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question for straight ppl (and lgbtq+ ppl)
BunnyButts
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BunnyButts wrote:
Melk wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
me a lonely bi ]
 a b s o l u t e l y
do u do it with ppl of every gender or just one?
oh every, I'm more attracted to men right now so I look at them first but couple months ago I was more into women so I looked at them first u know ?
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:30
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rottomilko wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
Melk wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
me a lonely bi ]
 a b s o l u t e l y
do u do it with ppl of every gender or just one?
oh every, I'm more attracted to men right now so I look at them first but couple months ago I was more into women so I looked at them first u know ?
oh yesyes
that makes sense
thankyou
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:33 | Times changed: 1
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kagura wrote:
kagura wrote:
i haven't basically been single for 7 years, expect like a month i seriously don't know. i haven't thought anyone else as potential partner than my ex and my bf
i don't if i would if i were single. i don't usually find random people attractive (at least in sexual way).
also i don't really indentify myself to anything. like i said i really don't fine random people attractive like that, so i wouldn't probably even have sex with random people if i were single. but i've been with boys and girls, i really don't care. i just happened to fall in love with my bestfriend who happened to be male
maybe i'm bi/pan then idk idc
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:33
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rottomilko wrote:
kagura wrote:
kagura wrote:
i haven't basically been single for 7 years, expect like a month i seriously don't know. i haven't thought anyone else as potential partner than my ex and my bf
i don't if i would if i were single. i don't usually find random people attractive (at least in sexual way).
also i don't really indentify myself to anything. like i said i really don't fine random people attractive like that, so i wouldn't probably even have sex with random people if i were single. but i've been with boys and girls, i really don't care. i just happened to fall in love with my bestfriend who happened to be male
maybe i'm bi/pan then idk idc
thank you for answering!
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:36
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Versailles wrote:
idk I dont think i checked out ppl like that. Early 2018 I did when I was out clubbing, and ended in relationship with the guy i am with today. I've barely been single since I was 11 starting with a runescape(lol) boyfriend. 
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:37
Persona
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Persona wrote:
Melk wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i dont undersrand please elaborate 
like
if you for example it u start in a new class
do u ever just look for someone you could potentially date
or become interested in
i'm bi, but scoping the room for potential hotties is the best part of starting a new class, don't @ me lol
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:37
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rottomilko wrote:
added a new question as well
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:41
Thecellabration
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thecellabration wrote:
Melk wrote:
thecellabration wrote:
Melk wrote:
do u do it w women

or did u do it w men like before u came out or whatever?
when i was a kid i did it with guys bc heteronormativity <3 but since i realised i like girls i only think i've ever done it with women lmao. even when i still thought i liked men
i wonder if this is what i did too
or i've thought that i was bi for a long time
and i would mainly look for guys.. and i think i just decided to be attracted to a guy who seemed decent u kno??
but with women it's just been natural u kno.. i haven really looked for em, it's just been like ohh damn she's hot or cute or whatever
i think i'm probably a lesbian 
ok literally tho. when i still thought i had to like boys that's what i did, like both with real people and with celebrity crushes. i just picked some dude and was like ok i like him i guess! i actively did that more than once, i was in a "relationship" (i was 11/12 lol) with a boy in school because my friends said we'd be cute together because our names started with the same letter, so i decided i should have a crush on him lmao

with women tho it's more like....... definitely a different way of looking at them. kind of like i will just appreciate them being attractive or whatever and sometimes think about them in a "what if"-way but it's never something i'm forcing on myself?? i dont know how to explain but what u said makes a lot of sense

and realising this distinction (especially how i genuinely but at the time unknowingly was faking liking guys) was a big part in realising i'm a lesbian
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:44
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Versailles wrote:
also, have u ever just decided that u were gonna be or try to be attracted to someone?

- No. Not before going all in for trying dating and relation. But I lost attraction after years with two of my exes and i tried to like them and engage sexually. It didnt feel right when i wasnt attracted anymore so it doesn't work for me.
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:48
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rottomilko wrote:
thecellabration wrote:
Melk wrote:
thecellabration wrote:
when i was a kid i did it with guys bc heteronormativity <3 but since i realised i like girls i only think i've ever done it with women lmao. even when i still thought i liked men
i wonder if this is what i did too
or i've thought that i was bi for a long time
and i would mainly look for guys.. and i think i just decided to be attracted to a guy who seemed decent u kno??
but with women it's just been natural u kno.. i haven really looked for em, it's just been like ohh damn she's hot or cute or whatever
i think i'm probably a lesbian 
ok literally tho. when i still thought i had to like boys that's what i did, like both with real people and with celebrity crushes. i just picked some dude and was like ok i like him i guess! i actively did that more than once, i was in a "relationship" (i was 11/12 lol) with a boy in school because my friends said we'd be cute together because our names started with the same letter, so i decided i should have a crush on him lmao

with women tho it's more like....... definitely a different way of looking at them. kind of like i will just appreciate them being attractive or whatever and sometimes think about them in a "what if"-way but it's never something i'm forcing on myself?? i dont know how to explain but what u said makes a lot of sense

and realising this distinction (especially how i genuinely but at the time unknowingly was faking liking guys) was a big part in realising i'm a lesbian
thank you for answering me hahaha
i'm also beginning to see the pattern that the men i tend to "like" are either men i'm close to (like my best friends often) or men that like me.. and i would actively look for men who "looked like they could like me" (or/and didn't look threatening) 

but i can literally  just see a woman and BAM i'm attracted to her 

i think i've actually known that something is off for a long time but i didn't think i could actually be a lesbian for some weird reason
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:54
Private
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ellem wrote:
Ye i usually look around for people I could potentially start liking 
I’m queer 
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Date: 03-12-2020 18:55
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Minister of Pop



Azriel wrote:
Melk wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Am bi and yeah sortof im like ooh theyre hot and they and they and they
so u think they r hot first?
not like look for someone u might think r hot?
No idk I just recognise hotness 
And then ill see if I actually make friends
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Date: 03-12-2020 19:00
Pixel
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Pixel wrote:
I'm bi and no it just happens when I find someone attractive (but I did when I was younger to be fair)
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Date: 03-12-2020 19:05
Drowsygirl
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Drowsygirl wrote:
no, i just assume if someone likes me they'll take the first step. i'm bisexual btw.
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Date: 03-12-2020 19:05
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Am probably mostly gay and yes? I guess I do that? Because I'm real lonely. I try to assess who's gay but I have horrible gaydar, meaning anyone I'm attracted to is gay.
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Date: 03-12-2020 19:12
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