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Octocat
Princess of Pop



octocat wrote:
I always knew I was attracted to both men and women, like from the age of 7 of smth.. but I didn't have a word for it so I didn't come out until I was 14. Now I'm almost 23 and identify more as queer/pan and don't really think of gender at all (obv I respect all genders and am an ally, but it doesn't matter for me in regards to attraction at all)

Thankfully I've had queer friends around me and supportive parents so I've had a relatively easy journey
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Date: 05-05-2021 18:22 | Times changed: 1
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ellem wrote:
Came out when I was 11 I think
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Date: 05-05-2021 18:24
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World Famous



Cute wrote:
I havent. Cause  I was never sure what I am, I'm still not. Like I've had alot of feelings for a girl, but i've been afraid to make a move (mostly cause my self esteem is close to 0) but also cause I'm afraid what my family will think.
My mom would probably be ok, but my dad might actually disown me :x but we'll see what happens if i find someone in the future :3
im a mess with my identity at the moment...

In our family everyone just assumes that everyone is straight and we dont talk about it :L like i did tell my grandma that i had a huuge crush on this girl long time ago, and they went "you're just confused"
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Date: 05-05-2021 18:32
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but alas i'm a lesbian
i'm gnc because i don't want to participate in the femininity race, like i'm just a woman who loves women, that's it.

i came out when i was 20? but my mom already knew since i was 12, lol. before that i thought i was first straight, then i fell into the tumblr gender rabbithole and was like "oh i'm a demigirl bi-romantic heterosexual!" to "bisexual" to "nonbinary gnc butch lesbian" to "heterosexual transmale" to where i'm today.
and i gotta say, this is the most comfortable and stable i've felt in years.
Date: 05-05-2021 18:37
Bimbo
Popstar



Bimbo wrote:
I haven't come out yet as gay, and I'm not even sure wtf my gender situation is so I can't talk to anyone about it if even I don't know what I am
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Date: 05-05-2021 18:52
Private
Minister of Pop



Azriel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
My mother told me no one will ever love me and that I'm unlovable. That's all I share. 
Jesus christ
I mean she's not wrong but she's right for other reasons than what she thinks 
Mm she sucks
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Date: 05-05-2021 18:57
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International Star



Raquelle wrote:
I was very defensive of gay rights and marriage and such as they were up for debate in the parliament (?) when i was like 11-12 i think
some members of my family didn’t agree
then when i later said that i’m dating a girl it was no surprise to anyone really
and i’m very much accepted in my family now. It took some convincing and arguments but they love me as i am. 

I’ve never really stated what kind of queer i am other than that i like at least women
because i’m not sure about anything else myself either
time will tell 🤷‍♀️
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Date: 05-05-2021 19:00
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uhyre wrote:
idk ive always been queer
i went the other way, thought i was gay for like, 13 years, until i realised that id let my bad experiences with boys being dickheads as a kid cloud my judgement a bit (#childhood trauma yeehaw) n after working on that for a while i realized theres nothing shameful abt liking dudes LMAO
but i guess that was just kinda visible in that i only ever talked abt girls and had posters of girls and went to queer camp. and i realised i had to come out as NOT a lesbian the day my dad dropped a "at least i wont have to worry abt u coming home pregnant one day" which was an interesting car ride, i think i was 14 or 15 mayb at the time
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Date: 05-05-2021 19:02
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kagura wrote:
i haven't ever really been a closet tbh i mean i was 4 years old when i told my mom i'm a boy? i'm not trans btw, but it was long journey for me and for the long time i though i was. now i just don't do genders idc
i haven't even been hiding that i'm not straight either. actually like otherway around, when i had my first boyfriend my brother straight up said "what the fuck so you are not a lesbian?" when he found out. and even if we lived together for 2,5 years my mom refered him as my roommate all that time. just imagine coming out as "straight" to your family, yep yep
i'm okay with dating any gender
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:12
EtherealPJM
Popstar



EtherealPJM wrote:
First time I came out, I was 11, came out as bisexual (afterwards I questioned my sexuality various times but I know for sure I'm bisexual now!) to my mom. she told me I was too young, tried coming out again when I was 12, still didn't accept me, even called me a d*ke at some point (she apologized for it, I've forgiven her) and finally she accepted me when I was 14, we were in the car and started having a real discussion, she finally accepted me, she's come a long way, she was just in a lot of denial before.  My dad just told me I was too young for a while but accepted me sooner than my mom did. bumpy road but I'm happy at where I am now
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:27
Zuli
Youtube Star



zuli wrote:
ah i haven't come out to my parents yet
tbh i don't think its like necessary for my parents to know, idk FOR ME i think it's pointless for them to know who i'm attracted to?? idk if it makes sense

my mom is pretty supportive in general, my dad...idk if i'd tell him bc it makes me uncomfy, and my sister is DEFINITELY fruity too lmao

i've always liked girls but realized it was an actual thing when i was 13 and i REALLY started to like one of my girl friends, but i still liked boys so i supposed i was bisexual
i was in a kinda toxic relationship up until early 2020 with a man, and when we broke up i was needless to say relieved and started questioning again

some of my friends are either bi or pan, so i've come out to them and they accept me, and that's the only thing that matters rn ☺

still can't figure out my sexuality tho, sometimes i feel like i'm a lesbian and sometimes i feel like i'm bisexual? definitely sapphic tho bc my attraction to girls never switches.

could i say i'm queer if my sexuality kinda switches like that? i'm not really informed on what queer as a sexuality actually is and i'd like to know more about it☺
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:43
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wug wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Jesus christ
I mean she's not wrong but she's right for other reasons than what she thinks 
Mm she sucks
she's not wrong
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:44
EtherealPJM
Popstar



EtherealPJM wrote:
zuli wrote:
ah i haven't come out to my parents yet
tbh i don't think its like necessary for my parents to know, idk FOR ME i think it's pointless for them to know who i'm attracted to?? idk if it makes sense

my mom is pretty supportive in general, my dad...idk if i'd tell him bc it makes me uncomfy, and my sister is DEFINITELY fruity too lmao

i've always liked girls but realized it was an actual thing when i was 13 and i REALLY started to like one of my girl friends, but i still liked boys so i supposed i was bisexual
i was in a kinda toxic relationship up until early 2020 with a man, and when we broke up i was needless to say relieved and started questioning again

some of my friends are either bi or pan, so i've come out to them and they accept me, and that's the only thing that matters rn ☺

still can't figure out my sexuality tho, sometimes i feel like i'm a lesbian and sometimes i feel like i'm bisexual? definitely sapphic tho bc my attraction to girls never switches.

could i say i'm queer if my sexuality kinda switches like that? i'm not really informed on what queer as a sexuality actually is and i'd like to know more about it☺
it's all just a spectrum, there's a youtuber who explained it perfectly but I don't remember their channel name
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:51
Zuli
Youtube Star



zuli wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
zuli wrote:
x
it's all just a spectrum, there's a youtuber who explained it perfectly but I don't remember their channel name
 i should check some vids out tbh
I just wanna feel comfy with a specific label bc i don't think bisexual or lesbian rlly fits me
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Date: 05-05-2021 21:55
Kalypso
International Star



kalypso wrote:
i never came out rlly, i dont owe ppl shit, if they are not ok with it i am not ok with having u in my life anyways
idk when i figured tho
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Posts: 20203
Date: 05-05-2021 21:59
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