What age is most attractive to you - Forum

Alam
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Alam wrote:

Random wrote:

Hajime wrote:

Random wrote:
I mean...my friends have bf 10 years older and it's not that big of a deal with them, since they are on the same page with things between them. Wanting same things and respecting other is the key.
As long as both are adults and fine with it, all good in my opinion.

That doesn't make it right.. I'm 20 and for me a 17 year old is still such a child. I don't understand how a 27 year old and 17 year old could look fine in any way, it's weird and very wrong imo

17 year old isn't an adult in my country though, so I wouldn't think that's ok either. But if you think person is 20 and dating someone who is 30, no problem. 30 and 40, no problem etc.

Also me and this guy have 5 year gap.

So an 18 year old with a 28 year old is fine because it's legal? Sussy sussy baka

Private
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uhyre wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
Maybe I should have specified and asked separately between what age looks most attractive to you and what age you would actually date bc that's 2 very different things, at least for me.

i may find 65 year old attactive but in theory i would not leave the my age + 5 years bubble
theory bc i am already in a reationship but u kno

Private
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meilin wrote:
20-25, i'm 22

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Nanami wrote:

Alam wrote:

Random wrote:

Hajime wrote:
That doesn't make it right.. I'm 20 and for me a 17 year old is still such a child. I don't understand how a 27 year old and 17 year old could look fine in any way, it's weird and very wrong imo

17 year old isn't an adult in my country though, so I wouldn't think that's ok either. But if you think person is 20 and dating someone who is 30, no problem. 30 and 40, no problem etc.

Also me and this guy have 5 year gap.

So an 18 year old with a 28 year old is fine because it's legal? Sussy sussy baka

So 25 and 35 don't work u think? Just need to know, bc something idk how some ppl think.

BunnyButts
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BunnyButts wrote:
20- 30 is my range of date able

MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:
36-60
big range, really depends a lot, though generally I don't see the appeal to people in their 20s (which has been a trend since I was 17, si kinda problematic, but to be fair, I'm 25 now and the age range hasn't really changed, so I guess it really is more of a general aesthetic appreciation for that age range and the aging process that takes place during that time - honestly, I could explain it if someone were to care, but I'm not about to write out 3 paragraphs on why I think aging is sexy if no one gives a shit)

Alam
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Alam wrote:

Nanami wrote:

Alam wrote:

Random wrote:
17 year old isn't an adult in my country though, so I wouldn't think that's ok either. But if you think person is 20 and dating someone who is 30, no problem. 30 and 40, no problem etc.

Also me and this guy have 5 year gap.

So an 18 year old with a 28 year old is fine because it's legal? Sussy sussy baka

So 25 and 35 don't work u think? Just need to know, bc something idk how some ppl think.

All I'm saying is there's a lot of gray area and I don't base my morals solely on what's legal. 25 and 35 is not the same as 18 and 28.

Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
im 21 and idk maybe 24-25 if it's a man, same age if it's a woman
always just a few years older if it's a man they do be fucking unevolved (bc women r forced too while men r not)

Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:

kalypso wrote:
im 21 and idk maybe 24-25 if it's a man, same age if it's a woman
always just a few years older if it's a man they do be fucking unevolved (bc women r forced too while men r not)

but like this is what i would date, there is ppl older than that i find attractive

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kagura wrote:
uhh... well that's a good question. like i don't think people's age very much, because ??? dunno, for me it's impossible to even tell someone's age. like sure you can usually tell if they are closer to 20 or 30, but you know. but in general sure i guess i found people of my own age most attractive like 24-30 yo
that's also pretty much my dating range

Pixel
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Pixel wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
36-60
big range, really depends a lot, though generally I don't see the appeal to people in their 20s (which has been a trend since I was 17, si kinda problematic, but to be fair, I'm 25 now and the age range hasn't really changed, so I guess it really is more of a general aesthetic appreciation for that age range and the aging process that takes place during that time - honestly, I could explain it if someone were to care, but I'm not about to write out 3 paragraphs on why I think aging is sexy if no one gives a shit)

tbh I'm quite curious to hear your explanation

MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:

Pixel wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
36-60
big range, really depends a lot, though generally I don't see the appeal to people in their 20s (which has been a trend since I was 17, si kinda problematic, but to be fair, I'm 25 now and the age range hasn't really changed, so I guess it really is more of a general aesthetic appreciation for that age range and the aging process that takes place during that time - honestly, I could explain it if someone were to care, but I'm not about to write out 3 paragraphs on why I think aging is sexy if no one gives a shit)

tbh I'm quite curious to hear your explanation @MasileinDE

oh boy, are you in for a treat
so, basically I'm just really into things that makes people look middle aged or above (the beginning of wrinkles - mostly crows feet and you know, smile lines - diminishing hairline - receding hairline is just way too sexy imo - and the general metabolism changes that for men are called dad bod and for women get called - because society is terrible and hates women just wherever it can - getting fat and unfit). So basically, I'm really into people where you can see that they are past their 30s, preferably even approaching their 40s. I think it's mostly the implication of live experience that makes them attractive to me; there's really little I enjoy more than being able to have an exchange about life experiences and basically the knowlegde you accumulate over a lifetime.

And yeah, since this has been around since I was a late teen (which, yikes) but hasn't changed really a lot ever since, I really think this is mostly an aesthetic thing rather than anything else.

(now, I should probably add that I'm ace and when I say someone is attractive to me, I don't mean in it a "I want to sleep with them" way but more of a "I want them around in my life" way. Though I do appreciate the traits I have listed above as being appealing visual traits, I differentiate considering someone to be dashing or goodlooking very much from being sexually attracted to them in a way that goes above being able to appreciate them for their looks. I think the closest I could get to describing it is with art. You may find art you think is very pretty, you enjoy looking at it and would even like to have it in your room. But you're not interested in sleeping with that piece of art or masturbating to the thought of it. People are like art to me.)

Private
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Nanami wrote:

Alam wrote:

Nanami wrote:

Alam wrote:
So an 18 year old with a 28 year old is fine because it's legal? Sussy sussy baka

So 25 and 35 don't work u think? Just need to know, bc something idk how some ppl think.

All I'm saying is there's a lot of gray area and I don't base my morals solely on what's legal. 25 and 35 is not the same as 18 and 28.

It is, bc when u are 18 u are a grownup. And if both want the same thing I don't see what is wrong?

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ouch wrote:
27+

Private
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ouch wrote:

ouch wrote:
27+

I don't date anyone cus why but for sex lol