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am i manipulative wtf
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Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
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slimy is probably the worst texture
it reminds me of when i saw this video of people trying to grill watermelon, i feel like cured axolotl would be a more firm and chewy grilled watermelon
i've had watermleon in saladΒ 
do u eat salad w croutons...
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Misjel wrote:
I've tasted frog legs it was like....chicken but more tender
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
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thog2 wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
it reminds me of when i saw this video of people trying to grill watermelon, i feel like cured axolotl would be a more firm and chewy grilled watermelon
i've had watermleon in saladΒ 
do u eat salad w croutons...
yes
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thog2 wrote:
Misjel wrote:
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big letter misjel it is like 3€ it's ok! i am trying to estimate how much i'll spend on stationary and also what theme i'll use and i'll admit i wanted to make it mdzs themed #goodbye and then i remembered i dont have a printer with ink so #goodbye again, we'll see..
wat do u not have any weight limit 2€ gets me 50 grams now it sounds like I'm buying drugs


mdzs themed omg cute
i am gonna bribe them !!!!!!!!

yes.. but i dunno how to penpal like a pro so i'll probably follow a youtube tutorial's theme #oops
ur spending so many celles, time for me to take out my dusty notetaking skills
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It is also normal in all relationships to give and take. Is a request for something or a preferance manipulative? You do enforce a will and a point of view that other migh not agree with. We all have an agenda and different opinions which requires different ways of phrasing and argumentation that highlight the benefits of that pov. So when does it become manipulative? From being a give, take, and let-be
-given dynamic of a relationship to harmful? A relationship where ppl don't feel like they are equally treated normally don't balance our well long-term. If you're sick, you often need to rely on other ppl harder for a while until you've regained your fotting. That is not manipulative, but it does if you start using it against other people or to excuse your actions so you don't have to take responsibility even if you didn't mean it. Hard times may make us act ugly, but we do get to apologizes and learn from it even when that ugly is a long time. Even if we repeat it. We might burn bridges in the process, that's life, but you might also find people who stick with you through it.Β 

Also, everyone does things for personal gains. Friendships are personal gains (survival, pack), but they are also what you share and each contribute with to the community. Personal gains are not always bad things, but they more often are when you add in other motivations like explotation for own benefit. That becomes a whole lot of take and a whole little of giving. Relationships are reciprocal.Β 

Like I don't know ur situation well enough to tell u what to do, but don't overthink the motivations of these dynamics and their roots. Figure what u did wrong, work on that if there's a truth to it, and figure how u want to proceed with those situations. You know what you need to do best.Β 
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Maxolotl wrote:
Misjel wrote:
I've tasted frog legs it was like....chicken but more tender
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
chicken is universal taste if i convince myself enough i can think of pork and cow as chicken
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Maxolotl wrote:
Misjel wrote:
I've tasted frog legs it was like....chicken but more tender
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
unfamiliar meat=chicken but modify it a little
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thog2 wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
Misjel wrote:
I've tasted frog legs it was like....chicken but more tender
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
chicken is universal taste if i convince myself enough i can think of pork and cow as chicken
NO
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Misjel wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
Misjel wrote:
I've tasted frog legs it was like....chicken but more tender
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
unfamiliar meat=chicken but modify it a little
human babies = chicken
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Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
why's everything like cheicken .. that's how you spell it now
chicken is universal taste if i convince myself enough i can think of pork and cow as chicken
NO
do you not like chicken
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Misjel wrote:
thog2 wrote:
Misjel wrote:
wat do u not have any weight limit 2€ gets me 50 grams now it sounds like I'm buying drugs


mdzs themed omg cute
i am gonna bribe them !!!!!!!!

yes.. but i dunno how to penpal like a pro so i'll probably follow a youtube tutorial's theme #oops
ur spending so many celles, time for me to take out my dusty notetaking skills
im spending so many celles that i have been procrastinating on giving you my address, today when i got home i was actually like "what if misjel became admin and whenever i got ip banned from vp she would go to my house and delete my account noooo"
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Misjel wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
chicken is universal taste if i convince myself enough i can think of pork and cow as chicken
NO
do you not like chicken
i do but
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Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
i've had watermleon in saladΒ 
do u eat salad w croutons...
yes
i am repulsed why do people want to add hard shit to salads, stop adding nuts and croutons u crazy cunts stop!!!!!!!!
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thog2 wrote:
Eostre wrote:
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the civil sorry! not dealing w the issue! what does it mean
I literally cannot figure ur goal like u don't even seem sure if it is genuine, and to me at least its like if u r gonna reconnect At all with someone you've had a fall out with, it would require an apology, not a question to be civil.Β 
You mention you used to pride yourself on being peaceful and always righting wrongs (perfectionist) and now you haven't. It must be a new, sorta ugly feeling to sit with. I wonder what your goal is then, to obtain the normal decency (civility) of strangers who share a space, or to reconnect beyond that, eg a friendship, acquaintances - something which would require an apology and for it to be accepted ofc. to even start rebuilding, or to agree on common terms of communication.Β 

Civil can be a way to sweep some of ur discomfort under the rug and it won't settle the "dispute" in any real way.Β 
i think most of the time i want to apologize but also somehow try to respect the other person's feelings by asking to stay civil instead of pushing a friendship on themΒ 
Apologizing does not equal the reinstatement of a friendship tho
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thog2 wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
thog2 wrote:
do u eat salad w croutons...
yes
i am repulsed why do people want to add hard shit to salads, stop adding nuts and croutons u crazy cunts stop!!!!!!!!
crunch
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