Limbs wrote:
i haven't come out to my family, i kinda feel like it's not necessary but also am just nervous about some of their reactions. i think my dad suspects it though cuz he's asked my brother if i have a bf or gf before.. . telling my bf (not yet bf at the time) was my first like real coming out moment, i was so nervous ahah. we were on a date and his reaction was just like oh ok that's cool, good for you. lmao so that was nice
i started to understand i was bi at around 14 or 15 maybe? n i struggled with it at first, it took me a while to realize that it was ok. and i wasn't sure about it for a long time lol i took so many "am i bisexual" quizzes. i'm still discovering my gender, that's been years in the coming as well and i felt rlly anxious about it back then. now i'm kind of content just being chill about it n not trying to force myself to fit into a box. i'm just doing what feels good and if i can't say whether i'm cis or not maybe that's ok actually. u know?