hungover wrote:Crawk wrote:
i came out some year ago as bi to my mom and she was also just like 'ok, let's find u a partner' n i was like 'omg was that all??' lmAO
i was waiting for a different reaction but lmao i took it
and she has known for the longest time that i'm asexual so i didn't rly need to come out ever since i always talked abt not feeling any sexual attraction nor sexual in generalÂ
haven't told i'm nonbinary though because she doesn't under what trans means etc n i don't feel it's the right time either, so i'll do it whenever i feel comfortable
but yeah overall a great reaction
my brothers and my dad knows 2 that i'm bi and asexual n they weren't surprised either + i never made it a big thing n they didn't either so i'm rly thankful actually
I feel like parents often just know That their kids aren't straight, even though they haven't officially come out?
I get that, my mother is very political and an LGBTQ+ ally but I haven't bothered talking to her about my gender identity yet, I'm not even sure what I identify as I guess? I love being a woman, but I don't like being seen as a woman, yknow? I don't like the expectations/ disadvantages there comes with it, if that makes sense? I'm just me, not a woman, not a man, not nonbinary, just me.. Am I making sense?
true !! n tbh i was never interested in guys either n she knew that lmaO