Alam wrote:
Your intention legit doesn't matter here, the result is the same; you worded your post poorly and said something rude. You don't apologies for someone's feelings getting hurt, you apologies for your part in that happening.
MissLondon wrote:
shamed in any wayÂ
since that wasnât the intention.
As for my vibe
Itâs likely that Iâm biasedÂ
by the determination of my patientsÂ
theyâre fighters
so if that translates as ableismÂ
or any other negative connotationsÂ
it is what it isÂ
but sorry for that too
You realise how that's worse, right? Such a shitty, backhanded, passive aggressive thing to say oh my lord.Claire wrote:
I apologize if my post made you feel MissLondon wrote:
When you meet someoneÂ
do you introduce yourself as
âHi, Iâm Autismâ or âIâm Claireâ?
Idk, itâs just that people seemÂ
to allow their diagnosis to define them rather than
âIâm a person with diagnosis x, and Iâm livingâ
Or at least, thatâs the vibeÂ
Itâs not solely an autistic thing eitherÂ
imo anything that prevents you from
living your best life (excluding money/material things)
or enjoying regular activities is a handicap.
I hope this made sense
I mean yea itâs literally a disability lmfao almost everyone on this site is literally handicapped and you say it like itâs something we should have shame about. Thatâs the vibe I get when you say people on vp are a certain way  like itâs lowkey ableist When you meet someoneÂ
do you introduce yourself as
âHi, Iâm Autismâ or âIâm Claireâ?
Idk, itâs just that people seemÂ
to allow their diagnosis to define them rather than
âIâm a person with diagnosis x, and Iâm livingâ
Or at least, thatâs the vibeÂ
Itâs not solely an autistic thing eitherÂ
imo anything that prevents you from
living your best life (excluding money/material things)
or enjoying regular activities is a handicap.
I hope this made sense
shamed in any wayÂ
since that wasnât the intention.
As for my vibe
Itâs likely that Iâm biasedÂ
by the determination of my patientsÂ
theyâre fighters
so if that translates as ableismÂ
or any other negative connotationsÂ
it is what it isÂ
but sorry for that too
Your intention legit doesn't matter here, the result is the same; you worded your post poorly and said something rude. You don't apologies for someone's feelings getting hurt, you apologies for your part in that happening.