kagura wrote:
i also hate it when people be like you can't use mental health issues as excuse for a bad behaviour.. because well it's not even an excuse, it's literally the reason sometimes. however obviously it doesn't change the fact that you're the only one responsible of your actions no matter where it comes from.
everybody makes mistakes. just learn from them and grow. if you just keep hurting people, don't feel sorry about it and you are not willingly change yourself, then you're an asshole
Hajime wrote:
not every bad thing someone does is intentionally some kind of manipulative tactic done on purpose (many times people don't communicate how certain things make them feel and end up exploding onto the person and bringing up every thing they did badly, talking about it beforehand wouldve solved a lot and probably also saved the friendship - i saw this happening a lot online)
also i think people can change and bringing up their past does a lot of damage
agreed 100%not every bad thing someone does is intentionally some kind of manipulative tactic done on purpose (many times people don't communicate how certain things make them feel and end up exploding onto the person and bringing up every thing they did badly, talking about it beforehand wouldve solved a lot and probably also saved the friendship - i saw this happening a lot online)
also i think people can change and bringing up their past does a lot of damage
i also hate it when people be like you can't use mental health issues as excuse for a bad behaviour.. because well it's not even an excuse, it's literally the reason sometimes. however obviously it doesn't change the fact that you're the only one responsible of your actions no matter where it comes from.
everybody makes mistakes. just learn from them and grow. if you just keep hurting people, don't feel sorry about it and you are not willingly change yourself, then you're an asshole



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