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Versailles wrote:
damn id be mad uncomfy and not rlly knowing what to answer. What did u say when he said that? 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:03
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Tell him to stop being obsessed with other people's sexuality, it's extremely weird and creepy. 
I mean everyone affectionately calls him a lil bitch including myself so I may be a hypocrite, he seems to find it funny tho

I don't ask him about his sexuality or gender tho cuz... idc? Hes 22 and hes not my type 
He asked you about yours and isn't into you either allegedly.... 
Like telling him it's inappropriate would be 1000% times less weird than him accusing people of being gay. 
I mostly just call him a lil bitch cuz hes super whiny and likes to accuse men of being gay and is just you know the kinda guy who is more sensitive than he likes to admit 

Like really calling a woman 4 years ur senior a dyke... is a lil bitch thing to do so the shoe fits
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:03
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
idk why youre uhhing so ill just make myself more clear lol

speculation about your sexuality is not an appropriate topic for the workplace and it is in fact sexual harassment. dude gets bonus points for being male and using the word dyke lmao. 
Yeah honestly imo only like.... wlw can claim the word 

Also for the icing on the cake ANOTHER MALE COWORKER who obviously has the hots 4 me like... made some gross ass comments about jerking corn I'm not getting into 

Atf???? Was this day
send a mail to hr to send them all to those sensitivity training Jesus, is no one at this place afraid to be fired? 
It's incredibly hard to get fired there, hell I've come in drunk and I still have a job (tho I quit cuz that isnt cute and i got into trouble that I rightly deserved 4 it)
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:05
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Versailles wrote:
damn id be mad uncomfy and not rlly knowing what to answer. What did u say when he said that? 
I laughed it off and made jokes if I recall 

I mean what else do u say 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:07
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Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Versailles wrote:
damn id be mad uncomfy and not rlly knowing what to answer. What did u say when he said that? 
I laughed it off and made jokes if I recall 

I mean what else do u say 
a good strategy i've found out about when somoene puts u in an uncomfortable position like this is to straight up be like "I don't get it. Can you explain that to me. Is it a joke? What makes it funny. I just don't get it." turns it around and makes them the person in an uncomfortable positoin. laughing at the awkwardness of it gives them permssion to continue such innapropriate 'jokes' but its kkind of an instinct to respond with awkward laughter.
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:09
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December wrote:
ngl if i didn't know you've had a bf i would've thought you were a lesbian. you have that vibe but in a good way
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:11
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
December wrote:
ngl if i didn't know you've had a bf i would've thought you were a lesbian. you have that vibe but in a good way
I get it a lot, it's not being seen as gay that bothers me 

Its dudes at work being weird about it and using slurs 

There's a time and a place, retail work isn't it 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:13
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Versailles wrote:
damn id be mad uncomfy and not rlly knowing what to answer. What did u say when he said that? 
I laughed it off and made jokes if I recall 

I mean what else do u say 
a good strategy i've found out about when somoene puts u in an uncomfortable position like this is to straight up be like "I don't get it. Can you explain that to me. Is it a joke? What makes it funny. I just don't get it." turns it around and makes them the person in an uncomfortable positoin. laughing at the awkwardness of it gives them permssion to continue such innapropriate 'jokes' but its kkind of an instinct to respond with awkward laughter.
Good idea, I agree I went too easy on him 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:14
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Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
I laughed it off and made jokes if I recall 

I mean what else do u say 
a good strategy i've found out about when somoene puts u in an uncomfortable position like this is to straight up be like "I don't get it. Can you explain that to me. Is it a joke? What makes it funny. I just don't get it." turns it around and makes them the person in an uncomfortable positoin. laughing at the awkwardness of it gives them permssion to continue such innapropriate 'jokes' but its kkind of an instinct to respond with awkward laughter.
Good idea, I agree I went too easy on him 
but like its so awkward like even having a strategy like this in the moment you can be like too shocked to use it you know i dont like blame u for going easy on him cause this kind of thing is so uncomfortable 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:17
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
a good strategy i've found out about when somoene puts u in an uncomfortable position like this is to straight up be like "I don't get it. Can you explain that to me. Is it a joke? What makes it funny. I just don't get it." turns it around and makes them the person in an uncomfortable positoin. laughing at the awkwardness of it gives them permssion to continue such innapropriate 'jokes' but its kkind of an instinct to respond with awkward laughter.
Good idea, I agree I went too easy on him 
but like its so awkward like even having a strategy like this in the moment you can be like too shocked to use it you know i dont like blame u for going easy on him cause this kind of thing is so uncomfortable 
I'm hoping he doesn't do it again 

Seeing the look on his face when trianna called him a whore was great, that girl is whip sharp lmfao 

I mean if ur gonna talk about disliking whores and call women dykes it kinda serves u right man
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:21
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Good idea, I agree I went too easy on him 
but like its so awkward like even having a strategy like this in the moment you can be like too shocked to use it you know i dont like blame u for going easy on him cause this kind of thing is so uncomfortable 
I'm hoping he doesn't do it again 

Seeing the look on his face when trianna called him a whore was great, that girl is whip sharp lmfao 

I mean if ur gonna talk about disliking whores and call women dykes it kinda serves u right man
Really doubt hes gonna think "maybe I shouldn't say that kinda stuff to my female coworkers" tho 

But I'll give him a chance 
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:21
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Versailles wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Versailles wrote:
damn id be mad uncomfy and not rlly knowing what to answer. What did u say when he said that? 
I laughed it off and made jokes if I recall 

I mean what else do u say 
 Like ofc u wanna b cool with co worker but still it's v weird, next time just like.. ask what he mean by that if he says something dumb weird sht again to u
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:23
December
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December wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
December wrote:
ngl if i didn't know you've had a bf i would've thought you were a lesbian. you have that vibe but in a good way
I get it a lot, it's not being seen as gay that bothers me 

Its dudes at work being weird about it and using slurs 

There's a time and a place, retail work isn't it 
yeah most dudes are gross honestly, so sorry you have to go through that
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Date: 14-02-2021 01:35
Six
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Six wrote:
Claire wrote:
it means youve been sexually harassed by your coworker
ya im pretty sure this is a form of sexual harassment
i didn't think dyke was a slur but some people think it's a slur

again though, imo, depends on your relationship with your coworker and how comfortable you are with the level  of humor.  like in australia this would be no big deal lol.
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:29
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MissLondon wrote:
If you call him Lil bitch to his face 
maybe he felt comfortable and considers it
as just jokes 🤷🏾‍♀️ 
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:56
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