low empathy? - Forum - Virtual Popstar

Leinna
National Star

Leinna wrote:
So you want to stop doing harm out of the goodness of your heart instead of being a "bad person" that doesn't do harm?
But... isn't that if you don't harm other ppl you are actually a good person?
Empathy is a result of mirror neurons. Their effectiveness differs from person to person. You are born with a certain level of empathy and you can't really change that. Do you need to feel this magic, pure, disneyish empathy to be considered a decent human being? No! Then what should you to be percieved as such?
Just use a freaking

common sense

.
If you want to do something just think before that "Is it going to harm someone?". If not, then do that. If yes, then don't. It is that simple. If you learn some pattern on what is harmful and what not , you don't need empathy at all.
Also there's nothing wrong in doing good things for your own interests ( unless you want to harm someone in the future). People do such because living in harmony = good things for them, and being an asshole = yeah it might be fun for a while but it's gonna backfire on them anyway.

Private
Popstar

autism wrote:

Abbys wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Abbys wrote:
I meant that I personally wouldn't write confusing posts that could easily be misconstrued

Why do you always think other people are the problem

very Little I have said in this thread could be easily misconstrued because I have been genuinely straight forward what are you on about

this thread is literally about my biggest problem. do you think i see myself as a flawless perfect humanbeing?

you called this thread troll-ish

it either is a troll or it isn't. there is no ish

have you considered that maybe you don't have low empathy and you are in fact just a bad person

Parasite
Princess of Pop

Parasite wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Parasite wrote:

devilcake wrote:
What we’ve learned is that u are both an angel and highly empathetic

Yes, tell me all ur struggles. I feeeel u<3

Hey hey hey are you an

empath

*cue Shane dawson*

Private
International Star

wug wrote:

Alam wrote:

autism wrote:

devilcake wrote:
They never will they’re so boring sigh

they are i will never know if they have lower empathy than i do so mean!

They're embarrassed they got a normal score, flattens the edge

ah yes of course

Hmm
National Star

hmm wrote:

PetaI wrote:
it's german but.. just look at the pics idc
x

average person i stan it

5sar
International Star

5sar wrote:

Account deleted

wrote:

Klasifikovany wrote:

Eostre wrote:

Klasifikovany wrote:
no

stop, i literally couldn't answer several of the questions properly bc the scenarios are like just idek and i definitively have a difference between the stages in my life u know just based on emotional capacity so like sorry i just wanna indulge my own ego here

how would it be solved by separating the results based on age and gender

i'm not a scientist!! i am just like "sounds nice, okay, well go for that" this is my worst infp quality

Account deleted

wrote:

hmm wrote:

acidreflux wrote:
these type of quizzes also never goes into dividing things into sex, because there's a massive difference between how men and how women feel and express empathy.
i kinda wanna know how the standard for the quiz was made and such. it would be very interesting to see how women and men score differently also based on age as well to get a fuller picture of the test answers.

that makes sense but at the same time not so much because i don't think that most women keep in mind these kinds of differences, they end up assessing themselves in the same way someone of another gender would really, not like ohh im a woman ive been conditioned to be uwu dainty princess who submits to men uwu.. if i got ur point lol

female socalisation can do a lot to your mind.
that's why it's often times unconscious decisions that that makes these differences known.
it would be interestering to have a control group + a group that had acknowledged or were aware of the differences.

Private
National Star

Sylvan wrote:
Why am I so low on cognitive empathy is this an autism thing

Account deleted

wrote:

Eostre wrote:

Klasifikovany wrote:

Eostre wrote:
stop, i literally couldn't answer several of the questions properly bc the scenarios are like just idek and i definitively have a difference between the stages in my life u know just based on emotional capacity so like sorry i just wanna indulge my own ego here

how would it be solved by separating the results based on age and gender

i'm not a scientist!! i am just like "sounds nice, okay, well go for that" this is my worst infp quality

that ppl ever gave me any type of trust on this site is a absolute wonder

5sar
International Star

5sar wrote:

lovelin wrote:

is this bad am i bad person am i in my evil era

Private
Youtube Star

devilcake wrote:

Abbys wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Abbys wrote:
I meant that I personally wouldn't write confusing posts that could easily be misconstrued

Why do you always think other people are the problem

very Little I have said in this thread could be easily misconstrued because I have been genuinely straight forward what are you on about

this thread is literally about my biggest problem. do you think i see myself as a flawless perfect humanbeing?

you called this thread troll-ish

it either is a troll or it isn't. there is no ish

You need to stop being so hung up on specific words. It was a quick throw away thing in a long as thread. I know this thread is not a troll thread, the only reason I said trolling was in relation to you past behaviour, and I think the way you get hung up on this sort of thing is like,,, a lot of the issue in why it’s hard to communicate with you in a way that is like actually valuable

Account deleted

wrote:

hmm wrote:

PetaI wrote:
it's german but.. just look at the pics idc
x

average person i stan it

my therapist said i have too much empathy

Hmm
National Star

hmm wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

hmm wrote:

acidreflux wrote:
these type of quizzes also never goes into dividing things into sex, because there's a massive difference between how men and how women feel and express empathy.
i kinda wanna know how the standard for the quiz was made and such. it would be very interesting to see how women and men score differently also based on age as well to get a fuller picture of the test answers.

that makes sense but at the same time not so much because i don't think that most women keep in mind these kinds of differences, they end up assessing themselves in the same way someone of another gender would really, not like ohh im a woman ive been conditioned to be uwu dainty princess who submits to men uwu.. if i got ur point lol

female socalisation can do a lot to your mind.
that's why it's often times unconscious decisions that that makes these differences known.
it would be interestering to have a control group + a group that had acknowledged or were aware of the differences.

at the same time, being aware of said differences can lead to many biases, not denying that it's useful to acknowledge it but

Abbys
Karaoke Star

Abbys wrote:

autism wrote:

Abbys wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Why do you always think other people are the problem

very Little I have said in this thread could be easily misconstrued because I have been genuinely straight forward what are you on about

this thread is literally about my biggest problem. do you think i see myself as a flawless perfect humanbeing?

you called this thread troll-ish

it either is a troll or it isn't. there is no ish

have you considered that maybe you don't have low empathy and you are in fact just a bad person

partly correct. i think i'm a bad person because i have low empathy.

it's complicated.

i think i'm a good person in some ways but bad in others.