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Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like honest if he's throwing shit - as a woman you are in danger and you need to remove yourself from that situation.Ā 
He would never hurt me, but he keeps saying he wants to flip the table or smash something and i Said ā€œif you do that Iā€™m gonna have to ask you to leaveā€ so yeah i am setting boundaries but i also know that what comes out of his mouth These days is the addiction talking. If I leave Iā€™m 100% sure he Will go out and buy some snuff, thatā€™s why iā€™m here to keep and eye on him
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:40
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Arsinoe wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
snus has shit ton of nicotine in it and itā€™s sooo addicting and very hard to let go of. I really hope he can do it! The situation absolutely sucks for you. If you really are in danger (even a little) like if heā€™s throwing stuff at you, could you maybe go away for couple of days? Like stay at your friendsā€™ or familyā€™s places?Ā 

Anyway i wish the best for both of you.Ā 
I really hope he can do it too, if not Iā€™m not sure i can keep up this relationship
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:42
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Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like honest if he's throwing shit - as a woman you are in danger and you need to remove yourself from that situation.Ā 
He would never hurt me, but he keeps saying he wants to flip the table or smash something and i Said ā€œif you do that Iā€™m gonna have to ask you to leaveā€ so yeah i am setting boundaries but i also know that what comes out of his mouth These days is the addiction talking. If I leave Iā€™m 100% sure he Will go out and buy some snuff, thatā€™s why iā€™m here to keep and eye on himĀ 
like i'm sure he's great and would never hurt you but men are actually pretty dangerous and you've only been with him for 8 months? people don't really fully show you who they are until after the first two years. there's women who have been with men for two years and then suddenly one day he hits them. if he is throwing stuff it is very possible for you to get hurt. your call girl but you should be aware of the potential for violence. if he has thrown shit- that is already vioolence.
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:45
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Arsinoe wrote:
Oh and i keep forgetting to thank you all for being so supportive and giving me advice
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:48
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Claire wrote:
like honest if he's throwing shit - as a woman you are in danger and you need to remove yourself from that situation.Ā 
this reminds me of one time when i threw an orange like 1m from my ex boyfriends head (wasnt angry at him) nd when he came home he broke up with me because he felt he was in danger and was like what if that orange would have HIT ME !!!!
and ia bc he would have died
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:48
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like honest if he's throwing shit - as a woman you are in danger and you need to remove yourself from that situation.Ā 
He would never hurt me, but he keeps saying he wants to flip the table or smash something and i Said ā€œif you do that Iā€™m gonna have to ask you to leaveā€ so yeah i am setting boundaries but i also know that what comes out of his mouth These days is the addiction talking. If I leave Iā€™m 100% sure he Will go out and buy some snuff, thatā€™s why iā€™m here to keep and eye on himĀ 
like i'm sure he's great and would never hurt you but men are actually pretty dangerous and you've only been with him for 8 months? people don't really fully show you who they are until after the first two years. there's women who have been with men for two years and then suddenly one day he hits them. if he is throwing stuff it is very possible for you to get hurt. your call girl but you should be aware of the potential for violence. if he has thrown shit- that is already vioolence.
Well if he lays a hand on me, trust me i Will throw him out and never speak to him again
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:54
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Arsinoe wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Claire wrote:
like honest if he's throwing shit - as a woman you are in danger and you need to remove yourself from that situation.Ā 
this reminds me of one time when i threw an orange like 1m from my ex boyfriends head (wasnt angry at him) nd when he came home he broke up with me because he felt he was in danger and was like what if that orange would have HIT ME !!!!
and ia bc he would have died
LMFAOO
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Claire wrote:
like i feel for him quitting really sucks
i used the patch to quit. so you start by breaking the habit and then deal with the chemical withdrawels later and more slowly
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:55
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Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like i feel for him quitting really sucks
i used the patch to quit. so you start by breaking the habit and then deal with the chemical withdrawels later and more slowly
My mom told me she used to run to feel better and I know he has been interested in losing weight and running, so when he is better, I'm gonna try and get him to run w me. Also bc rn we don't have a routine and he told me he needs something to wake up to, waking up to running would be void filling for him so I feel like it's a good idea?
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Date: 20-06-2020 20:57
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Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like i feel for him quitting really sucks
i used the patch to quit. so you start by breaking the habit and then deal with the chemical withdrawels later and more slowly
My mom told me she used to run to feel better and I know he has been interested in losing weight and running, so when he is better, I'm gonna try and get him to run w me. Also bc rn we don't have a routine and he told me he needs something to wake up to, waking up to running would be void filling for him so I feel like it's a good idea?
honestly just filliing up his time and being able to distract himself is important for the first two weeks. id suggest he try that now. when he gets mad enough to throw something- he should take a jog around the block.
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Date: 20-06-2020 21:02
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Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
like i feel for him quitting really sucks
i used the patch to quit. so you start by breaking the habit and then deal with the chemical withdrawels later and more slowly
My mom told me she used to run to feel better and I know he has been interested in losing weight and running, so when he is better, I'm gonna try and get him to run w me. Also bc rn we don't have a routine and he told me he needs something to wake up to, waking up to running would be void filling for him so I feel like it's a good idea?
honestly just filliing up his time and being able to distract himself is important for the first two weeks. id suggest he try that now. when he gets mad enough to throw something- he should take a jog around the block.

