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being alone

Private
Living legend

glowed wrote:

Azriel wrote:

glowed wrote:

Azriel wrote:
i have the exact same issue
im an only child so i was alone all the time but since i moved out i was constantly surrounded by friends
and now i moved to another country and i barely have friends here, those that i do have i dont see regularly and i dont live with my best friends anymore
ive been spending all of my time w my bf the past few months but hes been busy recently so i havent seen him much the past two weeks and i just broke down lmao idk how to be on my own anymore either

sending hugs! if you ever need sb to talk to, I’m a message away

I have two younger siblings and a huge family generally so,. I’ve really never been alone
it’s so interesting looking back on my teenage self locking myself up in my room and being pissed off by noise, comparing it to present day when I go to my room only to sleep after spending the entire day someplace else in the house with other people

thank u <3

during my bachelor i always connected with people who also jsut , didnt have anything else to do and would just hang out with them, its just so nice to have someone around

trying to hang out w people is getting harder and harder as everyone’s getting older and busier 😭 then i feel like a loser because shouldn’t i too be busier? ohwell

Private
Minister of Pop

Azriel wrote:

glowed wrote:

Azriel wrote:

glowed wrote:
sending hugs! if you ever need sb to talk to, I’m a message away

I have two younger siblings and a huge family generally so,. I’ve really never been alone
it’s so interesting looking back on my teenage self locking myself up in my room and being pissed off by noise, comparing it to present day when I go to my room only to sleep after spending the entire day someplace else in the house with other people

thank u <3

during my bachelor i always connected with people who also jsut , didnt have anything else to do and would just hang out with them, its just so nice to have someone around

trying to hang out w people is getting harder and harder as everyone’s getting older and busier 😭 then i feel like a loser because shouldn’t i too be busier? ohwell

yeah fr lmao i should get a hobby or a job or smth

Private
Living legend

glowed wrote:
tomorrow I will scrapbook and listen the video essay I found today
and maybe go for a walk yes!

Private
Living legend

Maxwell wrote:
I'm good at being alone with others around that I know, if that makes sense :cry

I do LOVE my alone time I need that shit

Like when I moved out I was miserable bcus I was all alone all the time bcus I was too anxious to get to know my housemates
Moving back home helped and I thought it was the familiar setting doing it, living where I've always lived, but once in a while I'll be the only one at home for a weekend and I can feel that lonely feeling surge back up
Not that I'll see my parents more by having them home I'm just holed up in my room anyway, and yet it gets so lonely when they are gone for a couple of days

TogetherForever
International star

TogetherForever wrote:
I'm like the opposite ish. I used to always be with family or friends, or working, and I would never have much alone time, or time for myself. But now I don't have as much going on, and its kind of just hit me that I want to be alone and I want more alone time to do things for myself rather than just for others. It's felt nice to have some space to be away from the demands of people. I'm just working to figure out how to balance that so that people don't think I've just disappeared.

Basil
Youtube star

Basil wrote:
i NEED alone time or i start snapping at my loved ones

i think figuring out how to enjoy moments to yourself can be really challenging. my only advice is to avoid spending your alone time with 'entertainment' (movies, tv, social media, games, etc) because you deserve to have entertainment AND time alone with yourself

i usually use my alone time to work on personal projects. writing in a journal can also be super helpful for organising your thoughts/goals outside of your alone time

so sorry to hear you are struggling with being alone though (l)

i really cannot recommend getting into a self care routine enough, making the time every day where YOU and your well being are the priority can make a world of difference

ArianaGrande
National star

ArianaGrande wrote:
ever since I was a child I've spent most of my time alone, although I wouldn't say I was ever completely alone because while I was alone in person, I always had people to talk to online.. but the times I was alone in both ways did feel quite hard for me (and I have kept people in my life that I shouldn't have just because I didn't want to be alone) even though I'm certain that I could "survive" it again. but naturally, social isolation can really do a number on you

there was a time recently where I socialized a decent amount in real life but honestly I'm not sure if it truly made me feel much better, mostly because of the people I surrounded myself with, but if anything I feel better now that I don't really go out with them and am by myself 95% of the time... I also just have never been a social person (and I'm too weary of people in general) so I have never managed to fully enjoy those times just because of a bunch of mental issues I suppose... although I still get to socialize at school and I think that's a good enough amount for me.

I still live with my family but I don't really talk to them much, but if I go longer periods without even seeing them at all or if I don't go to school, I'll start to feel a little too isolated for my taste, so it suffices to even just... see people really.

I could probably bear living on my own (it often feels like I already do) but I would need to have some way to see people in person on a daily basis whether it'd be work or school, or else I'm certain I would completely lose my mind jagkshebsksj. I've also found that if I'm socializing regularly, my close friendships have a lot more balance so it really helps in that regard too!

ArianaGrande
National star

ArianaGrande wrote:
all in all no matter how used you are to it, nothing compares to even the mere presence of other people to be honest. especially people that are good for you

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