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Why you shouldn't use incorrect pronuns / 👸
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
This title might seem obvious but hear me out....
It's not acceptable to use incorrect pronunons for those people you deem as "not real trans". Some people will use he/him pronuns for Caitlyn Jenner or sometimes even use her deadname. Their excuse for this is "they are not a good person so i don't have to respect their pronuns". But what youre missing out here is that you're disrespecting the entire trans community and it's not just an indivitual problem. Even if we use the most extreme examples as jessica yaniv, if they are trans, they are trans. It's not your decicion to say what another persons gender identify is. Its invalidating for ALL trans people if you purpesfully misuse pronons for "not a real trans person" (which isn't a thing but to make it more easy to understand). And some people have the miscoception that we hate people who accidently use the wrong pronuns but ofcourse nobody does that.. Everybody makes mistakes. But its a problem if you talk to a trans woman, KNOWILGLY knows her pronuns but still call her by him/he pronuns or use her dead name. There is no excuse for this. Doesnt matter your opinion on them. Totally irrelevat.
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:01
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Claire wrote:
oh whatever happened with yaniv i havent heard anything about that story in a minute
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:02
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
Claire wrote:
oh whatever happened with yaniv i havent heard anything about that story in a minute
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:03
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okay, princess
Date: 10-02-2021 19:04
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i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
Date: 10-02-2021 19:04
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Claire wrote:
oh whatever happened with yaniv i havent heard anything about that story in a minute
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:06
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Claire wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:06
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Claire wrote:
oh whatever happened with yaniv i havent heard anything about that story in a minute
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
See its not up to you to decide whether someone is "really" trans or "faking it"/taking advantage.
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:07
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ouch wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
They seems impersonal to me but it is fine allegedly lol, make it make sense
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:08
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
Claire wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
But what if they are non-binary and thats their pronuns? They want to be called they/them and you wont use it?
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:08
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
See its not up to you to decide whether someone is "really" trans or "faking it"/taking advantage.
i just stick to they/them p/ns for them
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:08
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Annie wrote:
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
See its not up to you to decide whether someone is "really" trans or "faking it"/taking advantage.
i just stick to they/them p/ns for them
Purpesfully misgendering someone is still bigoted :/ but ok you do you
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:09
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ouch wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
They seems impersonal to me but it is fine allegedly lol, make it make sense
like idk i feel so distant when ppl say "mada [...], they [...]" im like "u could even call me he/him honestly"
Date: 10-02-2021 19:10
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
i dont respect pronuns fuck nuns
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:10
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
See its not up to you to decide whether someone is "really" trans or "faking it"/taking advantage.
i just stick to they/them p/ns for them
Purpesfully misgendering someone is still bigoted :/ but ok you do you
imo they/them pronouns are p safe to use n its no being bigoted
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:10
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
i dont respect pronuns fuck nuns
HAHHH
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:10
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