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pink wrote:

Stupot wrote:

joob wrote:

Stupot wrote:
how am i already having a midlife crisis at 22 i'll actually have the worst midlife crisis when it does come

its very common to have a crisis when u feel like ur ageing

are u having a crisis

i lowkey had a big crisis when i started to get prominent finelines like what do you mean i don't have the skin of a teenager anymore i'm oldddd!! but now i like my finelines, i'll probably go through a breakdown again when i start to have prominent wrinkles

yes thats why i wanted to sell all my wrestling figures then cried about for 4 hours

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Arthema wrote:
I dont think that I ever though 50 is old though
then again my friend is the youngest behaving person I know, she is so youthful and full of live, maybe it's that? knew her ever since I was 12??? and then as I grew we actually became friends and she always was the same, even looks wise, she looks rlly young

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Arthema wrote:
one of my friends is 55, age is such a weird thing at times
I totally agree with you though on the life goes at a different pace for everyone and some do things when older and some younger, it's fine
the dating gap IS big though so ye I do have my friend but I personally wouldn't date someone 50+
I won't judge another for that though, unless somehow that person's in the same place in life as me or heading that way,n only then

also I wish I had any vivid memory of my teenage years, woe

yeah if you look at just age 20 and 30 wouldn't be the worst age gap, but you always look at age within the context of experience, that matters a lotttt... so yeah some age gaps are just wrong especially when considering that

lmao i wish i didn't tbh because i always feel like i'm regressing or something shdbsjdnkdnd

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octocat wrote:

Stupot wrote:

octocat wrote:
when i was little i thought a person of 50 was basically on their death bed lmao then my dad turned 50 nd i was like oh wait ur not that old actually

BYEBENKEJEGYEGBENEM when i was a teen idk i didnt really think about people in their 50s..

i thought they were old but not deathbed old, but now it's like... yeah they're objectively speaking old, but does one really age?? life is just so seamless .. it doesn't really feel like people age mentally at least, i'd like to think people age through experience. well it is exactly like that but it's not really the consensus so..

that makes sense,, like through experience my age make total sense. but mentally it doesn't make sense in the same way

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joob wrote:

Stupot wrote:

joob wrote:
its very common to have a crisis when u feel like ur ageing

are u having a crisis

i lowkey had a big crisis when i started to get prominent finelines like what do you mean i don't have the skin of a teenager anymore i'm oldddd!! but now i like my finelines, i'll probably go through a breakdown again when i start to have prominent wrinkles

yes thats why i wanted to sell all my wrestling figures then cried about for 4 hours

awwww nooo

.. i didnt really have an aging crisis until 21 tbh like this is facked why am i 22 why am i gonna be 25 why am i gonna be 30 oh my god im gonna be 35 and then 40 LIKE THIS ISNT NORMALLLLLLL

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octocat wrote:

Stupot wrote:

octocat wrote:
i kinda relate, age is such a weird fkn concept lmao

it's so fucking weird i can't wrap my head around it, it makes perfect sense up until someone is 20, but after that it's just so???????????

yess like i turn 27 this year ??? that just feels wrong like pls im basically 21 still help

rightt like i guess i do feel my age, but i don't act my age tbh... i know i'm 21 and feel that i am 21, but i don't think i behave like what a 21 year old should behave, but at the same time i feel like i'm also the norm for 21 year olds, i mean personality wise i guess, life wise i am 100% behind but that's not where my crisis stems from

another thing i'm struggling with is also... the concept of motherhood.. ughhh

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pink wrote:

Stupot wrote:

joob wrote:

Stupot wrote:
are u having a crisis

i lowkey had a big crisis when i started to get prominent finelines like what do you mean i don't have the skin of a teenager anymore i'm oldddd!! but now i like my finelines, i'll probably go through a breakdown again when i start to have prominent wrinkles

yes thats why i wanted to sell all my wrestling figures then cried about for 4 hours

awwww nooo

.. i didnt really have an aging crisis until 21 tbh like this is facked why am i 22 why am i gonna be 25 why am i gonna be 30 oh my god im gonna be 35 and then 40 LIKE THIS ISNT NORMALLLLLLL

i think its just because i feel wow i was about to say the same u just said above me so i relate

