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Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see
Lmao relatable 
no u see.... i am having trouble w them atm.... and yet i still struggle w this
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:55
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Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
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Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
sounds nice! maybe dont think too much about it and just give into the feelings you are experiencing? it might become clearer with time on its own

dont be scared of and worried about what type of feelings you are experiencing, i think just give into the experiences. usually it becomes clear on it's own (in my experience at least). just listen to your gut and dont try to rationalise it too much

I guess. I think I'm just so scared of ruining our friendship IF I get romantically attached to them.
hmm well, do you know how they feel? bc it sounds like the feelings may be mutual, if you have been together 4 times already. sometimes this just happens with friendships lol they develop and i think it's better to just continue doing this if it makes you happy and not worry about if you're ruining it. by fighting the feelings you might also ruin it, so there's no way to control it really. just go with it
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Evey wrote:
hungover wrote:
Evey wrote:
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Then how do I stop lmao
good question ahahhaha
if i were u i would see other people or/and try to see them less and focus more on myself but i'm a dumb mf

I do! I try and seek out other people, but it doesn't feel the same. ):
damn u might have fallen into the trap ............ a lost cause ...
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Annie
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Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see
Lmao relatable 
no u see.... i am having trouble w them atm.... and yet i still struggle w this
gonna go cry now
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:56
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ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
i dont like this thread i refuse to read i do not see
Lmao relatable 
no u see.... i am having trouble w them atm.... and yet i still struggle w this
If u wanna explain more ur welcome to if you want an outside perspective? 
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:56
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hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
sounds nice! maybe dont think too much about it and just give into the feelings you are experiencing? it might become clearer with time on its own

dont be scared of and worried about what type of feelings you are experiencing, i think just give into the experiences. usually it becomes clear on it's own (in my experience at least). just listen to your gut and dont try to rationalise it too much

I guess. I think I'm just so scared of ruining our friendship IF I get romantically attached to them.
hmm well, do you know how they feel? bc it sounds like the feelings may be mutual, if you have been together 4 times already. sometimes this just happens with friendships lol they develop and i think it's better to just continue doing this if it makes you happy and not worry about if you're ruining it. by fighting the feelings you might also ruin it, so there's no way to control it really. just go with it

We've agreed multiple times to not be fwb, and to not sleep together when we get an apartment together. And I doubt they feel the same, they still sleep with other people.
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:57
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ellem wrote:
I suck at love why am I handing out advice 
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:57
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hungover wrote:
Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Lmao relatable 
no u see.... i am having trouble w them atm.... and yet i still struggle w this
gonna go cry now

If you want to talk about it, go ahead! This thread is for everyone struggling with something. <3
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Date: 19-08-2021 18:58
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hungover wrote:
ellem wrote:
I suck at love why am I handing out advice 

Dude I do the same, I suck at love but I'm giving out advice to friends, just can't take the advice myself lol
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Evey wrote:
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I suck at love why am I handing out advice
not me repressing my feelings for my current boyfriend for the first 2 months of dating until he said he loved me and i was like ooOOOhkay let's see here what are we dealing with mhmm oka y i can still gtfo mmmhmmm is that what i want to do hmmmM
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Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:

I guess. I think I'm just so scared of ruining our friendship IF I get romantically attached to them.
hmm well, do you know how they feel? bc it sounds like the feelings may be mutual, if you have been together 4 times already. sometimes this just happens with friendships lol they develop and i think it's better to just continue doing this if it makes you happy and not worry about if you're ruining it. by fighting the feelings you might also ruin it, so there's no way to control it really. just go with it

We've agreed multiple times to not be fwb, and to not sleep together when we get an apartment together. And I doubt they feel the same, they still sleep with other people.
ah... well, i dont mean this in a negative way, but the friendship is probably already changed to something different after having been together 4 times, no matter the feelings you experience regarding it. however, you might want to talk to them about the feelings you're having, and if they don't reciprocate the feelings then definitely do not sleep together again - especially if you're moving in together. that's just a recipe for hurt

but if you dont feel safe talking with them about the feelings and you might know already that they dont reciprocate them then well... same goes, don't sleep together again and maybe take a bit of a break to get some distance so your feelings can cool down a bit
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:00
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ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
ellem wrote:
I suck at love why am I handing out advice 

Dude I do the same, I suck at love but I'm giving out advice to friends, just can't take the advice myself lol
Hahaha sitting here with the biggest crush on someone I definitely shouldn’t b crushing over since it’s so fucking complicated lmao… also not doing anything about that crush other than dumping and complaining lol
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:00
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ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
I suck at love why am I handing out advice
not me repressing my feelings for my current boyfriend for the first 2 months of dating until he said he loved me and i was like ooOOOhkay let's see here what are we dealing with mhmm oka y i can still gtfo mmmhmmm is that what i want to do hmmmM
Hahahaha love people giving advice about things they’re clueless about 
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:01
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Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Lmao relatable 
no u see.... i am having trouble w them atm.... and yet i still struggle w this
If u wanna explain more ur welcome to if you want an outside perspective? 
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:01
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Rouya wrote:
also i want to emphasize that there's nothing wrong or bad with the feelings you're having, you just might want to protect yourself if you know that they aren't being reciprocated and you're moving in with this person. dont feel ashamed or bad, but also take care of yourself and it's ok to protect yourself by putting some distance between the two of you until your feelings have calmed down a bit x
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