thru out my teenage life I would go back and forth between thinking im bi but I would always eventually convince myself im straight bc ive had heaps of experiences w men and 0 w women.
but no matter how much I reassured myself I liked strictly men I would still think abt being attracted to and being w women (I even had genuine romantic feelings for a friend and had a whole internal crisis abt it idk why I denied so long LOL) now looking back it makes sense bc men made me super nervous for no reason, I would never make a move, I would lose interest in them VERY quickly if they actually showed that they cared for me, and it took me a very long time to get comfortable with my male "partners" and even then it wouldnt be 100%
after being with my gf for a few months I realized being with a woman over all just felt more right and natural for me. I showed her my true self right away, im very affectionate and touchy with her (I could never w other partners it gave me too much anxiety), the sex is more enjoyable and passionate imo, I realized a lot abt myself sexually w her, and I genuinely can tell the feelings I have for her are real love, I cant say the same abt the men I dated, except 1 but now I feel like it was just a very strong friendship love as we were good friends before becoming romantic.
the time span of sexuality is so different and sometimes ever-changing for everyone, it took me 24 years to figure it out and I dont think there was anything I couldve done different to discover it sooner, but thats okay thats just how my timeline was set. I think its just one of those things u have to figure out with time and experiences, and its okay if u realize that ur sexuality could be fluid too!!
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