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Arthema wrote:
I dont think that I ever though 50 is old though
then again my friend is the youngest behaving person I know, she is so youthful and full of live, maybe it's that? knew her ever since I was 12??? and then as I grew we actually became friends and she always was the same, even looks wise, she looks rlly young

wilddd

that's really nice though! it's really nice that she doesn't let her age define her, well not that it should ever be the case of course

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joob wrote:

Stupot wrote:

joob wrote:
yes thats why i wanted to sell all my wrestling figures then cried about for 4 hours

awwww nooo

.. i didnt really have an aging crisis until 21 tbh like this is facked why am i 22 why am i gonna be 25 why am i gonna be 30 oh my god im gonna be 35 and then 40 LIKE THIS ISNT NORMALLLLLLL

i think its just because i feel wow i was about to say the same u just said above me so i relate

HAHSBHBAHS yeah..

Octocat
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octocat wrote:

Stupot wrote:

octocat wrote:

Stupot wrote:
it's so fucking weird i can't wrap my head around it, it makes perfect sense up until someone is 20, but after that it's just so???????????

yess like i turn 27 this year ??? that just feels wrong like pls im basically 21 still help

rightt like i guess i do feel my age, but i don't act my age tbh... i know i'm 21 and feel that i am 21, but i don't think i behave like what a 21 year old should behave, but at the same time i feel like i'm also the norm for 21 year olds, i mean personality wise i guess, life wise i am 100% behind but that's not where my crisis stems from

another thing i'm struggling with is also... the concept of motherhood.. ughhh thisssss yes

honestly 21-23 was the only time i actually felt my age nd it was so peaceful in a way

but i think covid fucked with a lot of our perceptions as well bc life basically stood still but we still aged

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i think another thing that makes me question my validity as a 21 year old is being bffs with joob like why is joob a literal infant and im a literal adult what does it say about me... i mean i wouldn't change it just because it makes me feel immature or something but u know

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Maxwell wrote:
My favorite thing is when I do smthin I dont like like bein at the dentist Ill b like "this is just a memory itll b over in a blink" nd then 2 years later I suddenly remember it nd Im like oh, it rlly did go over in a blink

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octocat wrote:

Stupot wrote:

octocat wrote:
yess like i turn 27 this year ??? that just feels wrong like pls im basically 21 still help

rightt like i guess i do feel my age, but i don't act my age tbh... i know i'm 21 and feel that i am 21, but i don't think i behave like what a 21 year old should behave, but at the same time i feel like i'm also the norm for 21 year olds, i mean personality wise i guess, life wise i am 100% behind but that's not where my crisis stems from

another thing i'm struggling with is also... the concept of motherhood.. ughhh thisssss yes

honestly 21-23 was the only time i actually felt my age nd it was so peaceful in a way

but i think covid fucked with a lot of our perceptions as well bc life basically stood still but we still aged

yeahhh maybe covid maybe covid... but honestly i probably would have felt this way whether covid had happened or not

god i hate how im not even 25 yet (considered "the biological wall" for women) and im already like maybe i should have a child?? maybe i shouldnt put an end to things?? what if im 32 one day and i regret not having kids?? maybe 32 isnt too old to have kids?? i dont know...

its funny cus i dont even have the opportunity to have kids anyway OAJLASJOSM.. but yeah maybe ill be like my sister who's a single mom or something just get it over with and do it by yourself lol

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Maxwell wrote:
My favorite thing is when I do smthin I dont like like bein at the dentist Ill b like "this is just a memory itll b over in a blink" nd then 2 years later I suddenly remember it nd Im like oh, it rlly did go over in a blink

hahabahsbaha no literally i hate how i remember some events sooo vividly like the most random insignificant mundane shit too...

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my mom should have never said she'd be okay with me having a baby now because now i'm panicking