but again, he would buy snuff if he gets the chance to go out alone

idk maybe i should take his phone and wallet from him while he jogs and then give it back afterwords? (with his approval)
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Date: 20-06-2020 21:03
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Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
My mom told me she used to run to feel better and I know he has been interested in losing weight and running, so when he is better, I'm gonna try and get him to run w me. Also bc rn we don't have a routine and he told me he needs something to wake up to, waking up to running would be void filling for him so I feel like it's a good idea?
honestly just filliing up his time and being able to distract himself is important for the first two weeks. id suggest he try that now. when he gets mad enough to throw something- he should take a jog around the block.

but again, he would buy snuff if he gets the chance to go out alone

idk maybe i should take his phone and wallet from him while he jogs and then give it back afterwords? (with his approval)

damn imagine having literally no self controlĀ 

i really do think quitting nicotine is as hard as quitting heroin its highly addictive
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Date: 20-06-2020 21:04
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Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Claire wrote:
honestly just filliing up his time and being able to distract himself is important for the first two weeks. id suggest he try that now. when he gets mad enough to throw something- he should take a jog around the block.

but again, he would buy snuff if he gets the chance to go out alone

idk maybe i should take his phone and wallet from him while he jogs and then give it back afterwords? (with his approval)

damn imagine having literally no self controlĀ 

i really do think quitting nicotine is as hard as quitting heroin its highly addictive
yeah he is the typa person who gives into peer pressure etc. He has no self control atm

he seemed open to the idea and said he would think about it, but he also distracts himself by playing videogames etc. Sometimes he just comes up to me and says he doesn't know what to do w himself like he can't be in his body and honestly i know that feeling sooo well, so i feel like this running idea is a good idea
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It should become from him or it will not work in longer time. Addictions are pretty hard and he will not find the motivation from himself in any other way there is very big possibility he will not make it. And some people are alot more at risl gettin' addictions. There is big possibility he finds some worse than that. Like. Snuff is not that bad and it makes him act like that when he does not get it.Ā  I'm person with high risk with addictions and I have never had a day without any, I hate being addicted to things and everytime I get rid of another I take other thing too far. Just now my addiction is adrenaline from exercise and eating normally. Like. I have to be addicted to something or I feel like I'll go insane. I have got all types of eating disorders, I have had problem with cleaning because "this can't be bad" but it went to thr point when I weren't able to do anything with my days but clean. Problems with drugs. And I try so bad find the way not be addicted to anything, but it's hard

You didn't know if you should take him run with you. Absolytely. Try help him to find better ways to compelete the addiction need so it will not got worse. Like. Gettin' rid off afdiction is impossible when you do it that fast. You need to change your whole mindset to do that. But changing that where you put the addiction is easyer.Ā 

Remember that you are not his mom and if he can't do it you have to accept it or walk away
Date: 20-06-2020 21:16
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Arsinoe wrote:
Yasu wrote:
It should become from him or it will not work in longer time. Addictions are pretty hard and he will not find the motivation from himself in any other way there is very big possibility he will not make it. And some people are alot more at risl gettin' addictions. There is big possibility he finds some worse than that. Like. Snuff is not that bad and it makes him act like that when he does not get it.Ā  I'm person with high risk with addictions and I have never had a day without any, I hate being addicted to things and everytime I get rid of another I take other thing too far. Just now my addiction is adrenaline from exercise and eating normally. Like. I have to be addicted to something or I feel like I'll go insane. I have got all types of eating disorders, I have had problem with cleaning because "this can't be bad" but it went to thr point when I weren't able to do anything with my days but clean. Problems with drugs. And I try so bad find the way not be addicted to anything, but it's hard

You didn't know if you should take him run with you. Absolytely. Try help him to find better ways to compelete the addiction need so it will not got worse. Like. Gettin' rid off afdiction is impossible when you do it that fast. You need to change your whole mindset to do that. But changing that where you put the addiction is easyer.Ā 

Remember that you are not his mom and if he can't do it you have to accept it or walk away
I'm not sure what you're trying to say, but I do believe that you can do anything you set your mind to
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Date: 20-06-2020 21:21
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