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BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i know my delivery comes off harsh sometimes in this type of thread but male behavior is often appalling and offensive to me in a visceral way. 
its the big sister in u tbh like the way u type is the same way my best friend text me with no bullshit I say this cause I care type of way
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Date: 13-02-2021 22:54
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Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i know my delivery comes off harsh sometimes in this type of thread but male behavior is often appalling and offensive to me in a visceral way. 
its the big sister in u tbh like the way u type is the same way my best friend text me with no bullshit I say this cause I care type of way

 now that my real little  sister is married all yall have tp suffer thru my sistering lmao
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Date: 13-02-2021 22:55
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BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
i know my delivery comes off harsh sometimes in this type of thread but male behavior is often appalling and offensive to me in a visceral way. 
its the big sister in u tbh like the way u type is the same way my best friend text me with no bullshit I say this cause I care type of way

 now that my real little  sister is married all yall have tp suffer thru my sistering lmao
god I need it sometimes 
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Date: 13-02-2021 22:56
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Ruined birthdays are the worst. It is ur own special day so that toally sucks. 
Date: 13-02-2021 23:03
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
reading abt ur relationship makes me so sad im sorry i know this isnt what u want to hear but EVERYTHING ive ever read abt ur man literally breaks my heart n just makes me wish rly rly strongly that u would realise u deserve better n break up w him bcos he literally doesnt seem to care abt u or ur relationship at all
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:14
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ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
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what does that even mean. how am i supposed to control what he does
it means, if you are romantically involved with him why would you continue to be in a relationship with him when he doesn't remember your birthday which clearly matters to you 

if he forgets my birthday he is telling me that doesnt give a shit about me and im out before he has a chance to do it again. now that hes gotten away with it twice why should he EVER give a shit about it in the future
Honestly I don't kno the birthday of any lf my friends cus like its not that big of a deal for everyone ig, so forgetting it could just b him not valuing birthdays the same as limbs 
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:15
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ouch wrote:
Anyways, following up to that, I would just tell him birthdays r a quite big deal for u, so u would appreciate if he rememberrs next year (lol not that cringy but) and then tell him what it is bla bla bla. That is if u havent already told him previously tho, that u think its a big deal
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:19
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Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
it means, if you are romantically involved with him why would you continue to be in a relationship with him when he doesn't remember your birthday which clearly matters to you 

if he forgets my birthday he is telling me that doesnt give a shit about me and im out before he has a chance to do it again. now that hes gotten away with it twice why should he EVER give a shit about it in the future
Honestly I don't kno the birthday of any lf my friends cus like its not that big of a deal for everyone ig, so forgetting it could just b him not valuing birthdays the same as limbs 
yea but it matters to limbs. if it matters to her then he needs to make it matter to him. 
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:20
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ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:

if he forgets my birthday he is telling me that doesnt give a shit about me and im out before he has a chance to do it again. now that hes gotten away with it twice why should he EVER give a shit about it in the future
Honestly I don't kno the birthday of any lf my friends cus like its not that big of a deal for everyone ig, so forgetting it could just b him not valuing birthdays the same as limbs 
yea but it matters to limbs. if it matters to her then he needs to make it matter to him. 
Im saying if he doesn't know that its that big of a deal to them 
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:20
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Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i wanted advice on how to work through the issue, constructively and healthily, like you do in relationships with ppl you care about. i'm very open to that. "dump him" is not it

y'all are making an awful lot of assumptions about things and it's getting fucking annoying honestly.
of course he knows my birthday, i did remind him about it this year, and last year he didn't forget we just argued a lot that day because he wanted to make the day special for me but he didn't really listen to what i wanted he just assumed and i got upset then. so there was an issue with communication. that's all.
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:35
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Limbs wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
reading abt ur relationship makes me so sad im sorry i know this isnt what u want to hear but EVERYTHING ive ever read abt ur man literally breaks my heart n just makes me wish rly rly strongly that u would realise u deserve better n break up w him bcos he literally doesnt seem to care abt u or ur relationship at all
there's a lot of good stuff in our relationship i just don't post about it here cuz no one wants to read that and i post about relationships when i need help with them.
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Date: 13-02-2021 23:38
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Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs I'm gonna go out on a limb (haha) here and assume that you don't actually want advice? Claire is giving it to you pretty damn straight. After the first time you should have brought it up to him - and if he forgot it a second time it's clear as day he doesn't give a shit.

Is there a possibility he just doesn't know your birthday? If so how are you with him after two years???? Is that even a relationship...
i wanted advice on how to work through the issue, constructively and healthily, like you do in relationships with ppl you care about. i'm very open to that. "dump him" is not it

y'all are making an awful lot of assumptions about things and it's getting fucking annoying honestly.
of course he knows my birthday, i did remind him about it this year, and last year he didn't forget we just argued a lot that day because he wanted to make the day special for me but he didn't really listen to what i wanted he just assumed and i got upset then. so there was an issue with communication. that's all.
Your relationship sounds exhausting and shitty. Also, you're not being very clear? You said he forgot and now you're saying he remembered but it just wasn't to your liking so you fought your entire birthday?

Sounds really healthy. lol. 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:57
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Dew wrote:
Also if it's an issue with communication, guess what'll solve it. 

communicating with him
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:58
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
reading abt ur relationship makes me so sad im sorry i know this isnt what u want to hear but EVERYTHING ive ever read abt ur man literally breaks my heart n just makes me wish rly rly strongly that u would realise u deserve better n break up w him bcos he literally doesnt seem to care abt u or ur relationship at all
there's a lot of good stuff in our relationship i just don't post about it here cuz no one wants to read that and i post about relationships when i need help with them.
i know, this is what ppl usually say when their relationship gets like criticised or whatever. but that doesnt take away from the fact that u seem to describe certain kinds of issues very frequently. i understand wanting to work on ur relationship but like i cannot shake the feeling that u deserve better

like what did u say to him when he forgot? u messaged him right being like 'hey its my birthday and u forgot...' right? what did he say?
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:05
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
also happy belated birthday lol !
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