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Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds like u might be falling in love then mayb
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ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
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yeah ofc! hmm idk i have one friend that i long for holding hands as much as with my partner, but the closeness feels deep in another way i think. it feels like i am safe, rather than that i feel romantically special? idk love's hard lol
Yesss exactly is more of a safe intimacy I guess????? I have one friend who I’m very very touchy w and I love to hug him and lie in his lap and everything but it’s completely different from a relationship ya know, this is just cus it’s comfortable and safe and idk.. is so hard to draw a definite line lmao
yeah idk i feel like friendships are more "pure" with pure intentions because you rly accept them for who they are and there is no passion in the way to make the view cloudy? so therefore the intimacy is kinda different but both can be as "intense" in my experience
Ye that’s a nice way of putting it
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hungover wrote:
ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
But like what kind of intimacy are you talking about? Purely sex or are you talking about something deeper? There’s a big diff heh

Sex, but also just like making out, and I feel so safe when we have sex, so so so safe and loved.
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Annie wrote:
ooh yes i need this
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hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds like u might be falling in love then mayb

Then how do I stop lmao
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Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds nice! maybe dont think too much about it and just give into the feelings you are experiencing? it might become clearer with time on its own

dont be scared of and worried about what type of feelings you are experiencing, i think just give into the experiences. usually it becomes clear on it's own (in my experience at least). just listen to your gut and dont try to rationalise it too much
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ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
But like what kind of intimacy are you talking about? Purely sex or are you talking about something deeper? There’s a big diff heh

Sex, but also just like making out, and I feel so safe when we have sex, so so so safe and loved.
I don’t think that’s necessarily romantic, could just be good sex with a friend you love? I’ve slept with multiple friends but that definitely doesn’t mean that I have any romantic feelings for them, even if I’ve longed for being w them again
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Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds like u might be falling in love then mayb

Then how do I stop lmao
good question ahahhaha
if i were u i would see other people or/and try to see them less and focus more on myself but i'm a dumb mf
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hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds nice! maybe dont think too much about it and just give into the feelings you are experiencing? it might become clearer with time on its own

dont be scared of and worried about what type of feelings you are experiencing, i think just give into the experiences. usually it becomes clear on it's own (in my experience at least). just listen to your gut and dont try to rationalise it too much

I guess. I think I'm just so scared of ruining our friendship IF I get romantically attached to them.
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Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see
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Rouya wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds nice! maybe dont think too much about it and just give into the feelings you are experiencing? it might become clearer with time on its own

dont be scared of and worried about what type of feelings you are experiencing, i think just give into the experiences. usually it becomes clear on it's own (in my experience at least). just listen to your gut and dont try to rationalise it too much
lol i realise i just said the same thing twice, anyway dont worry about it is my advice
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ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds like u might be falling in love then mayb

Then how do I stop lmao
… u don’t lmao
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hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
sounds like u might be falling in love then mayb

Then how do I stop lmao
good question ahahhaha
if i were u i would see other people or/and try to see them less and focus more on myself but i'm a dumb mf

I do! I try and seek out other people, but it doesn't feel the same. ):
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hungover wrote:
Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see

felt that
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ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see
Lmao relatable 
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