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Claire wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
i have literally always refered to you as they whenever i remember to and whenever possible so i dont know why you would make this assumption about me
like im actually kinda sad about this that you'd think this way about me lmao . i make a real effort to avoid gendered pronouns for you even tho that doesnt necessarily align with my personal ideology. 
I'm sorry, I really appreciate that you make an effort. 

It still makes me sad because I think you don't see me as a nonbinary person and it hurts more from someone who's opinion I value. 
i value your opinions too. aw i'm gonna cry.  youre like in the top ten smart people on vp.

i see you as a person and your gender doesnt actually matter to me really. i always wanna do my best to respect people within reason. and i do think asking to be called by they/them pronouns is reasonable. 

i only know one person irl who identifies as nonbinary and i fuck up their pronouns ALL the time and feel like an asshole everytime. like i dont wanna make people feel bad on purpose. 
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Azriel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Azriel wrote:
I saw someone be like "yeah what if dehumanisation is the point I dont want to be seen as such I want to be seen as an individual" or smth
i can't compute this sentence 
"i mean as some1 whos dysphoria manifests in not wanting to be seen as a human and as more of an individual thats the entire point of my it/its pronouns" 
Ig child (sexual) abuse could play in too if u feel like ur not human or u don't want to b human anymore cus then bad stuff wouldn't happen to u

thoughts
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Claire wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
LillyN wrote:
i wish english was like my native language, no pronouns at all 
uralic languages truly be something huh 
we can drop the whole subject from speech we can do that
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:53
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wug wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
okay so mental illness 
it still doesn't make any sense to me whatsoever 
idk either, edgy I guess
humans are individuals but also individualism can fuck off and die 
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wug wrote:
Claire wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
LillyN wrote:
i wish english was like my native language, no pronouns at all 
uralic languages truly be something huh 
we can drop the whole subject from speech we can do that
It would require a lot of change in many languages tho, especially English and Mainland Scandinavian 
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Pavlov wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Claire wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
uralic languages truly be something huh 
we can drop the whole subject from speech we can do that
It would require a lot of change in many languages tho, especially English and Mainland Scandinavian 
i would have to just learn to not talk then
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:55
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wug wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Claire wrote:
we can drop the whole subject from speech we can do that
It would require a lot of change in many languages tho, especially English and Mainland Scandinavian 
i would have to just learn to not talk then
lol
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:56
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Pavlov wrote:
LillyN wrote:
ive started to respect pronouns even tho i never understood whats the big deal n why its so important. i dont care what u call me... she, he, it, daddy, senpai..... im just a me... alien or sumn.... but i guess trans ppl feel more uncomfortable abt wrong pronouns
isnt it enough to know who you are yourself? hmm mystery
alien cat gender
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wug wrote:
LillyN wrote:
ive started to respect pronouns even tho i never understood whats the big deal n why its so important. i dont care what u call me... she, he, it, daddy, senpai..... im just a me... alien or sumn.... but i guess trans ppl feel more uncomfortable abt wrong pronouns
isnt it enough to know who you are yourself? hmm mystery
i don't
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Claire wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Claire wrote:
we can drop the whole subject from speech we can do that
It would require a lot of change in many languages tho, especially English and Mainland Scandinavian 
i would have to just learn to not talk then
maybe would should all do that anyway
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:57
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Limbs wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
LillyN wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
uralic languages truly be something huh 
yes, no need to ask or know anyones pronouns to talk to them 
is neopronouns a thing in finnish? like.. is it? 
i've never seen it and tbh i can't twist my brain to imagine how that would work
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wug wrote:
LillyN wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
LillyN wrote:
ive started to respect pronouns even tho i never understood whats the big deal n why its so important. i dont care what u call me... she, he, it, daddy, senpai..... im just a me... alien or sumn.... but i guess trans ppl feel more uncomfortable abt wrong pronouns
isnt it enough to know who you are yourself? hmm mystery
i don't
why? 
because i'm not going to entertain delusion 
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:58
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Pavlov wrote:
apparently japanese doesnt even have gender neutral whatever its called in their language i think they just refer to them as male
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wug wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
LillyN wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
i don't
why? 
because i'm not going to entertain delusion 
he/she/they
fine, beyond that, fuck off 
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wug wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
apparently japanese doesnt even have gender neutral whatever its called in their language i think they just refer to them as male
yeah
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:59
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