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glowed wrote:
it’s the first time I’ve been all on my own since the holidays and I can’t help but wonder. I used to love spending time alone in my room just drawing or reading or whatnot. and then I moved out and things shifted drastically? I am not a social person by any means but there’s something about the silence when you’re alone that’s louder than any music or show or white noise you play

I need to relearn how to be alone lmao but where does one start??

talking about this with my family or friends would only make me feel worse so here i am ranting away on virtualpopstardotcom

do you like your alone time?
did you ever make a conscious effort to learn to spend time with your own self?
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Date: 22-01-2025 23:19
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glowed wrote:
amazing idea— i pick up my diary instead of whatever this is! yes!
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Brutus wrote:
i’m still struggling with this too, but it does get better with time
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devilcake wrote:
i think the novelty of being alone defo disappears once you live away from your family home long enough

i still like my alone time though but i think i have brain that is very specifically wired for it (i have like 0 concept of time so  the amount of time im alone doesnt trly register)... or it might be percy that helps

can u get a pet
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Date: 22-01-2025 23:46
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glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i think the novelty of being alone defo disappears once you live away from your family home long enough

i still like my alone time though but i think i have brain that is very specifically wired for it (i have like 0 concept of time so  the amount of time im alone doesnt trly register)... or it might be percy that helps

can u get a pet
I don’t live alone thankfully T_T I have a flatmate but she went home today 
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Date: 22-01-2025 23:51
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Azriel wrote:
i have the exact same issue
im an only child so i was alone all the time but since i moved out i was constantly surrounded by friends
and now i moved to another country and i barely have friends here, those that i do have i dont see regularly and i dont live with my best friends anymore
ive been spending all of my time w my bf the past few months but hes been busy recently so i havent seen him much the past two weeks and i just broke down lmao idk how to be on my own anymore either 
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Sometimes 
Years ago because I don't have siblings 
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devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i think the novelty of being alone defo disappears once you live away from your family home long enough

i still like my alone time though but i think i have brain that is very specifically wired for it (i have like 0 concept of time so  the amount of time im alone doesnt trly register)... or it might be percy that helps

can u get a pet
I don’t live alone thankfully T_T I have a flatmate but she went home today 
u shud still get a petr for when shes not there...

or you shud take the opportunity to do silly embarassing things u cant normally do like singing to waste the time... unless u sing normally then i guess dance idk
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Date: 22-01-2025 23:54
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glowed wrote:
Azriel wrote:
i have the exact same issue
im an only child so i was alone all the time but since i moved out i was constantly surrounded by friends
and now i moved to another country and i barely have friends here, those that i do have i dont see regularly and i dont live with my best friends anymore
ive been spending all of my time w my bf the past few months but hes been busy recently so i havent seen him much the past two weeks and i just broke down lmao idk how to be on my own anymore either 
sending hugs! if you ever need sb to talk to, I’m a message away 

I have two younger siblings and a huge family generally so,. I’ve really never been alone 
it’s so interesting looking back on my teenage self locking myself up in my room and being pissed off by noise, comparing it to present day when I go to my room only to sleep after spending the entire day someplace else in the house with other people 
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glowed wrote:
I am talking as if I moved out yesterday and not 4 years ago lmao idk what’s with me today
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devilcake wrote:
actually i used to get like severe anxiety n panic attacks sometimes when i was home alone as a kid but i ont fink that was because of like lonelyness
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Date: 22-01-2025 23:58
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glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i think the novelty of being alone defo disappears once you live away from your family home long enough

i still like my alone time though but i think i have brain that is very specifically wired for it (i have like 0 concept of time so  the amount of time im alone doesnt trly register)... or it might be percy that helps

can u get a pet
I don’t live alone thankfully T_T I have a flatmate but she went home today 
u shud still get a petr for when shes not there...

or you shud take the opportunity to do silly embarassing things u cant normally do like singing to waste the time... unless u sing normally then i guess dance idk
I just played games and spent the day in bed lmao
but maybe tomorrow I’ll feel like dancing 
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devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
I am talking as if I moved out yesterday and not 4 years ago lmao idk what’s with me today
sometimes it just hits u!! it even hits me sometimes tho its v rare
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devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
I don’t live alone thankfully T_T I have a flatmate but she went home today 
u shud still get a petr for when shes not there...

or you shud take the opportunity to do silly embarassing things u cant normally do like singing to waste the time... unless u sing normally then i guess dance idk
I just played games and spent the day in bed lmao
but maybe tomorrow I’ll feel like dancing 
games are good too good distraction!!
i fink maybe finding something u can do only during alone time makes u look forward to it more tho maybe, tho i guess that doesnt solve the core issue oflearning to be okay with it
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Date: 23-01-2025 00:00
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glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
glowed wrote:
devilcake wrote:
u shud still get a petr for when shes not there...

or you shud take the opportunity to do silly embarassing things u cant normally do like singing to waste the time... unless u sing normally then i guess dance idk
I just played games and spent the day in bed lmao
but maybe tomorrow I’ll feel like dancing 
games are good too good distraction!!
i fink maybe finding something u can do only during alone time makes u look forward to it more tho maybe, tho i guess that doesnt solve the core issue oflearning to be okay with it
that’s part of the issue kinda, since I can’t even get myself to do those things. hhh take for example junk journaling/scrapbooking. I barely ever do that these days bc my flatmate hates mess so I tend to avoid any messy arts and crafts when she’s around. and instead of being excited that I have the space and time to do that now? I just did nothing 
maybe I should look into therapy! perhaps!
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Date: 23-01-2025 00:08
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Azriel wrote:
glowed wrote:
Azriel wrote:
i have the exact same issue
im an only child so i was alone all the time but since i moved out i was constantly surrounded by friends
and now i moved to another country and i barely have friends here, those that i do have i dont see regularly and i dont live with my best friends anymore
ive been spending all of my time w my bf the past few months but hes been busy recently so i havent seen him much the past two weeks and i just broke down lmao idk how to be on my own anymore either 
sending hugs! if you ever need sb to talk to, I’m a message away 

I have two younger siblings and a huge family generally so,. I’ve really never been alone 
it’s so interesting looking back on my teenage self locking myself up in my room and being pissed off by noise, comparing it to present day when I go to my room only to sleep after spending the entire day someplace else in the house with other people 
thank u <3

during my bachelor i always connected with people who also jsut , didnt have anything else to do and would just hang out with them, its just so nice to have someone around
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