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"happiness is a choice"
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kruspersille wrote:
Claire wrote:
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ok boomer is what zoomers say to dismiss anything older people say. three therapy sessions and this girl thinks she knows anything lmao. wow.
omg claire
this girl is arrogant.
end her yt career!!
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kruspersille wrote:
did anyone else use to religiously watch shaytards
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lamb wrote:
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lamb wrote:
 dont think it should be interpreted as literally as "chose to be happy" and instantly u r but like. chose to make happier decisions. happier choices. its not either or. its a sliding scale of bad to good
Perhaps "better" would be an even better term than happier
no i think they mean different things

a good choice doesnt necessarily make u happy and vice versa

better is certainly the better term for like, long term happiness, but short term they dont necessarily mean the same thing
hmmm I see fair point
Date: 09-01-2021 21:46
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Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
omg claire
this girl is arrogant.
end her yt career!!
meh all seventeen year olds are arrogant tho to be fair to her but most sesventeen year olds dont have a million followers so they dont annoy me like this lmao
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Gilmore wrote:
You can't be happy on command. You can choose to stay positive, but that's not happiness.
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wrote:
Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
Claire wrote:
this girl is arrogant.
end her yt career!!
meh all seventeen year olds are arrogant tho to be fair to her but most sesventeen year olds dont have a million followers so they dont annoy me like this lmao
escscesscesscuse me /j
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Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
did anyone else use to religiously watch shaytards
ye shit used to be wholesome until all the drama came to light
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kruspersille wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
You can't be happy on command. You can choose to stay positive, but that's not happiness.

thats a nice outlook on it
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Claire wrote:
she is actually making the opposite point she thinks shes making at the end of the video here lmao

'i wouldnt turn the lights on i would light a candle i wouldnt take my dog for a walk' like girl you made those choices and those choices kept you depressed. if you made healthy choices your brain would get healthier. shes literally saying that she needed to chose to be happy. she just doesnt like the way older people SAY it to her.
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Persona wrote:
personally I have stopped striving to be 'happy' because I almost feel like its an unachievable concept. people put 'happiness' on this pedestal and it ends up becoming intimidating and revered. I strive for peace and content. I read something someone wrote once how they stopped trying to be happy, and instead tried to be less sad, and it completely changed the way I thought 
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Claire wrote:
its not the most helpful thing to say to a depressed person actually its frustrating to hear that happiness is a choice. what someone really depressed needs to hear needs to be something much smaller and more managable than just 'chose to be happy' what a really sick person needs to hear is 'do one thing for yourself today that will make you feel joy. it can be small. it can be going to starbucks to get a coffee' and then once shes used to doing that one thing for herself- shell start to make more healthy choices.
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
its not the most helpful thing to say to a depressed person actually its frustrating to hear that happiness is a choice. what someone really depressed needs to hear needs to be something much smaller and more managable than just 'chose to be happy' what a really sick person needs to hear is 'do one thing for yourself today that will make you feel joy. it can be small. it can be going to starbucks to get a coffee' and then once shes used to doing that one thing for herself- shell start to make more healthy choices.
so like its true but from the perspective of someone who wants to die its just too unmanageable and huge to even consider.
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uhyre wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
its not the most helpful thing to say to a depressed person actually its frustrating to hear that happiness is a choice. what someone really depressed needs to hear needs to be something much smaller and more managable than just 'chose to be happy' what a really sick person needs to hear is 'do one thing for yourself today that will make you feel joy. it can be small. it can be going to starbucks to get a coffee' and then once shes used to doing that one thing for herself- shell start to make more healthy choices.
so like its true but from the perspective of someone who wants to die its just too unmanageable and huge to even consider.
its wack how we dont get perspective until after the fact
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commander2 wrote:
to some degree bbut ngl i can think of circumstances n stuff where i feel like it'd just be too much or sth n u cant just turn tht around n become happy or satisfied or whatever 
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Claire wrote:
lamb wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
its not the most helpful thing to say to a depressed person actually its frustrating to hear that happiness is a choice. what someone really depressed needs to hear needs to be something much smaller and more managable than just 'chose to be happy' what a really sick person needs to hear is 'do one thing for yourself today that will make you feel joy. it can be small. it can be going to starbucks to get a coffee' and then once shes used to doing that one thing for herself- shell start to make more healthy choices.
so like its true but from the perspective of someone who wants to die its just too unmanageable and huge to even consider.
its wack how we dont get perspective until after the fact
yea its really unfair lmao but its your brain is literally sick you know and a sick brain cant have that healthy perspective
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