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those of you who dated a friend
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Nuola wrote:
Sol wrote:
Nuola wrote:
Sol wrote:
wow, that sucks a lot. sounds like a dickmove to me but also kind of like how my breakup went, lol. my friend wanted space from me & i didnt give it to him. he wanted that space bc he didn't like me that way, though, so there was a reasoning behind his actions. im not sure at what point you are rn in ur relationship with ur guy? have you offcially broken up, or are you still together? 

broke up in august. friends for just under a year first, then dated a lil over 8 months
hmm so u havent had contact at all since that time? 
maybe it's good to first understand why you want to contact him befor u do. what is your intention with contacting him? is it to be friends again, are you hoping you'll date again, or smth else?
there was some brief vague contact until i blocked him first after what his friend (the girl quoted from before), it triggered my mom-friend mode and i called him out for speaking through other people to say mean shit. i thought ghosting was cyberbullying bc im dumb. i haven't attempted to reach out in a few months now. i'm not sure i can ever reach out again without automatically being labelled even crazier than i already have been. i just really want to discuss what the heck happened because (it was LDR) i had no idea what was going on with him. all i was hearing was "i miss you", then "sorry i've been busy" then "i can't handle a relationship right now, but we can still be friends" and lastly "you're a good person, but there is no future in our relationship and we both need to move on with our lives separately"

he decided to break up on his own. so i don't know whether he was just trying to save face while he was going through a rough time or if he needed an excuse to get out of the relationship. when he told me while breaking up that he couldn't see him coming to me or vice versa, i was asking him why he didn't discuss it with me. i was quite literally working to make money to visit him there to see if we would live together well.
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bLNkBLrRY wrote:
yes and we still talk 

but i find him hard to tolerate now 

just red flags that i didnt notice before
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Gilmore wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
Going great so far. Never been so in love. 
I KNEW YOU'D BE HERE 
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Utdatert wrote:
I am currently in a 5 year long relationship and i concider him my bestfriend and i hope it never ends
Truly wanna marry him
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Physalis wrote:
sry
deleted me post cause it was a mess
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Arthema wrote:
Possible? yeah
it has to work from both sides though and if one is immature... it won't
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Physalis wrote:
but to summorize

have a dated a friend?
yes, once -didn't go well

were we able to regain our friendsship?
no, i tried -didn't go well

but then again, this was an extrordanairy case,
so in some cases yes, and in some cases no
you may be able to regain the friendsship,
if you were ment to be friends in the first place
if you ask me
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Nuola wrote:
Abby wrote:
Possible? yeah
it has to work from both sides though and if one is immature... it won't
it seems like we're both immature in our own ways. 
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Nuola wrote:
Physalis wrote:
but to summorize

have a dated a friend?
yes, once -didn't go well

were we able to regain our friendsship?
no, i tried -didn't go well

but then again, this was an extrordanairy case,
so in some cases yes, and in some cases no
you may be able to regain the friendsship,
if you were ment to be friends in the first place
if you ask me
that's something i keep mulling over, whether if something is meant to be or whether it has to be fought for in order to be
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Nuola wrote:
Physalis wrote:
sry
deleted me post cause it was a mess
don't apologize! i'm the real mess here
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Melody wrote:
i mean all my exes were my friends, idk how u can date someone without befriending them first??
anyway their behavior always changed once we began dating + in some cases i discovered some dirt on them, so nope my relationships have never lasted. longest one was like 1,5 yrs. all of them ended very very stormily bc i'm an unstable wreck and also attract unstable wrecks apparently 
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Versailles wrote:
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i'll come back to this later omg. I'm gonna live with a friend soon like 2 weeks.. We're on flirty note and we're gonna try dating. 
i hope all goes well!!
thanks!!! im super nervous because i think we'll have a good time and probably be sweet n v close.. Problem is the fact he lives another city and if the distance doesn't work although we want kinda date to be in relationship. But we talked about if it goes well and we talk/chat n meet irl every now and then this year and works well i'm willing to move abt a year/year and a half. But like, dont know what future holds, and hope it doesnt die out when we're not together. 
A lot of anxiety but cant control life, but tbh i feel like it's gonna b weird to still be friends and chat like nothing if things doesnt go that way yknow??? which can suck
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Arthema wrote:
Nuola wrote:
Abby wrote:
Possible? yeah
it has to work from both sides though and if one is immature... it won't
it seems like we're both immature in our own ways. 
then the chances are slimmer
I'm more on the mature side and both my exes did not have it in them to stay civil and they're not in my life anymore
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Date: 09-01-2022 02:23
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Nuola wrote:
Abby wrote:
Nuola wrote:
Abby wrote:
Possible? yeah
it has to work from both sides though and if one is immature... it won't
it seems like we're both immature in our own ways. 
then the chances are slimmer
I'm more on the mature side and both my exes did not have it in them to stay civil and they're not in my life anymore
we definitely have more mature personalities while still maintaining goofy behavior. but i don't think anyone handled the breakup appropriately. i was stubborn for answers and he refused to even say he wanted to be left alone. so i was left thinking from his last call that we can still be friends. so i took that literally. he didn't say friends now or in the future. it seems like he has communication issues when things get rough. so he seems to be lacking in maturity in handling his own problems, even if it is to say he needs time to think over how he wants to respond to the situation. which i don't blame him for, i have terrible anxiety and i can go quiet for days.
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Nuola wrote:
Melody wrote:
i mean all my exes were my friends, idk how u can date someone without befriending them first??
anyway their behavior always changed once we began dating + in some cases i discovered some dirt on them, so nope my relationships have never lasted. longest one was like 1,5 yrs. all of them ended very very stormily bc i'm an unstable wreck and also attract unstable wrecks apparently 
my phrasing is a bit odd, my bad. i meant dating someone you've been platonic friends with for an extended period of time. i am also lowkey an unstable wreck, and he knew about that because i'm a dumb open book.
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