Rowan wrote:bones wrote:Rowan wrote:
i think its like sth else if u call other people a slur n stuff but it annoys me when people try to tell other people they cant reclaim a slur that would apply to them y'know?
idk i dont rlly fit in w other ppl who r lgbt most of the time
esp w trans its also jsut tiring bc ppl debate on whos valid or not (liek bruh theres a lot of stuff i dont get bbut idk why i should care u know) n then w others i just cant relate to them at all etc. so i dont rlly see a point in seeking out other trans people anymore lmao
im all for reclaiming shit 😌
it's hard to navigate
so many ppl are super horny for gatekeeping............... i guess so they wont feel as opressed idk just my theory.............. i stay away from those places lol "discourse" and gatekeeping are less than worthless and i cant believe communities have devolved into that 😌
ive also been so gatekeep-y in the past ngl n i still catch myself being sorta like wtf at neopronouns n stuff bbut its like whatever u know, like i used to be 1 of those ppl like 'this is why ppl dont respect trans ppl' BHBVDFHV jsut looking for stuff to be mad about u know
its just sad ppl feel the need to like harass people n stuff
i dont rly fault u for that honestly being trans online is a. hostile experience