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A question for lurkers
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DAD wrote:
DAD wrote:
i mostly lurk but it's because i'm scared to add anything to conversations and also i've been busy with work : p

i mostly come on to change my outfit then log off lol
also i feel like everyone else is bff's or already comfortable enough to hang out off the platform and i feel like i dont know anyone
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Date: 14-02-2025 00:46
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Elisia wrote:
DAD wrote:
DAD wrote:
i mostly lurk but it's because i'm scared to add anything to conversations and also i've been busy with work : p

i mostly come on to change my outfit then log off lol
also i feel like everyone else is bff's or already comfortable enough to hang out off the platform and i feel like i dont know anyone
This is so real, but i think there's actually less people who hang out off platform than you think,,, I mean hi thread people definitely do and the teams all do, but even then I think a lot of those convos happen or start here
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Date: 14-02-2025 00:53
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Kofod wrote:
Elisia wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Tbf I chose lurking because nothing else fit...
Valid! What do you feel like would have fit best for you then?
I spend most of my time on VP with team related stuff, playing around with codes for frontpage articles and stuff
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Date: 14-02-2025 00:54
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DAD wrote:
Elisia wrote:
DAD wrote:
DAD wrote:
i mostly lurk but it's because i'm scared to add anything to conversations and also i've been busy with work : p

i mostly come on to change my outfit then log off lol
also i feel like everyone else is bff's or already comfortable enough to hang out off the platform and i feel like i dont know anyone
This is so real, but i think there's actually less people who hang out off platform than you think,,, I mean hi thread people definitely do and the teams all do, but even then I think a lot of those convos happen or start here
true i guess i just see them the most often and i dont wanna butt in convos and everyone is spiderman meme'ing me like who tf is this LOL
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Date: 14-02-2025 00:59
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Elisia wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Elisia wrote:
Kofod wrote:
Tbf I chose lurking because nothing else fit...
Valid! What do you feel like would have fit best for you then?
I spend most of my time on VP with team related stuff, playing around with codes for frontpage articles and stuff
Ya know i almost included team related work as an answer for what you mostly do,,,
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Date: 14-02-2025 00:59
SadBread
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SadBread wrote:
I love yapping and trying to make new friends but sometimes when you don't get that energy back its hard to try again
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Date: 14-02-2025 01:53
Chat0yant
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Chat0yant wrote:
novocaine wrote:
i love reading everyones comments and/or convos on here but i am too afraid to join in if i have something to say or to add to the convo. not bc they are intimidating but bc i think too much into everything and i always think i am annoying everyone lol

i usually don't create topics other than to buy/sell bc i always think they are going to flop so i just keep to myself 99% of the time

it is really hard to gain cr without selling but i just can't part with most of my items so i do struggle on here sometimes. cr wise. 
All of this tbh

idk how to be more comfortable talking unfortunately and i wish i did because im the same way irl... so i joined forum team

and i do just like quietly collecting and playing with clothes myself or using in comps
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:00
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88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:00
Chat0yant
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Chat0yant wrote:
88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
facts then i feel guilty for even lurking in threads in the first place  and then it goes downhill even more ...... 
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:02
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Elisia wrote:
U guys should butt in
Even the people with cliques are really nice and friendly, and a lot of them are in a different time zone
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:05
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Sera wrote:
88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
100% this! im also autistic and suck at reading the room, so i dont really trust myself to know when its natural to join in or not
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:14
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88x wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:
88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
facts then i feel guilty for even lurking in threads in the first place  and then it goes downhill even more ...... 
and when u actually try but NOBODY replies and they keep talking to each other   like IM SORRY YALL I WILL NOT BE DOING THAT AGAIN 

(but yeah ill say it doesn't happen ALL the time and I know its a forum and that you wont always get a reply LOL)
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:30
88x
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88x wrote:
Sera wrote:
88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
100% this! im also autistic and suck at reading the room, so i dont really trust myself to know when its natural to join in or not
exactlyyyy it feels so awkward and strange to butt in
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:31
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OceanWitch wrote:
Brutus wrote:
im a proffessional lurker and 9/10 times i just find it hard to join in on a convo based on what topics are being discussed and what vibes they give if that makes sense

im not a shy person BUT i am a nervous one and just want to fit in, so instead of putting myself in a awkward situation i’ll just not write anything and only lurk because the ”fear” of no one responding to what im writing

when it comes to buying and selling threads im not nervous at all cause there’s barely a convo going
this is my stance as well. i have severe social anxiety, adhd, and am quite possibly autistic so i worry my comments won't come across the right way and i feel as though i intrude in conversations. the other thing is i am located in a time zone when the majority of the userbase here is asleep, so i kinda miss out on a lot of the convos that happen here anyway.

and tbh i also kinda just like reading the conversations ppl have, it's like reading the morning newspaper lol. 
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:44 | Times changed: 1
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Elisia wrote:
88x wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:
88x wrote:
im an 80% lurker here
its mainly bc i always feel like I'm intruding on ppls convos?? i feel like a lot of ppl have their own cliques or knows each other already so it often doesn't rly feel right/comfortable butting in the convo
facts then i feel guilty for even lurking in threads in the first place  and then it goes downhill even more ...... 
and when u actually try but NOBODY replies and they keep talking to each other   like IM SORRY YALL I WILL NOT BE DOING THAT AGAIN 

(but yeah ill say it doesn't happen ALL the time and I know its a forum and that you wont always get a reply LOL)
I was JUST saying earlier that there is no worse feeling than being at the bottom of a page to join in on a conversation,,, 
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Date: 14-02-2025 02:45
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