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Jarow
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Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:

Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:
didn't you say before that he did something else? and made another post about him here?

yeaah but it has gotten better since then! He improved a lot and apologized and actually changed. This is the only thing that has happened since then. I just dont like this streamer girl at all. I always had a weird vibe about her.

she's either bad news or it's insecurity
regardless, I'd join what other people say, communication is REALLY important and your boyfriend should know you feel this way and well that she did what she did

He thankfully didn't act on it. Also he doesn't have a OF account or something like that. He also doens't have lewd things from her or does flirt with her or anything inappropriate. I can always read/look at his phone when im with him or he has it in his hands like he doesn't turn away. I talked with him and he told me everything, he also was sorry that this made me upset (I cried because this triggered something in me) and he reassured me he loves me a lot, and he didn't wanted to make me cry. He also said we got this together and he's there for me and I shouldnt' worry.

Jarow
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Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:

Jarow wrote:

spookyjimchristmas wrote:
oh id be soooo mad. especially because 1. why is he talking to other women ESP online??? if they are friends irl then i guess its okay if hes known her for a while but online i doubt a guy is following a woman for any reason other than shes attractive or he is interested.

2. while u cant control ur dreams there is still a level of reality to them like i had a dream about a guy i never talked to once and then developed a crush on him. plus the fact he told her??? are they that fking close that he tells this bitch his dreams?

3. shes sending u mugs with her tits and asking about if ur bf would buy it... i would get her account taken down right away and send a SWAT team to her house wtf

overall i would be extremely mad and start a fight and idk how ur relationship is outside of this situation but like i said the fact he follows women online is a red flag for me

The third one is what bothers me the most. She always thinks my bf is a simp like her followers or would buy this when he indeed would not. Idk why she doesn't get it? And thinks about him like this. Also I think she disrespects her HUSBAND. Because it seems like he doesn't know whats going on AT ALL

I mean then the problem is her ig
then again if she does bait content and your bf watches it she'd not be entirely wrong to think so about him as well

I mean, shes just flirty and nice on stream. She has not a very naked vtuber at all. It's a cute one. She streams games and her followers are just.. some simps spending money on her and calling her queen etc. But my boyfriend never said something like that. He rather just writes normally, or mock her (in a friendship way). He also dont spend money on her and neither buying her stuff or is a subscriber.

Joob
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joob wrote:
divorce IMO

Jarow
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Jarow wrote:

Cairo wrote:
divorce IMO

I'm not even sure, if her husband knows what she is doing online.

Joob
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joob wrote:

Jarow wrote:

Cairo wrote:
divorce IMO

I'm not even sure, if her husband knows what she is doing online.

Double divorce

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Arthema wrote:

Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:

Jarow wrote:
The third one is what bothers me the most. She always thinks my bf is a simp like her followers or would buy this when he indeed would not. Idk why she doesn't get it? And thinks about him like this. Also I think she disrespects her HUSBAND. Because it seems like he doesn't know whats going on AT ALL

I mean then the problem is her ig
then again if she does bait content and your bf watches it she'd not be entirely wrong to think so about him as well

I mean, shes just flirty and nice on stream. She has not a very naked vtuber at all. It's a cute one. She streams games and her followers are just.. some simps spending money on her and calling her queen etc. But my boyfriend never said something like that. He rather just writes normally, or mock her (in a friendship way)

it doesn't matter how her avatar looks like if her goal is the same as those that appear more naked I'd say
he might be friendly but none knows what goes in her head I guess

regardless it's not your job to monitor what she is doing and you said yourself you don't know if the husband is aware so

Jarow
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Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:

Jarow wrote:

Arthema wrote:
I mean then the problem is her ig
then again if she does bait content and your bf watches it she'd not be entirely wrong to think so about him as well

I mean, shes just flirty and nice on stream. She has not a very naked vtuber at all. It's a cute one. She streams games and her followers are just.. some simps spending money on her and calling her queen etc. But my boyfriend never said something like that. He rather just writes normally, or mock her (in a friendship way)

it doesn't matter how her avatar looks like if her goal is the same as those that appear more naked I'd say
he might be friendly but none knows what goes in her head I guess

regardless it's not your job to monitor what she is doing and you said yourself you don't know if the husband is aware so

Yeah thats right. Not my job! That's their relationship and I should focus on mine. Thank you for the insight!

Spookyjimchristmas
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spookyjimchristmas wrote:

Klavier wrote:

spookyjimchristmas wrote:
oh id be soooo mad. especially because 1. why is he talking to other women ESP online??? if they are friends irl then i guess its okay if hes known her for a while but online i doubt a guy is following a woman for any reason other than shes attractive or he is interested.

2. while u cant control ur dreams there is still a level of reality to them like i had a dream about a guy i never talked to once and then developed a crush on him. plus the fact he told her??? are they that fking close that he tells this bitch his dreams?

3. shes sending u mugs with her tits and asking about if ur bf would buy it... i would get her account taken down right away and send a SWAT team to her house wtf

overall i would be extremely mad and start a fight and idk how ur relationship is outside of this situation but like i said the fact he follows women online is a red flag for me

this first line is so weird like... are u saying a man can't enjoy content made by a woman without wanting to bang her or.... if its specifically simp bait content sure but thats such a weird generalizing statement to make imo

and even if reality obviously has an affect on what takes place in your dreams that doesn't mean it's your subconscious telling you that you wanna bang someone..? i dream about people i never talk to constantly. of course it's likely to dream about people if you interact with them a lot, it doesn't have to mean anything. you can't judge this kinda stuff based on a dream

i meant it specifically for streaming content unless its like someone who makes idk gaming content or just talks about whatever topic interests him then thats not a problem but based on what shes saying she seems to be a bait creator so theres rlly no reason for a man in a relationship to be following her.

and second off he dreamed she had an ONLYFANS account and didnt even bother telling his gf only the woman he dreamed it about. Obviously, all these events on their own wouldnt be a huge issue but the situation as a whole is icky