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Koolaid wrote:
hungover wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
hungover wrote:
Genuine question,

Acab isn't about every cop as an individual, it's about how truly rotten and corrupt the police force is. How can you disagree with that?

apologies if you've answered this before!
@hungover    i dont agree with acab and "____ all men": i think those statements are inflammatory and counterproductive. if all men, then also all women, because we ALL exist under the patriarchy and are influenced by it. 

radicalists want police abolition but that's never gonna happen. and we need to settle for compromise. ACAB relays no desire for any sort of compromise. also we need more black people as police, but this way black ppl are shamed out of taking it as a job bc of sentiments like this. which only excarcebates the issue of racism that we want to solve.

i understand the intention of acab, but intention often gets misrepresented. when blm was at its height there was very much the sentiment that if u want to be a cop, regardless of ur race/gender, ur a bad person. as a result, it drives marginalized ppl out of a career that very much needs marginalized ppl
The intention does get misused, I agree.
I personally believe good people can become cops with pure intentions, but the profession will corrupt them over time, it's an unbalanced power structure that I don't agree with, no one should have more power than someone else ; Steven who's a cop shouldn't have more rights than Frank who works at the kiosk, at least that's what I believe.
yes i do agree. but at the same time, i also want more marginalized ppl in the police force. it's a difficult situation. bc the only way i can see this going is that all the 'socially progressive' ppl stay away from cop careers, which as a result, more racist people will choose/stay in cop careers. i just feel it has an adverse effect.

i do agree that police can get away with way too much.
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Date: 01-01-2022 15:53
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hungover wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
hungover wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
@hungover    i dont agree with acab and "____ all men": i think those statements are inflammatory and counterproductive. if all men, then also all women, because we ALL exist under the patriarchy and are influenced by it. 

radicalists want police abolition but that's never gonna happen. and we need to settle for compromise. ACAB relays no desire for any sort of compromise. also we need more black people as police, but this way black ppl are shamed out of taking it as a job bc of sentiments like this. which only excarcebates the issue of racism that we want to solve.

i understand the intention of acab, but intention often gets misrepresented. when blm was at its height there was very much the sentiment that if u want to be a cop, regardless of ur race/gender, ur a bad person. as a result, it drives marginalized ppl out of a career that very much needs marginalized ppl
The intention does get misused, I agree.
I personally believe good people can become cops with pure intentions, but the profession will corrupt them over time, it's an unbalanced power structure that I don't agree with, no one should have more power than someone else ; Steven who's a cop shouldn't have more rights than Frank who works at the kiosk, at least that's what I believe.
yes i do agree. but at the same time, i also want more marginalized ppl in the police force. it's a difficult situation. bc the only way i can see this going is that all the 'socially progressive' ppl stay away from cop careers, which as a result, more racist people will choose/stay in cop careers. i just feel it has an adverse effect.

i do agree that police can get away with way too much.
I can understand that, getting a more diverse force would be great, though I still think there's an unhealthy power structure that shouldn't be there, and I find it difficult to see a way to dismantle that.

Thank you for wanting to have this conversation! I really enjoy getting to know other people's views and beliefs.
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Koolaid wrote:
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I can understand that, getting a more diverse force would be great, though I still think there's an unhealthy power structure that shouldn't be there, and I find it difficult to see a way to dismantle that.

Thank you for wanting to have this conversation! I really enjoy getting to know other people's views and beliefs.
yes i also agree with that! and no problem, i also like talking abt it (:
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Claire wrote:
Police don’t protect women they protect abusers.  Look at what happened to gabby petito and that cop giggling with the abuser about how bitches be crazy. Or shit look at sarah everhard. 

https://theconversation.com/amp/police-reporting-can-undermine-domestic-violence-victims-language-analysis-shows-170931

like idk how true that 40% statistic that gets talked about is but like policing isn’t trauma informed and a lot of cops literally abuse women so cops are good because they help women is not the take you think it is
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Claire wrote:
Me hitting reply without hitting the quote button lmfao
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Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:
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Koolaid wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:
i laughed bc of your wording but i agree xd
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hungover wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:
This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.
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Date: 01-01-2022 16:12
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Raquelle wrote:
hungover wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:
This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.
Yea
and also 
all these Aesthetics and trends around them are killing personal style
teens don’t know how to wear a graphic tee without copying an entire outfit from someone else... so they need to buy the entire outfit. 
ugh
i have a lot of fashion opinions today
for a bitch who only wears band tees and pants 😂 
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Date: 01-01-2022 16:17
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hungover wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
hungover wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:
This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.
Yea
and also 
all these Aesthetics and trends around them are killing personal style
teens don’t know how to wear a graphic tee without copying an entire outfit from someone else... so they need to buy the entire outfit. 
ugh
i have a lot of fashion opinions today
for a bitch who only wears band tees and pants 😂 
Lol, me too, and I have like ... 3 outfits that I wear and all of them include patches on clothes and then my vest ofc
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Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one


I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty 
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones


TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??


Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child! 
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Alam wrote:
Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one


I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty 
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones


TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??


Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child! 
It's selfish and primitive goodbye
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Koolaid wrote:
Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one


I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty 
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones


TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??


Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child! 
having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc
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Alam wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one


I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty 
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones


TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??


Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child! 
having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc
Caring about the environment is all the rage but somehow when it comes to having more children people are skittish about saying anything, even though it's one of the worst things you can do to the environment as an individual.
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Sylvan wrote:
Alam wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one


I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty 
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones


TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??


Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child! 
having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc
Caring about the environment is all the rage but somehow when it comes to having more children people are skittish about saying anything, even though it's one of the worst things you can do to the environment as an individual.
having more than 2 children is actively hurting the planet
but people get defensive when it is about having children
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