thog2 wrote:ouch wrote:
Fr tho me earlier today ?? I told a dude I was out of snus since money with 13kr in my bank account (I don't remember the context but I didn't just say this randomly ok that would b weird), n he asked me if I wanted him to buy it for me, and I said "no, but yes, but I already owe u money bla bla bla" n then we talked abt owing money for a while n then I said "anyway u can pay if u want to but also u don't have to. But I am losing my mind lol" n then he sent me the money but idk how to formulate shit without sounding manipulative like that sounded like I wanted him to give me money hello !!!!! But I was fine without the money fr !! I feel like im manipulative all the time and everyone around me feels manipulative to me but I think mby I just think too seriously abt regular conversation, cus its too easy to sound manipulative imo, bad shit bad shit
i need to befriend stupid people so they dont think deeply about what i say so they dont ever interpret it as manipulation (not for manipulation purposes!!)
I agree hopefully he was stupid in that moment so he just sent me money to be nice n not cus he was manipulated lol I hate life