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Melk wrote:
yes absolutely. like you wouldn't go in front of an elementary school class n say "men r bad" sure. 
or raise boys to believe they r bad by nature. you would try to treat all ur pupils as close to the same with their individual needs. 

but how is it any better saying "lesbians r almost always hateful" than saying "men r often always ignorant"? ok yes it's an bigger group being targeted, but still. 

if u say negative things and don't contribute to the bigger discussion, yes it's hurtful. sure. but all is in the way you phrase it really and if you're actually discussing and issue in a good way. 

i think we actually have close to similar opinions, i just don't see or r open to see as much manhating as u. 

Alam wrote:
I never said lesbians were almost always hateful, I said that the lesbian community has been hateful in my experience.

Alam wrote:
I don't know, something about lesbians, especially butch lesbians. With gays they're often very ignorant but willing to learn, but with lesbians they're often almost... Hateful? You know? Major generalisation but this is my experience.

Alam wrote:
I don't see it that way but that doesn't matter if that's the way I came off so yeah, I fucked up, I'm sorry.

Claire wrote:

damn this a beautiful sentance u just said alam thats some real mature shit right there im impressed

Claire wrote:
plese dont read this with a sarcastic tone im really serious lmao 

Alam wrote:
Yeah no, I get that. Bit patronizing that you didn't expect me to be mature but I'll take what I can get lmao, I don't exactly portray myself as a mature person so I shouldn't expect you to see me that way.