Miguel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Alam wrote:
NO, what about raising your kids so they don't do it at all like you shouldn't actually need to explicitly tell your kid to behave like that like excuse me you have failed Opulence wrote:
I do agree with you somewhat, but I feel like what's more toxic to young boys is not getting the right upbringing rather than some people saying they hate men bc of the experiences they've had with men. ''Teach ur sons not to r*pe instead of teaching ur daughters how to protect themselves from that'', u know what I mean? I feel like I've had an entirely different upbringing than my brother. whenever he says problematic stuff, for example 'I think all gay people who actually dress and present gay deserve to get beaten up' and my mom didnt say anything about it. he's 14. he uses all these slurs and when I used to say something about it, my mom would tell me to shut up. ofc not saying every household is like that, but I think focussing on how to raise them is something thats more important rather than telling people they cant hate their oppressors for what they've done.
Why not both?I do agree with you somewhat, but I feel like what's more toxic to young boys is not getting the right upbringing rather than some people saying they hate men bc of the experiences they've had with men. ''Teach ur sons not to r*pe instead of teaching ur daughters how to protect themselves from that'', u know what I mean? I feel like I've had an entirely different upbringing than my brother. whenever he says problematic stuff, for example 'I think all gay people who actually dress and present gay deserve to get beaten up' and my mom didnt say anything about it. he's 14. he uses all these slurs and when I used to say something about it, my mom would tell me to shut up. ofc not saying every household is like that, but I think focussing on how to raise them is something thats more important rather than telling people they cant hate their oppressors for what they've done.



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